Man gives his pregnant girlfriend abortion-pill in food

@Marie2473 (8512)
Sweden
February 6, 2007 6:07am CST
I was SHOCKED to say the least when I read this article. Both the man and woman are 26 years old and lived a good life, UNTIL she got pregnant. He was more interested in finishing his studies than becoming a father so he started giving her abortion-pills in her food. She started bleeding, vomiting and was in alot of pain, and he regretted what he had done. Took her to the hospital and confessed. She left him ofcourse and the baby actually managed. There is a trial coming soon and I hope that he will spend alot of time behind bars för what he did!! For me - abortion is one thing - but to force it on someone is unacceptable!
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I agree with you that he should spend a LOT of time in jail for this. What a selfish, self-centered, and dangerous thing to do. He could have killed the baby (which was his intention), but who knows what those pills could have done to his girlfriend? Hormones are nothing to mess around with, especially since I'm sure he had no idea what he was giving her or at what dose. Imagine if she had suffered a blood clot resulting in s stroke? This is horrifying. I agree that abortion should be a choice available to the mother, but this is totally wrong. This could be considered to be attempted murder for the baby, and there should be some charges for the harm to the mom, as well. Wouldn't it make more sense for him to just be a selfish scum-bag and leave her? What makes him think that this was his decision to make?
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• United States
8 Feb 07
Laurie, you said it all right there. How dare he do that??
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
Exactly, he should have just left and becamed a deadbeat dad instead of a murderer. Or the least he could have done was talk about it with her - for real!!
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@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
7 Feb 07
This is terrible. If he is so against pregnency they should make sure it before hand. And aslo they could talk temself if they can go for abortion, then decide what to do. How can be someone so cruel. She must be going through a very panic situation.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
That´s my point, atleast he should have discussed the alternatives with her, not just take matters into his own hands!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
6 Feb 07
OMG! Where did this happen?? Man I would have the s.o.b hobbled if he were to do that to me! Thats just sick and insane IMO...Do you know what he's being charged with??
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
That happened here in sweden, and he is just beeing charged with abuse wich will giv ehim up to 2 years in jail (at the most, but he will probably be out on probation)
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
6 Feb 07
thats IT?? omg thats crazy!! and such a scarey thought that it's being taken so lightly ya know...I mean there could have been serious damage done to her not to mention possible long term affects AND the fact that he tried to kill her unborn child...2 yrs..Unbelieveable!
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Feb 07
I agree :-(
• United States
13 Feb 07
This is one of the worst stories I have read here on MyLot. What makes one person think that they can take the life of another in their own hands? I'd be interested in hearing about the results of this case. Please keep up informed. Lloyd
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
15 Feb 07
I agree .- I will keep u posted!
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Aww this is sad. Why didn't he just tell her that he didn't want the child? why didn't they protect themselves better? now look at him, he will definitely do some time for this i think for sure.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
15 Feb 07
I agree, and I hope that he will serve some time for his crime
13 Feb 07
he should be locked up!!! it is attempted murder! no-one should ever be forced into giving up their child
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
15 Feb 07
I agree - thanx for commenting1
@MakDomMom (1474)
• United States
6 Feb 07
This is so troubling! I cannot believe someone would be so against a pregnancy that they would try to take things into their hands. Thank you for posting this so that others can be aware of this also.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Feb 07
Yeah it really is scary. i read some more and he supposevly put three of them in her food at one time, she never saw it coming =(
• India
9 Feb 07
Thats really sad!! I wish d man is really pumished for that. Costing one's life fos d sake of career is a sin. He should be punished. I dont support abortion coz I feel that if u r pregnant by will or by mistake wats d mistake of that child ? He doesn't deserve abortion. it not only costs baby's life but sometimes mother's life as well. But thanx to GOD here , this lady managed to save her child!!
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
9 Feb 07
Yeah, atleast the baby survived and according to the doctors they do not think that it will be harmed in any way - but it is still a serious crime that he commited.
@ronita34 (3921)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
That is absurd and morally wrong and i for one am glad that he has to face his penalty for this. The poor lady i am glad that the baby survived and is ok!! I hope he gets what he deserves for this!!
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
9 Feb 07
I hope so too
@BlaKy2 (1475)
• Romania
7 Feb 07
It is a stupid think he did that. First of all you can not control the life of somebody no matter who is that somebody. Then is he made love to her he assumed a responsibility and he should take it to the end. It's sad people in our day are using abortion because is just like killing a person. Killing a life that was given from God no matter if that life is wished or not.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
Thanx for your comment. Personally I am not against abortion, but I am agains doing it without your partners knowledge - both ways!
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
12 Feb 07
That is terrible. I hope he gets sent up for that. The poor gal must be heart broken to find out what kind of man he was.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
12 Feb 07
yeah I sure would be =( It is just horrible!
@sunilkonda (1215)
• India
8 Feb 07
this is really very bad deed done by her boy friend to the poor gf, he should have said the matter that he doesnt want to be dad so early to her directly and proceed for abortion but instead of telling what he has in mind but secretly giving pills i feel is highly punishable,so i agree with you marie that he should be put behind the bars but the i think he loves her gf most,so he shall not put behind the bars for long..
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
The girl does not want anything to do wth him. I do not think she cares how much he "loves" her - for her - he is history!
• India
6 Feb 07
well really he did a brutal thing and he must be punished for that....but one reason for doing so can be ignorance or unawareness.its his fault of course...even if he wanted to force abortion he should have consider the girls life
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
6 Feb 07
To force abortion is not a solution, and I think that he just could have said something instead
• United States
8 Feb 07
Do you have a link to a news page with this story? I'd be very interested to read it! Abortion needs to be the choice of the woman and no one else. What he did was horribly wrong! Its a good thing that he confessed and she was able to get proper medical treatment and that the baby survived. I wonder what the exact laws are on this, I'm not familiar with Swedish laws.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
8 Feb 07
There is a link to the story in one of the comments above - however it is in swedish and I haven´t found one in english.. The law will probably have him serve a few monts in jail - or he might even be out on perole straigh away=(