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myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)2 years ago

I while back I had asked if I would have to worry about my daughter getting married. Well not anymore.
She called me last night in tears because the guy she was dating broke it off last night. He said that he didn't love her anymore because she had changed.
I really hate the fact that he did this over the phone. He's in Iowa and she's in North Dakota.
I want to know why these guy have to be such jerks and do this stuff over the phone instead of in person?
He was the one that started talking about forever with her and now its over. She is really crushed because she hadn' done anything wrong.
He said she was to demanding. Let's see, she wanted to spend the last night of her stay with him before going back to school and he ditched her in a bar. She was upset told him that and he got really mad. A week later its over.
He is 29 years old and acts like a 2 year old. Why do guys have to be such jerks and cowards. My daughter is a beautiful young lady and has a lot to offer someone. She thinks that God is punishing her, and wants to know why bad things always happen to her. I told her God wasn't punishing her and there is someone out there that won't break her heart. Didn't help.

 
 
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mzbubblie (1661) response was accepted on 1/19/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (11086)   2 years ago

Sorry she is dealing with this, but it seems like she is much better off without the guy. Could you imagine is she had married him and got stuck with him acting like a child? Shoe would have been so unhappy. I hope the next one she finds treats her better and is more mature.


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

She says she's never going to go out with another guy again. She can't trust them. This one told her he would never hurt her and he did.
I just hope she finishes school and moves on.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. mzbubblie (1661)   2 years ago

I'm sooooo sorry to hear that about your daughter, you know you have to be in mommy mode and comfort your babygirl. She's going to need it while her heart mends. I don't understand why some guys are not man enough to tell a female or vice versa face to face...I personally thinks he was doing things he had no business doing...saying she is being "demanding" to get out it. That works both ways I know..But if they know someone is in love with them, they could have the respect to at least face her. That really was coward move.
Mother to mother, just be there for her as you always have, eventually she will realize she didn't deserve him. Good luck to you and your babygirl..It's just one of life lessons learned....


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

This is the third time this has happened. Last time she was going to kill herself. Thank god for her roomates.
We had to go get her because they committed her to the psyc ward. It was the scariest thing she ever had to go through.
She says this time she won't be that way. I hope not. I want to just go up there and give her a big hug. She says she will never trust a guy again. This one said he would never hurt her. Yeah right.
I should go and kick his butt but I won't. Thank you so much for all the kind words. She is my baby and I will be there for her no matter what.


myLot reputation of 87/100. mzbubblie (1661)  2 years ago

If you need me to go with you, let me know...:) I got a mean right hand hehehehe...yanno she is just one of those females that fall in love easily....she is fragile and it's possible when she break up she looks for someone else to take away the pain of the last..Just a thought being it is her third...the word for you is SUPPORT, she needs that more than anything...I know when I'm down in the dumps, yes even at 33, I will still go to my mom and cry on her shoulder...and she welcomes me with open arms...that's a wonderful feeling...she needs it...good luck lady...to you and your babygirl...


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

Thanks for the offer. I called her again today and she still is sad but a little better. I know she will get over it. This is the third one that has dumped her. She's young there's plenty of time.
I will take her in my arms the next time she's home. Thanks again


myLot reputation of 87/100. mzbubblie (1661)  2 years ago

Anytime...You are a great mom and even though she being younger she knows mom is ALWAYS gonna be there, it shows through your posts how caring and loving you are...

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. missyd79 (2891)   2 years ago

obviously he was not ready for a commited relationship and eventually she will see this, she just needs sometime to heal her broken heart. She will be okay, it is just going to take time.


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

I tried to tell her that but she says she's done. She can never trust any man again. I really don't blame her she has gone through alot of crap. I know she will bounce back but it may take awhile.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. reinydawn (2637)   2 years ago

I think God is looking out for her. ALthough it isn't easy, this guy was not going to make her happy. She needs to live for the moment and when she does find that right person it will be something very special for them both. I hope she does not have to go through too much heartache before that happens...


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

Thank you. She asked my why god was punishing her. I told he wasn't. It just happens and it happens to alot of woman. She will get over it but it will take time.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. vmiller1024 (527)   2 years ago

I know she probably doesn't belive it now, but she will be mcuh better off without this guy. And I feel sad for you too-- I can't imagine that someday some boy will break my daughter's heart!


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

It is really hard. I was kinda hoping that it would be the other way around where she was breaking their hearts.
She is such a tender hearted person that she takes thing really hard. She will be okay. I have faith in that.

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6. myLot reputation of 93/100. harxian (540)   2 years ago

how sad to hear that, your daughter has nothing to worry about she is beautiful theres someone who deserves more of her love and not that guy who broke her heart its not your daughters lost its his lost.your daughter has to moved on and prove to the guy he is wrong your daughter must be strong to face this trial in her life she really needs you to be by her side.life must go on girl.


myLot reputation of 94/100. beautyoperater (1162)  2 years ago

So true, I told her the same thing but it was hard for her to hear right now. I know things will eventually get better. It's just getting through it right now that's hard and the fact that she's so far away to where I can't just give her a big hug

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7. myLot reputation of 83/100. 7nicole1 (1566)   2 years ago

it is probly for the best - be thankful they hadn't married with an attitude like that.

 
8. myLot reputation of 38/100. snow2007 (162)   2 years ago

Just talk to her explain its not gods fault or anyones. Some guys can be jerks and some aren't. I know it will take time to heal but when you do i hope you find someone nice and settle down and have a family.

 
9. myLot reputation of 51/100. Mecboy (842)   2 years ago

i think God has helpmates, God is a kind god, You know so probably he calls other god or Goddesses.
Maybe a Falcon Or A Phoenix, Cna help.
EVEN A Fall Out Boy! God isn't punishing her.
If she wanted to kill herself, yikes thats like in Julius Caesar. Brutus kills himself, Some of his other friends kill themselfs. Others die in a war. The rest either were free or killed themselves. Brutus was honored after dieing but.
I suggest your daughter not to kill herself.
But Yeah she will be okay, she might remember something else.
Im barely a kid 15 years old. hmm.

 
10. myLot reputation of 83/100. 7nicole1 (1566)   2 years ago

I think your daughter will eventually find happiness but you have to go through the bad to get to the good.

 
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