Grieving a loved one

I'll start by saying that I am sorry for your lose. I think the fact that you watched it happen makes it harder to get past this stage of grief. I would suggest that you try and talk to a therapist specializing in grief counseling, you may be bottling things up that you are unaware of or not letting go even though you feel you have. But never forget that it's okay to cry and to talk about.

I guess the best you can is not to grieve but to be happy for him because he served his lifetime though its a tragic thing to remember him of but eventually, from where he is now, he is more at peace. Be happy because not everyone new him and you were his bestfriend and you were there to experience the good and bad times with him. We should always learn to let go and I'm sure if he'd see you lonely he wouldn't be happy too right?? And pray, always pray that God would take away your sadness and burden. He always listens. God Bless.

I'm sad because of what you've said. It is really hard to move on with things and persons we really treasure. But we need to recover from that grieving merely becuase it is not healthy for yourself and for others.

Other people might get affected because of what you're feeling right now. Even you're not able to tell them (because sometimes its hard to.), still, they come to feel it because in one way or another, it will show.

Try to make yourself busy to things that will improve you as a person. Those things that you said you've done that has a relation to your best friend is not quite good for you. Because the memory will still remain. I'm not saying that you should forget your best friend. What I'm trying to say is that you should learn to live even he was not physically there with you.

There is much happiness life can offer you. So don't be left out by stucking yourself in his bad memory. Think of all the good times you shared and throw away the bad. Remember that you still have a child who needs you. Make your child your motivation to move on and live happily. It will be unfair for your child to see you sad even though she/he is with you. The child can feel it because he/she comes from you.

Don't make it hard for the both of you. I'm sure if Reece sees you, he will be sad. Because he is in heaven now, you should be happy for him. His death is not the end of it. But a great beginning for him. so be happy for him.

Enjoy life with you child and with the people who love you.

Honestly, it's so easy giving advices for people like you in times like these. . but puttin myself on someone else's shoes, i always have these kind of thinking you know that "it's sooo easy for people to say that, give advices because they are not the one experiencing it". Am i right about that? .. i just hope and wish that someday, you'll soon find that "acceptance" in your heart. Be strong. You are not alone in this battle. Godbless. (",)