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fortyzwife (63)   ranked 3,214 out of 23,177 in relationships3 years ago

My husband is an alcoholic. ( I cant spell) My mother was one, my grandfather, uncles, aunts, they are all addicted to drinking. And everytime he comes home drunk it makes me sick. I love him soo much, but the drinking is really bothering me. And he tells me he wont stop drinking until all the kids are out the house. My youngest is 2 months! I just cant deal with it anymore. Its starting to really affect me and my desire for him. I dont have the passion i used to for him, and i think it has a lot to do with the drinking. Dont get me wrong, i love him to death, but the PASSION... the drinking is ruining my marriage. I dont know what to do anymore... any tips on how to deal with it.. to bring the passion back?

 
 
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1. gabbys (15)   ranked 19,759 out of 23,177 in relationships   3 years ago

well, am sorry you had a lot of adicted people around you, what you shouold do is to read more of him, how you will say, what makes him go into drinking there must be a particular reason, he went into it, what can you do to assist, maybe to double or even triple your care over him, take him as your son and love him more than before. assist him if he can register with the AAA groups to find a solution to it.


fortyzwife (63)   ranked 3,214 out of 23,177 in relationships  3 years ago

My mother is recoveing going on 5 years, and we have tried to convince him to go to AA. He refuses. But you think i should try and replace the beer with love? I think thats what ur saying?


gabbys (15)   ranked 19,759 out of 23,177 in relationships  3 years ago

i think you got my message right, replace the beers with much love. you got it right.


fortyzwife (63)   ranked 3,214 out of 23,177 in relationships  3 years ago

Thanks

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2. myLot reputation of 38/100. rockky (159)   3 years ago

ur absolutely wrng coz alcohol spice up realation ship n make sure...ur husband will really love u more when he is drunk..lolz


fortyzwife (63)   ranked 3,214 out of 23,177 in relationships  3 years ago

thanks for your opinion but obviously if i feel like its a problem then why would i find it humorous that he would "love me more when he is drunk"

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