What makes you cheat on your husband or wife?

There would be a hundred reasons why cheating is committed. But I guess the bottom line is, sometimes a person reached a certain aspect wherein he's no longer contented of what he have, whether good or bad. Instead of finding remedy, he chooses the other way around... and that is to cheat.

Personally, I think people cheat because they're trying to find a way to end their relationship, without being bold enough to just end it. (Even if they don't consiously know it, their subconcious wants to leave.) After all, cheating breaks the contract of marriage. I don't tolerate cheating in relationships, I think if you're going to bother to say you love someone and commit to them, you should be held to that, to the very end. Granted, the reasons you listed are reasons women cheat. But the women who cheat shouldn't validate their cheating by saying "you didnt treat me well enough" or "you weren't good enough in bed." It's a weak way out, and it's a low way to take a stab at someone you should love. They SHOULD sit and talk with their loved one about what's wrong. Hell, in todays world you can even email someone if you aren't bold enough to talk to them. You could email your husband with everything thats wrong. or write a letter. That would be a healthier way to address issues like not being loved enough. Waking up in someone else's bed is just sad, and slightly pathetic. You had to have put so much effort in being sneaky with this other person, effort you could have been putting into loving your significant other and rekindling your spark. Just my views, of course. ^.^