what will you do if you found out that your best friend is not straight guy?

What will you do if you found out your best friend wasn't straight? First of all I would try to sit them down and attempt to have a heart to heart talk with him or her. I would tell or her how richly he has added to my life and I would remind him or her of how rewarding the friendship has been. Also I would tell him that I believed that our friendship was to be based upon openness and honesty. Then I would ask him if there was anything about himself or herself that he or she would like to share. (In other words give him or her time and room to talk.) If then if he or she decided to come out and confess that they were gay, I would say, to each his own and I would try to talk them into coming back around the other way but if they refused then you have to leave him or her the opportunity to be true to his or herself and simply tell them that while you respect their decision to be whomever it is they choose to be that you cannot support them in their decision. Or if it doesn't bother you then you could tell them that you respect their decision and it's really not an issue.

That's mind-boggling. It's something weird for me. But after all, you are still best of friends. I would definitely accept my friend given such situation. I must admit, it needs a lot of thinking before I could do it. There's nothing with his situation though. Happy posting.

I will continue to be friends with her.I would ask why did she hide it and what made her do this,but yes she will still be my good friend.That is something she has to deal with.Her life her style.

It happened to my son. His best friend at school, and after school, announced at the age of 32 he was a queer, not bi but full blown AIDS material. My son was shocked but my wife and I reckond he was that way inclined for years back. When we said that we were not surprised at the news, our son was shocked again!! He had no idea!! We are all still good friends and he enjoys coming to our house because he feels relaxed here with our attitude to him in his 'new' guise.

I have actually had this happen to me. I already suspected it, but even if I hadn't, I would still love him no matter what. A persons sexuality does not define who they are. They still enjoy the same things you or I do...they just have more options.