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myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting 5 years ago

Okay here is the thing I have NEVER liked little girls wearing trousers to school so when the bad weather started I got my 5 yr old daughter Lovely warm tights for school. I persevered even though about ! pair of tights had the knee burst out of them on average every one and a half days! I kept persevering until I had spent almost enough to buy a new laptop on replacing the tight! Eventually I gave in and bought her trousers until the better weather comes in! This is where the problem comes in with trouser; every week or two she comes home with a hole in the knee of her trousers! Kept persevering - now I am at the stage where I could have bought both my kids laptops with the money spent on new trousers!!! So I have come to a decision - she is going back to skirts with Knee high socks this time - the only problem is what am I going to do with the holes in her knees???? Help! Am I the worst mummy on mylot? Are your kids just as bad? How did you resolve this? Are you too a bad parent and letting them put holes in themselves instead of their clothes?

 

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ralf_jay (196) response was accepted on 3/22/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. beaniegdi (1928)   ranked 1,992 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

Buy cheaper trousers then you won't worry as much, sew them up sometimes or put patches on the knees. My sons used to get holes in their trousers and I used to sew them up, you can buy nice patches or make your own for your girls trousers and it can look cute.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

I know that but she is a little madam! Either wants the holes or nothing!!! Won't let her go to school scruffy and don't have the energy for a fight every morning!!!

Thanks for the idea though - much appreciated!

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   ranked 335 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

Oh goodness do not panic you are not the worse Mummy at all. It is a little Girl thing when they have a big Brother, unfortunatly they act like Boys and Mel did at times to lol. The Knees will heal and she will soon get fed up with having Holy Knees lol
So no you are like any Mum the best


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks Gaby - I just hope that she doesn't have horribly scarred knees and one day will turn round and tell me it ruined her life lol! Thanks honey!

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. selina0625 (996)   ranked 722 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

Oh don't ever think you are the worst mum in the world.In fact I think you are a good mom because you're worrying too much on the little thing like trousers, that means your child means so much to you. Don't worry about things like that, you're little girl would soon outgrow that stage in her life, the holes in the knees and all. To avoid spending too much, then you can just cut out small pieces of old clothes and use them as patches on the holes of her trousers.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thank you so much selina for the advice and kind words it means alot! xxx

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. raydene (5491)   5 years ago

Hello
Here's a little tip.All my offsping had the bad knee habit and after the first bankruptsy(lol)I found a way to slow down the damage.Buy iron on patches ( do you all have them )and turn the pants inside out and place the patch where the knee falls and iron it on.They wear like iron.
I don't want you acused of child mutilation!
R
Cheers


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thank you my Darling woman - I have a lot to learn from you - I knew there would be a way round it - lets hope she doesn't get too hurt in the morning - I've put all her holy trousers in the recycle bin!!!!! oooopppps! xxx

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

I would suggest buying her some knee pads to go with her skirts and knee socks lololol


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Hey your suppose to be in bed lol


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Tried it honey (bed) wouldn't work so got back up for a while!!! Tried it (kneepads) didn't work 'Mummy I won't look pretty! aaaarrrrrggghhhh


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Tell her it's either those or bubble wrap lolol


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

she'd take the bubble wrap - and spend all day popping it only to fall over and put holes in her knees as she left school lol - am definitely going back to bed as computer is about to upgrade and restart! Am too grumpy to deal with that! sweet dreams honey!


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Mine just did that hmmm I'll try to think of something else sweet dreams honey talk to you later


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks marie - didn't work - think I snatched an hour! hope you had a good sleep! xxx


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

I got some mornig sure did seem to come fast though and I can't think of anything else for youdaughters poor knees


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

she had knee socks and skirt today - and didn't fall once!!!!! Glad you got a little sleep - I think I ended up with about another! I've spent ages trying to find where I ended this with you last night!!!


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

You think this one is tough, You have already seen the one bicklelady and I have going. We have 2or 3 more like that. I'd love to see people's reactions when they read those lolol

I'm glad she stayed on her feet today


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Yeah - my brains gone soft cos of the pain but just you wait til I've had my surgery and recovered I'll be way on top of things!!! Like nice long ones like this - miss it when we're not here at the same time! typical the one day she cant ruin her clothes by falling on her knees - think she is trying to wind me up!


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Isn't funny how some of the things our kids do drive us totally insane. I can't wait till your sugery. It is hard to be here at the same time. Darn time difference. Hey didn't you have an appointment today?


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Yeah - Niamh had her asthma check up! Sister was really pleased with her - apart from the fact that I don't always have her reliever inhaler cos shes doing so well! Have learned my lesson will always carry it now! Wish I could speak to you more honey! Did you have a good night?


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

I had a great night I was alittle lonely though there was no one to talk to after you went to bed. No one was here last night :(


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Oops I forgot to put in there bothmy girls have sports asthma so we always keep an inhaler with us


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Wish I had stayed up now!!!!! You're a good mom always having the inhaler - I'll try to be more like you!!! Will miss you tonight - I'm working! Will try to get on for a few minutes when I get in!


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Oh thank you and you stayed on here more than a few minutes tonight lolol


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

LOL yes I did - whos fault was that?

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. fluffyfrog (2612)   5 years ago

You dont want your daughter wearing pants? Excuse me but that sounds pretty outrageous in 2007.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

well actually in the uk me not wanting my daughter to wear pants would be outrageous as I'd be sending her out without underwear!!!lol And no I'm not an old stick in the mud she has some very nice trousers but we have school uniforms and I have never liked trousers as part of a girls school uniform! That is only my personal opinion and I didn't ask anyone to agree with it or not to put trousers on their daughter when she's going to school!

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7. myLot reputation of 82/100. maddy37 (4288)   5 years ago

First of all of course you are not a bad mommy but what is going on at school this is happening and where ever it is happening I phoned my sister she has 37 granddaughters from 2-17 years of age I asked her do they become with torn clothes ...she said dirty yes but torn very rarely does that happen .I would contact the teacher and have a little talk with her and she if you can not come to some conclusion.This is not typical so something is going on is all i can say Happy Trails and have a great day


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thank you so much Maddy for your concern - I should have pointed out that she is very clumsy - she had a problem with her ankle muscles and ligaments being very tigh and she probably has mild dyspraxia so she fall over a LOT when they are playing outside!!!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. poppoppop111 (3282)   ranked 14 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

i know that at some stores there are clothes for kids that are garenteed to last until they grow out of them. if they wear them out you just take them back and exchange them for new ones at no cost. i know that in canada they are called kid tough garantee on the tags and you can buy these at sears. they are really good clothes and my daughter has never damaged any from rough play.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mfpsassy (1178)   ranked 485 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

None of our stores do that but we need some


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

I'll second that! Haven't heard of anything like that here in Scotland but it would be fantastic!

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9. myLot reputation of 84/100. domesticengineer (555)   ranked 2,031 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

Talk to your daughter. Let her know how you feel about all these. This solution for your problems needs cooperation from your daughter. Let her know the value of money and how it really affects you when she put holes in their trousers. Communication is the key.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Thanks so much for your advice domestic engineer! for a 5 year old she is fantastic at communicating but I don't think it would make much difference as she doesn't do it on purpose, she falls over A LOT!

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. kathy77 (6833)   ranked 727 out of 9,012 in parenting   5 years ago

Oh come on I loved it when they bought the idea that our children could wear trousers to school, they were the same colour as the school uniform and always looked start and at least they could keep warm, oh no my daughters never had holes in their trousers. I do not understand why the trousers are getting holes in them all the time.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 245 out of 9,012 in parenting  5 years ago

Sorry Kathy I just really like to see little girls in their pretty skirts as I think they look so cute - have a look at my photo of my baby - she loves to look pretty! She gets holes in the knees of everything cos she is so clumsy and falls - not her fault really though!!!

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