Ex-Husbands and Custody  

that she needs to either get full custody or needs to grow a backbone and help out with the disipline. i have full custody of my son and he goes to his father's every other weekend. my son tried doing that "well daddy let's me do this" and i told my ex husband either he needs to start disiplining our son like i do ir i will go back to the court and get supervised visits. even though we are not together we are still a team that needs to raise this little boy. well he straightened up real fast.

Kids need mother and father. If father is abusive, different story, but if is not, kids need him. I wouldn't take my kids away from father. She has to learn how to stand up to her ex.

I always feel lucky my exhusband and I didn't go through these kinds of difficulties. Split time is insane to me. Visiting is one thing and shared custody another. If this were a good friend and she asked for my advice, I'd tell her to go back to court for full custody in order to get child support. This kid is going to be playing these two against eachother every chance he gets. If the dad is mad, so be it. It's not like telling the guy he can't see the child.

i think they both need to grow up as my wife moved away with my daughter and didnt tell me where they moved to and i have searched for nearly three years for them.
by chance found out where they were living and also told that my ex wife had died and the uncle was caring for daughter.no one told me, been accused of physical abuse.
i am now going through court to try and get some contact.
they need to work something out as all kids need both parents and the only one that loses out is the child, please bear that in mind as i am talking from personal experience.

i think they should both grow up, as i have found out.
my wife moved with my daughter and didnt tell me where she moved to and i searched for nearly three years and by chance found out where they were. but to also be told that my ex wife had died and the unbcle was caring for my daughter.
i am now going through the court to try and get some contact with my daughter.
so i think from personal expereince that kids need both parents and i also think they should work something out as the only ones that miss out are the children, please bear that in my mind