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myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933) 6 years ago

I bought a new and expensive kind of electric drill. I haven't even taken it off from the box when my neighbor borrowed it saying it's just something urgent. So I lend it to him. After a few hours he returned it and said "I'm sorry, I burned the motor" I was terribly dissapointed but I just said "no, problem" but deep inside, I was furious and I should have asked him to pay for it. Put in the same situation, What will you do?

 

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tags:  sorry, drill, neighbors, tools, borrowing
 
1. myLot reputation of 89/100. malaekat2an (330)   6 years ago

well, if that happend to me, i'll ask him to be responsible for things that he have done. I trust him by lending him my motor drill, and he shouldn't burnt the motor after such generousity that i've gave him.
I like to be frankly open to others, even if it broke his/her heart, still im not the one in the wrong side. I ask his responsibility is a very reasonable thing since i can choose. To choose just keep silent and grumbling within my self, or speak up and tell him how he has dissapointed me with things that he've done, and ask him how he would responsible for his ask. If he can't afford it, then just ask him to pay with something else, such as cleaning my front garden, or washing my dishes for a week / month ...


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

good suggestions! I'll think about that. thanks.

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2. myLot reputation of 71/100. Prince_Magma (5146)   6 years ago

Yes it is enough. But sometimes we need some times to heal the hurt feeling we made.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

This is my struggle.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. 3r7sweetie (815)   6 years ago

I'd get furious, too. But, like you, I think I wouldn't be able to confront him. It's just hard to blurt out and confront a neigbor straightforward and say he should pay for it. I think the neighbor himself should take the initiative to replace it even if you do not say so. Doing so would back up his sincerity of being sorry.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

that's what I was waiting for. Although I didn't expect outright replacement but at least a portion of it but unfortunately he didn't offer anything.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. tictac714 (538)   6 years ago

No sorry is not enough. He should have offered to pay for it. And if he is the kind of person who wouldn't even offer to pay for it, then you should not need to feel bad asking him to.
Personally I don't lend stuff to people for this exact reason. And if I do, it's to a close friend, and something not terribly important, like a book.
If you feel guilty about not lending people things, try not to let them know what exactly you have.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

that's maybe a good idea. thanks.


myLot reputation of 81/100. nuffsed (870)  6 years ago

Presumably the drill has a replacement guarantee. So isn't it a matter of inconvenience really?
Of course your neighbour is a pig and should have behaved with some respect, but you will get a replacement wont you?
I'd tell my neighbour not to bother asking for a loan of a tool again. Once bitten twice shy!!!

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5. myLot reputation of 52/100. cloud_kicker_32 (3796)   6 years ago

UGGHH! THAT angers me..if it was me,i would have said..i understand your sorry..but that was brand new..could you please replace it? or something like that..Noo sorry was not enough in this case..if it was like a screwdriver..or hammer..ok..theer pretty cheap./lol..but if it was me..no matter what i would have broke i would have repaid for got another,,and thats what they should have done..Also..if you just bought this..is shoudl have a warranty..u should take it back and see about getting another..


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

the warranty says defects caused by abuse on the part of the user is not covered.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Stephanie5 (1756)  6 years ago

Try taking it back to the store...9 out of 10 times, they will exchange it. WHen they ask what happened, just say you were using it to drill in a screw and it started smelling like it was on fire...and now it won't work. You don't have to tell them that you lent it out.

It is a brand new drill, and I don't know what he could of possibly been doing with it to burn it up so quickly, but regardless, it's brand new and they really should take it back..It's worth a shot becuz you probably aren't going to get any money out of him...If he was going to replace it, he would of done so or atleast offered to.

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6. equalizer (46)   6 years ago

That's terrible, I will tell him Im going to buy a new one and ask him to pay at least 50%, that's it. If I am in a bad mood I might even ask him for a replacement.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

yes, 50% sounds fair enough.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Stephanie5 (1756)  6 years ago

I don't think that's fair. You didn't even get to use it. I would be asking for the whole amount!

If I borrowed a new item from someone and broke it, I would expect for them to ask me to pay for a replacement. Although I would offer, they wouldn't have to ask. Why should you have to pay 50%? You didn't break it or get any kind of use out of it...it was brand new!! Stand your ground! He is responsible for replacing it.


myLot reputation of 81/100. nuffsed (870)  6 years ago

No I would not accept 50%
He didnt borrow 50% of a drill and he returmned a whole burned out drill

One new drill please.

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7. myLot reputation of 85/100. MsRetro (232)   6 years ago

I'd ask him to replace it. It doesn't need to be an angry confrontation. Just explain to him that it's new and you'd never even used it.

Just a side question though... did the drill come with a warranty? There's a chance the store might replace it.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

I've checked that out. The warranty only covers defects not caused by abuse on the part of the user.

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8. horusthesin (75)   6 years ago

you kept the reciet right? just return it and get a new one, at least now you know it was a piece of crap and wasn't worth the money you paid for it...just go get a new one that works more than one time.


myLot reputation of 92/100. manong05 (2933)  6 years ago

unfortunately the warranty does not cover misuse on the part of the user.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Jaytech (675)  6 years ago

How can the shop prove it was misused? just tell them you started to drill a hole & it burned out!

they haven't got a leg to stand on.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. honeyangel (1440)   6 years ago

no sorry is not enough he should have offerd to pay for a new one

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10. naim123 (18)   6 years ago

u have to be carefull about ur things and i think u shud ask him to pay but be nice n obviously sorry isnt enough for this kind of mistakes

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