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arunps003 (12)3 years ago

Do you have a best friend? What quality made him/her your best friend? Have you ever heared 'Mind your own business' or
'Thats none of your business' from your BEST FRIEND? I had faced such a situation. Then can you tell 'is he my best friend or not'??

 
 
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nidahali (303) response was accepted on 3/4/2007.
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tags:  friendship, closed friends, best friends, n, best friend
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20260)   3 years ago

I actually have three best friends. Though I like them all for the same reasons, they are all unique in their own way. They are honest caring people who care for their friends and are willing to listen, and not give unsolicited advice, but they are the first people I'd ask, if I ever wanted answers.

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. gsl3692 (436)   3 years ago

I have two very closed friend. We talk, we argue, we also laugh together. Those words such as " none of your business" never came out from my mouth or my friend. Because we all know that closed friends is to share your laughter and sadness but not to be bullied with words or anything. In your case, I think you treat him/her best friend, but may be he/she dont think the same.


arunps003 (12)  3 years ago

hmm you may be right. do you have secrets that your best friends don't know??

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. nidahali (303)   3 years ago

Yes, I have a best-friend and she and I have known each other since grade one. The qualities that you ask about... well there are many, so in short words, I'll say, "She is the better half of me and she completes"

I have heard those words, 'none of your business' and 'mind your own business' but that happened when she was having a bad day and was tensed due to personal reasons. I didn't mind them because I know her inside out and I trust her. She would never hide anything from me. If she says those kinda words then I only sit besides and say nothing and give me time to cool down and open up at her own pace.

You should remember one thing, not everyone has the same qualities like you do so you should not judge people based on your own ways or actions. I mean if you don't say these things or you open up real quick then don't expect your partner to be the same way. Because if you guys were the same way then there would be really less chance that you would be best friends because believe or not 'opposites do attract' and I say this because I'm a kinda of person who gets all hot-head in a matter of seconds and opens the same way. So if I should say something bad in a foul mood then this won't mean that my friend would leave me or stop referring me as her best friend.

It doesn't work that way. These kind of relationships are delicate relationships and they have to be mutual in order to work.

I do hope this would help you with any problems you may face with your best friend. Cheers!


arunps003 (12)  3 years ago

Yes you are right. i do not judge my friends based on my own ways or actions. we cant think they should be like us or why can't they behave like us? ....ok..nyways Thanks a lot for your advice nidahali..


myLot reputation of 89/100. nidahali (303)  3 years ago

Hey no need to thank me. We are here to discuss and help each other out. I'm only happy that I was of some help to you^-^ seriously, we all should try to help and understand each other before jumping to conclusions/judgements.

Take care, cheers!

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