are you free to talk?
By crosa125
@crosa125 (1483)
February 6, 2007 8:29pm CST
are you really the person,who everyone thinks you are? or there are bits in your life you don't want anyone to know about it?you want to talk about it to some one but you scare,cos they are going to judge you, or you loss them or...."i told he/him every thing"what about that bit is hurting you?....but did you know the more you try to find a awy around it and not to deal with it,it hurts you more?no matter what we say still we loss confidence over it....hey over real life is not here over the internet,you are not my next door neighbour,and i'm not your real life friend,maybe we even don't see each other at all...what we've got to loss,why do we have to con ourself?while we thinking i con him/her and tell every one we are the person who we are not, isn't better to pick some one and tell them who really we are? see what is going to happen,maybe is not that bad we think it is....if it didn't work do you know what can you do? you don't need to hide yourself delete him or her...me i love to have poor honest friend instead of empty good looking doll,or action man so let's stop it form here,from now, i don't one you to respond to this,can you just think about it,it is your life,together we can fix it.if we want to really
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@Willowlady (10657)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I am totally free to talk. Unless the person I talk to is not open to certain things. Then I adjust. I am free that I have nothing to hide and am what I am. Let others think what they want. Anything useful will be used if I can to improve myself. Confidence, well nothing ventured nothing gained. Sneaking and conniving takes just too much energy and is not worth it in the end. I have responded to his to support your discussion and gives my a bit to earn in the meantime. If I understand you correctly then I am thrilled that we share some similarities. Wishing you all the luck my friend of the net.
@crosa125 (1483)
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7 Feb 07
well cheers for that,i know is great pleasure to know you.recently one of my friend in here asked me who is the best one so far from my friends after she told me who are her best mate,i hope she could tell you that,i told her you and some one else are the best mate so far i can call them a friend,i have to say sorry for sending people over to you but i'm sure if one they she needs hlep i would say you and the other one are so far the best i know.well i have to tell you this too there are some people in my friends list but we all know want they want.
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@Willowlady (10657)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Thank you for your kind words and I feel fortunate to know of you. Send anyone. I look forward to meeting people and never know what I might learn. We seem to have a mutual admiration society here. lol
Thanks for being a friend and for responding to me. Take care!!
@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I know a lot of people. And I'm friends with a lot as well. I talk about something to some people and something else with my other friends. I don't reveal the whole of me in just everyone I know. It's not because I don't trust them, but because I think someone can relate better or help than the others.
@Jemina (5770)
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9 Feb 07
All of my friends will say the same thing about me, reserved and quiet. Sometimes though I unleash my inhibitions here on the net but still I'm not comfortable doing it. I still keep some for myself.
Words, written or spoken have the same face value. I might tell you fankly what I feel but still can't help to be discreet. I hope still find friendship in you, though.
