Recurring nightmares

@Thomas73 (1467)
Switzerland
February 2, 2007 12:00pm CST
I suffer from PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome). I have never seen a psychologist to confirm it, but I am aware of this condition I've suffered from in its various aspects for almost 20 years now. One aspect, among others, of this mental distress is the recurring nightmares. Various scenes are re-enacted at night during a pretty restless sleep, mixing memories of reality with new elements of what occurred more recently and twisting them all in the most hideous way, and all with a common thread originating from what caused my condition. I was wondering if anyone here had the same problem, and how they coped with it without having to seek professional help.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Feb 07
i felt sad about your sickness...have you been drinking some medicine for that...do you follow some ecommendations from your doctor???i havent have any of that kind of sickness ...all i can say is try prayer...its the last result to any problems , sickness that human may suffer...try talking to God in terms of prayer ..
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 07
No medicine, no doctor... and certainly no prayer! I'd need to believe in the first place. But thanks for the advice anyway.
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@Melizzy (1381)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I t have PTSD Thomas. I had a bad trigger over the summer and ended up in intensive therapy. The only recurring dreams I have aren't really the dreams themselves, but what I'm doing in the dreams. I'm always flying. Actually, doing Matrix like jumps from one place to another. And of course the dreams about the ex.
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 07
I'm sorry to hear that you suffer from the same predicament. Incidentally, I don't know why I typed 'Syndrome' for the explanation of the PTSD acronym, as I meant 'Disorder'. Anyway, many people here seem to have various levels of this condition. Thanks a lot for sharing.
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
3 Feb 07
I actually havent suffered from the same but I find it very scary. It must be very traumatic to be getting twisted nightmares. I guess professional help would be best - they would talk you through it and probably give you some sleeping pills for a few days to help you get a sound sleep. For a more temporary solution, maybe you can try out meditation every night before you sleep. Do some breathing exercises and put ona meditation CD. This should probably help you clear your mind - maybe worth a try.
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@sunshinecup (7871)
2 Feb 07
Force yourself to relive the moment in question as often as you can, when your alone. Being alone your more apt to really let the emotions out. Face the trauma until it losses it's shock factor. Go through all the emotions it releases and let them flow. Yes I have it, and it is what helps me. I no longer have the nightmares like you have. I do however still have the “flashes” if the circumstances are just right to reenact the event. That I can not change nor stop, but just let them pass as they occur. I have them under control to the point it is unnoticable to others, except my Husband, but he knows what to look for. However, forcing it to the surface on my grounds, on my command, tends to help prevent it from doing so in it’s own. Something else I do is write about it in the finest detail I can. Then delete it. It almost makes you so sick of reliving it, your mind stops trying to do so. Hope somthing here I suggest helps.
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
2 Feb 07
This is an unusual piece of advice, but certainly worth investigating. Force myself to relive it as often as I can? I don't have to, as it comes to me, often unexpectedly, and causes a distress that I have learned to hide quite efficiently now (as in your case, except to my wife). I have written about it, but I couldn't make it 'til the end and had to stop halway through. Then I deleted it. I'll try to give it another shot, though. Thanks a lot for the advice.
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@kathy77 (7485)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
Well I would say that a lot of this may be coming from your conscienience these nightmares it may not be something that you have done recently it may have been when you were young or what you seen when you were young to cause this PTSD as this is normally where the majority of any mental illness comes from as I suffered a mental problem for over 25 years but thank goodness I learnt to solve it my way and now it has not come back for the last 5 years they say I was very friendly to the mentally ill and should of been a councellor in regards to this I told them well you forget that I used to be a patient and therefore I undersand the people that are sick more than any psychologist.
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 07
It went away after 25 years? My problem's been there for 20 years or so, it had periods of 'dormancy', but flared up lately due to recent developments in my personal life. The mind works sometimes in extremely strange ways. Anyway, I'm glad that you finally overcame your problem.
• United States
3 Feb 07
I have recurring nightmares and most are from dealing with some trauma I experienced and as of late I have insomnia because I am almost afraid to sleep for fear of what I will dream,it almost seems nightly now. I am seeking medical attention for it.Hope it helps soon!
@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 07
Afraid to go to sleep, yes I experience that too. Good luck with your medical help.
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• United States
3 Feb 07
I don't have PTSD but my fiance does have PTS. He has gone to the military psychologist after his deployments. His isn't really the disorder, it's just the stress. He has night terrors and has a few new habits (biting his nails). They are pretty small things and aren't too hard to deal with most of the time. I know that the night terrors get really violent and he sometimes will push me into the bed flat, telling me to get down. We are working through it with help from doctors. And it's going well! I would go to the doctor if I were you. They can really help!
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 07
The night terrors get pretty violent in my case too. I have apparently done a few things at night, of which I have no recollection. My wife can now determine when such ugly events are likely to occur and has a small matress ready under the bed that she slides out to sleep on the floor when I get a bit too violent during my sleep. Scary, eh? But I'd still rather avoid seeing a professional.
• Nigeria
3 Feb 07
Recurring nightmares usually have a personal meaning for each individual. are they occuring after a stressful event in your life? did they start happening when you were going through some changes? ie schools etc? The next time you have the nightmare try journaling about it as soon as you wake up. See what comes into your mind. I once attended a seminar where they got us to write a qestion about a recurring dream with our dominant hand. (What is the dream trying to tell us or something like that) And then with our nondominant hand we woud answer. For me it was quite effective. I found out what my dream meant and was able to stop it. You might come up with an answer that way. Also, I have never done it but I know people who plan their response to such nightmares. They decide that they will for example chase the bad men. Once they have done this the nightmares stop.
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@missjackie (1357)
• Ypsilanti, Michigan
3 Feb 07
Since I am working on a psychology degree, I can give you some input. I would suggest that you go see a professional psychologist, to help you work with your PTSD. Your nightmares will eventually go away, if you can get help with your PTSD. I know that when I was having problems with it, it eventually lessened, because I got help. Plus, the professional can also help you work out other issues.
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@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Thomas I probably shouldn't reply to the post as I do not have PTSD. I am however, a mental health nurse practitioner. The advise that 'sunshine' gave in response number two, is exactly what a therapist would do with you if you did seek professional help! They would help you to 'work through' the event by reliving it. It sounds like you aren't interested, but just so you know, there are some medications that can help with the flashbacks and bad dreams until which time you have worked through the problem. I am sorry that you are suffering. Again, I apologize for posting since I do not actually have the disorder.
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
4 Feb 07
Suffering from PTSD is not a pre-requisite to answer in this thread. After all, you're a mental nurse -- a crazynurse ;) -- and you know what you're talking about. So no need to apologise. Incidentally, I'm the one who apologises to those whom gave meaningful feedback and to whom I didn't answer. The responses are all read and rated, but I don't always have the time to answer everyone. But thanks anyway! :)
@avs189 (1030)
• India
3 Feb 07
Really sad on hearing your story,,,i also have a character similar to that of you....i would advise you u spend most of time in writing ...whenevr at night when u feel sleepless ...take out pen and diary nd write down your thoughts....keep the diary close to yourself and make yourself feel comfortable...
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• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i had. i prayed to God. No more bad dreams.
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@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
3 Feb 07
I don't know about PTSD but I have a re-occuring night mare. I have been having it since I was about 7. I am going down into a basement with wooden stairs (so real that I can hear them creaking). The first room in the basement seems fine. Washer, dryer, table to fold clothes on, and canning shelves. I go into the second room and there is a hole in the floor with a cistern lid with iron handle laying next to the hole. I go over to the hole and peer down in. Coming out, making me jump from fright is a white creature (Man?) with white flowing hair and long nails. I them wake up crying. Just typing this, I am getting chills.
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
4 Feb 07
Strange. Your story reminds me of this picture: http://www.maidenfans.com/imc/pictures/pictures05b_lad/album05b_lad_a.jpg
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• Malinta, Ohio
4 Feb 07
Pua white robe on him and take the chains off and that could be him. Ssudder at the thought...
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• Malinta, Ohio
4 Feb 07
I don't know how that happens. I go over... correctly change the spelling and it come up this. (Put) (Shudder)
@ananth85 (209)
• India
3 Feb 07
The answer to this is: Mediation. Try to concentrate on something apart from what you usually do, or better just don`t think about anything at all. It`d be little difficult to start. But, in the long go, you`ll find yourself cleansed, and your thoughts purified. You`ll start feeling Life energy flowing across your body. This will put an end to your Nightmares, what ever extent they are at present. All you have to do is to try to divert your attention to "Nothing". During deep meditation, try to fetch the cause of your syndrome, and kill it there. Do it daily, to establish peace within yourself. Hope everything turns out well. Goodluck!
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
3 Feb 07
I do think that execrise and relaxing yourself will help you sleep better but this kind syndrome is something you suffer from having bad exprience ... so you need to overcome it , the best is you see a psychologist frequently yea
@kerbausama (1335)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 07
Early intervention after a traumatic incident, known as Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) is often used to reduce traumatic effects of an incident, and potentially prevent a full-blown occurrence of PTSD. Relationship based treatments are also often used.PTSD is commonly treated using a combination of psychotherapy. HOPE YOU BE BETTER SOON.
@gamekid (208)
• China
3 Feb 07
Fortunately,i havn't meet the problem as yours!You'd better seek doctor's help!Don't shunt!
@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
3 Feb 07
The fact that the trauma is persisting in this way seems to indicate that you are still reacting to it. There are some things you can do for yourself which are non-toxic, and are prescribed for the physiological issues in nightmares, using biochemical salts. They’re also cheap, and easy to get. From experience I can say that they do work and do definitely have a role to play in some pretty gruesome mental phenomena. If you also feel bilious: Sodium sulphate, potassium sulfate, and potassium phosphate. Sodium sulphate is an antacid and a liver-cleaner, which removes compounds which can stress the body by raising acidity levels. In severe instances the acidic “pollution” aggravates the patient, and perhaps also stimulates parts of the brain which you’d rather weren’t stimulated. Cleaning up the liver, need I say, is also extremely useful for stressed people, letting it do its job properly. Potassium sulphate is a wound healer and blood cleaner, used to deal with everything from strained muscles to issues where good circulation and removal of the physiological results of stress are important parts of recovery. Potassium phosphate is used to restore levels of necessary electrolytes to the nervous system following stress, or physical injury. Lacking this mineral makes some mental experiences noticeably worse, as I found out personally, very much the hard way, when I had depression. These and the other biochemical salts are also useful for maintaining general health; the stronger you are, the better able to deal with stress. They're easy to look up on the net. As far as I know they don't interact with medication, either, but ask, anyway. I hope this is some use to you.
• Singapore
20 Feb 10
Usually, it's better to explore the root of the problems if you want to deal with the problem yourself. What are the recurring nightmares scenes related to? What's the cause of these nightmares? You need to ask and answer these questions. Sometimes, it may be phobia for something and stress. Then you have to overcome that phobia and find ways to relax.