How you'll come 2 know that u r in love ?

Your energy is "UP" when u-r in love. You're always inspired and glowing inside and out. You see world so differently, so beautifully anything to that effect... SMILING. You always smile, a very shallow reason but it's true.

I think that you would know if you have really fallen in love when you start asking yourself, "What can I do for him/her?" and not "What can he/she do for me?" It means self-sacrifice.

when i know i can grow old with this person and die with him..my husband loves me but is not in love with me..buthe says that is better and longer lasting..cos the girl he was in love with it didn't last more than three months..

When I fell in love with my wife,it was a continuum. We just enjoyed hanging out together as friends and got closer and closer,both of us were not even thinking of a relationship. We grew closer and clsoer and soon just fell for each other.It was not love at first sight but a deep friendship that let us freely express ourselves. I think love creeps up on you.When you are honest to yourself and the next person,then it will happen. I think you have to be true to yourself first and you will find the right love for you.