I am inlove with my bestfriend

I've been there girl. Only, he was the one who first "fell" than me.
Though it's a risk to get into such kind of "misdemeanor", i would say you can't fool your emotions. It's up to you if you want to tell him about it, but it would be a little shock to him if you'd take the first move.
Don't worry about friendship being broken, especially when time comes that you two proceed to the next level, because your friendship brings much advantages (if ever).

I think you should tell him about your feelings. I'm sure he will understand since he is your best friend. I have a friend who was falling in love with her best friend too, now they have been going out together for a year.
Good luck=)

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Haha. It just reminded me of being in the exact situation as you are now. I was so inlove with him.. just like you feel now.. i cant live without him.. its like we wanna keep him forever.. But the thing is, you cant just tell him directly how you feel. Just take it slow. In my situation, i am madly inlove w/ him. He was so immature and cant accept the fact that I love him.. Our friendship fell apart 4 years ago.. and we never talked to each other ever since. But still when I saw him last month, its just like the feeling is still there. Well anyways, you cant just expect that your bestfriend will accept directly how you feel towards him coz its kinda awkward knowing that somebody loves you yet youre not even sure of what you feel for him/her. Im not saying that he doesnt love you or anything. There is a possibility that he'll love you in return or just treat you as a friend. And will always be a friend.. Thats the sad thing. We just cant force someone to feel the same thing we do. So just continue loving the guy but if it wont work, then do something about it. or simply move on and just accept him as only your friend.:( Love hurts so bad yet it can make you feel so happy w/ things like seeing the guy, the guy holds your hand, talking to him.. Love is such a strong feeling especially when youre bestfriend is involved. Best of luck to you.


Hope you wont have the same ending as I did.

Well its not a happy one. Its eventually accepting the fact that he's just a friend and im just his friend.. then i have moved on. But now, just enjoy the feeling.:)

you should tell him the truth. He will be having same feeling for you. If its not you will come to know the what is the situation.

Falling in love is a risk. Much more, falling in love with a bestfriend. As you have just said, falling in love with him would mean losing the friendship. But what is love without risk? Follow what your heart tells you, girl.

you will tell her truth .

i guess thisis a question tht comes in everyone's life smtime or the other we tend to like the person with whoom we spend most of the time with we tend to get attracted and thn infactuated and thn finally tend to love him ending in a sitution whr we strt lovin him to a very gr8 extent but we still remain unknown of the situation theother side.
if u tell hhim thr wud be two possibilite one wud be tht he l say even i love u and u both will ahv a happy life forever n evr after and secnd since he is ur best frnd i guess he wil definitely understand and if he does not feel the same fr u he will help u also to cm out of it.
so i guess u r at a benefiit frm both sides if u tell him the truth.

You are deep in love with your best friend so there is nothing bad and by the way why are you jelous for that, you should be happy that you love him and soon you both will be close to each other and be in a good relation forever, don't worry and go ahead with your love life, you will get sure good things in life with your partner.

I see no problem in that. And no you're not losing him as your friend, but you will became even closer since you both know each other very well. Your feelings are just natural but as of the moment is more like a one way street love. Cool lang, no need to rush things take it one step at a time and eventually let him fell in love with you as well.