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My best friend' sister is dieing from cancer. I can't afford to go be with them email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 37/100. judyt00 (2726)   ranked 3,779 out of 23,077 in relationships3 years ago

I live a whole continent away from home .I feel terrible that they need me right now and I can't afford to fly out to be with them and halp them through this. The poor woman was just put into a hospital this morning. How can I possibly console my friend and her dieing sister from this distance?

 
 
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classy56 (2203) response was accepted on 1/24/2007.
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tags:  death, grief, church, cancer, death in cancer
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. classy56 (2203)   ranked 2,937 out of 23,077 in relationships   3 years ago

call an right to them an let them know that you are thinking of them,they will understand if you cannot afford to go to be with them.i know it hurts but because you cant be there


myLot reputation of 37/100. judyt00 (2726)   ranked 3,779 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

I do that whenever possible but my friend is at hersister'sbedside most of theday. The sad part is that her daughter is on the other side of theworldworking with refugees from the Darfur crisis and can't possibly fly home until March.


myLot reputation of 93/100. classy56 (2203)   ranked 2,937 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

is their any churches that can help you to come up with the money to see her.


myLot reputation of 37/100. judyt00 (2726)   ranked 3,779 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

I don't go to church, and wouldn'taccept money from one anyway


myLot reputation of 86/100. few00cent (629)   ranked 3,263 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

who can help you if you don't want others to help you.....on one hand you saying that you are really upset because your best friend sister is dyeing in pain due to some killer disease and you wanna be there but can't go because you don't have enough money to fly and on other hand you saying that you won't take any money from anyone...if you really upset for your best friend sister than whats wrong borrowing money from anyone and to fly there?...man don't be arrogant ...if they seriously need/wish you to be there..then just borrow money from any one and go there .it's seem by your post that you are very close to your best friend family members(sister)...i would really urge you to anyhow manage money and fly there .do remember..."A friend in need a friend indeed"
i hope for best and may Lord Shiva gives her(your best friend sister)long life.


myLot reputation of 37/100. judyt00 (2726)   ranked 3,779 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

My bank has just upped my spending limit on my crdit card! I now have the funds available!

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. stonehr (635)   ranked 5,887 out of 23,077 in relationships   3 years ago

This is so horrible with such a thing. I mean for Your freinds' sister. It's so hard to console them. Sometimes we can't do anything like in your case of distance. I'm sure they understand you even a little bit, but I know that they want you to come to visit them. I'm so sorry for your friend's sister, I don't know what to say more...


myLot reputation of 37/100. judyt00 (2726)   ranked 3,779 out of 23,077 in relationships  3 years ago

Thank you, itsgetting close to the end, my friend calls nearly every day, worried that her sister will be in more pain than she already is..

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