Housewife or career woman?

@lbbaby (489)
China
March 15, 2007 6:50am CST
Today,teacher asked us to discuss about that you want to be a housewife or a career woman in the futher. As for me, I want to be a non-professional housewife. It means that I have time to develop my own career interest. What I do is just to do housework after work. In my opinion, I enjoy housework but meanwhile I love my career. So I would try my best to balance the time to make me feel comfortable and to take good care of my family. What do you think of it?
11 responses
@j27366 (293)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
i was career-oriented when i was in my early to late 20s. now, that i'm in my late 30s, i prefer to be a housewife. i am already fed up with busy and stressful career-oriented way of life. as long as i have a good working computer with internet access at home, i am fine. and owning my time is very important to me.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
6 Apr 07
Yes , every period we have different thoughts. Maybe I would change my mind in a certain time.
@zlesing (487)
• China
17 Mar 07
I agree with you.There are so many interest things waiting for me to do,I don't just only wanna to be a housewife.The career is also improtant.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
2 Apr 07
Thank you
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
Well,I'm not yet married but if I'm going to make a choice I still want to pursue my career even I get married.BUt if my husband will ask me to just stay at home and be aplain housewife then I'll give up my career for them.
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
That's the best way because consider being just a plain housewife... Life is harder today and we need those extra income to support our family's need. Two income family is better than one.
@lbbaby (489)
• China
16 Mar 07
I aggree with you. We women should share the expanse of family nowadays . And at the same time , we can do some we are interested in.
• Australia
23 Apr 07
I agree with you, if we just doing house work we don't have any socialization. And we need to work so we can see and know a lot of people. But we still take care of our family. Women is not for work at home and wait until our husband going home, but we can do something useful
• India
4 Apr 07
I am a career woman right now.With the problems that come up after getting married and once you decide to ahve kids, I would say that its better that you go in for a job(if interested) that caters to the needs of the kids and the family. If nothing works, its better to make a compromise and stay at home for the kids to grow up in a remarkable way!
@lvhughes (545)
• United States
30 Mar 07
that decision is always something that only you can make. it has to be a situation you acan live with not what anyone else wants. i would work if it wasnt for the fact that in the area i live i would actually be taking money out of his check plus mine just to pay for gas and daycare. that is also something that one might want to consider.
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I agree with a career but I am a housewife and don't want anyone to clean my house. My hubby works and pays the bill and I clean house and cook take care of the kids and all that.
• Malaysia
30 Mar 07
I will choose to be a career woman and not full time housewife. So i can go after my dreams and do the things that i love. May be i will do housework after i get back from work. But if i have children then i will consider to start my own business so that i can bring them to work.
@gegegelay (933)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
Everything should be balanced. Yes, I agree that we should not just be a housewife, but also pursue our own dreams. Just make sure we don't forget in taking care of our family coz' it's much important ;)
@barnkinney (1343)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
i'm still not decided on this part of life. i would really want to be a hands on mother to my kids. so, i guess i would be working until my baby turns 1, i guess. of course this will all depend on our financial status.. wait.. i'm really not supposed to think about this.. i don't think i would be having my own family someday.