Are there people jealous of you?
@western_valleygirl (1363)
United States
January 10, 2007 10:10pm CST
I told my husband that I think some people are jealous of us, (although I really don't know why, with all the stuff we have going on), and he was skeptical at first. But, lately, he told me that he has been feeling pretty jinxed, because of all the crazy things that have been happening and going wrong. And just the other day, an acquaintance of his came over, and was shocked to know that we had gotten married (we were married in my home state), and it was the first time he had seen our home, etc. My husband has been telling me for a few a days now, that he didn't feel comfortable with his buddy (even though he is a nice guy), because of the way he was remarking on all the changes in my husband's life.
I told him that I have always felt that jealous people give off a bad vibe, and can jinx others, and that we should just avoid the people that don't have the kind of feelings and respect for us that we do for them and their lives. Do you feel that there are people that have unwarranted jealousy towards you, and that it might be negatively impacting your life?
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@Sawsen (793)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Well, I think I know exactly what you're talking about. There is this woman who I think just dislikes me and my husband and everything we have. She doesn't like us too much but she is always calling us and trying to see how our life is. It gets a little annoying at times, but I just have to try and be the better person and let it go.
@Caylacaylacayla (234)
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11 Jan 07
Some girls are jealous of me because of my boyfriend as he is really good looking.
I've had to deal with them in the past but thankfully they've wised up now and relised that just because they hate me goinf out with him it isn't going to make us break up.
XD
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@western_valleygirl (1363)
• United States
11 Jan 07
You are lucky. My friend is high school, had so many people jealous of her, because her boyfriend was the hottest guy in school, that they had a tough relationship, and it ended right after high school. So many girls constantly tried to break them up, and we (our group of friends) told them to work it out, or just keep it together until senior year ended, so that the other jealous people wouldn't know how bad it was going. Good luck, and don't let your guard down, even things meant to be, have to be worked for. :)
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@Caylacaylacayla (234)
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11 Jan 07
Yea im glad it has so far, but its only been three months yet, and just as a matter of a fact, i was told lol 3 days ago just that this girl was spreadn around that she went with my Boyfriend last saturday night, when, he was actully with me and she was telling people he was all over her,
it was oviously not throughj because i was with him all night and then went back to his , god.. some peopl like ! lol its unbelievable how far they'l go !
i left her a msg saying how pathetic she was acting and to get a life lol, harsh but it had to be said ! :]
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
11 Jan 07
I have had people feel this way at times, I worked hard in my younger days to pay my first place off, I have never rented, but a few people said a few things about that and now I am out enjoying myself when most of my friends are married and unfortunately not very happy but I think it is a case of the grass always looks greener.
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@queenajasmina (449)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Of course I belive this is true. People do give off bad vibes or they could just be sarcastic with some of the things they may say to you. Whatever you want to call it its not good. I read this book about people dipping out of your bucket when they put negative energy on you.
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@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
17 Jan 07
From experience, you might find a lot of people with negative vibes. If you have a good thing going or dreams you are planning to make come true, you can be sure someone you know will try to spoil the party.
It is a good idea to avoid those who might negatively influence you. The jinx you mention is indeed the seemingly harmless comment from someone, becoming part of your thinking. Before you realize it, you have been tossing their "innocent" comment around in your mind. It then works at destroying your good ideas, dreams and desires.
Take care of who says what and how it affects you. Those crazy things are happening for a reason. Keep the misguided thoughts of others out of your everyday thinking.
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@poohandchocolate (348)
• United States
16 Jan 07
It seems like that guy is jealous of your husband's new life. Maybe he's not married and envies what life your husband has now. You might not think there's anything to be jealous about, but there's always someone that's jealous for some reason. That guy doesn't seem to be a real friend, because friends wouldn't act that way. There are some people that have been just mean to me and I couldn't find out why because I have never done anything to give that person a reason to treat me so bad. Everyone I know tells me they're probably jealous and I don't know why they would be jealous either like you said. I guess some people just rather be jealous than be happy with what they have.
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