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myLot reputation of 88/100. itsjustmeb (783)   ranked 1,000 out of 32,937 in life 5 years ago

Chatroom users 'egged on father to kill himself live on webcam'
23.03.07

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A father-of-two hanged himself live over the internet in Britain's first 'cyber suicide'.

Kevin Whitrick, 42, took his life after being goaded by dozens of chatroom users from across the world who initially believed he was play acting.

But as they watched in horror, Mr Whitrick climbed onto a chair, smashed through a ceiling and then hanged himself with a piece of rope.

Kevin Neil Whitrick, 42, was found dead by police in Wellington, after being alerted by a web user who is thought to have watched in horror as the man harmed himself

Stunned by what they had witnessed - broadcast on a popular chatroom website used by millions of people across the globe - chatroom users immediately contacted the police.

Officers rushed to the electrician's home in the Wellington area of Shropshire within minutes, smashing down the door to try to save him.

Kevin Whitrick had two 12-year-olds who he visited regularly
But despite their efforts to save him, he was pronounced dead at the scene.

Last night it emerged that Mr Whitrick had been suffering from depression after being badly injured in a car crash last year.

Friends said that the breakdown of his marriage with wife, Paula - with whom he had 12-year-old twins - and the recent death of his father had also been causing him some distress.

Mr Whitrick told users of web-chat site PalTalk what he was going to do two hours before he killed himself on Wednesday night.

He was logged on with around 50 other users to a special "insult" chatroom where people "have a go at each other".

Today distraught users of the site said that they felt sick and had previously thought the web broadcast was a hoax.

They confirmed Mr Whitrick told friends in the internet chat room of his plans to kill himself but, thinking he was joking, they egged him on telling him to make sure the his webcam was on.

Mr Whitrick, using the user-name Shyboy-17-1, switched on his webcam and went ahead with his grisly plan.

One anonymous user said: "He tied a rope around an uncovered ceiling joist and stood on the chair as he tied the rope around his neck.

"Some of us chatroom users, talking to Kevin over text chat, microphones and video tried to convince him to step down, but others egged him on telling him to get on with it.

"We just couldn't believe he was doing it - it was surreal.

"One chatter said: 'F***ing do it, get on with it, get it round your neck. For F***'s sake he can't even do this properly'."

Another user who did not wish to be named said: "When Kevin stepped off the chair and was left dangling, the mood in the chatroom changed and people began to realise what they had just seen.

"We started asking if anyone knew where he lived and saying they should contact the police.

"I think someone contacted the police in their local area but sadly no one could get to him in time."

Shortly after, moderators on the site closed the feed from Kevin's webcam.

'Considerate and kind'

Mr Whitrick had been living in his flat, a converted house, after splitting from his wife Paula two years ago.

The couple, who married in 1988, had 12-year-old twins Lewis and Melissa who live with their mother in a three-bedroom, semi-detached home close by.

They are said to have visited their dad, who worked at family firm RMW electrical services in Shrewsbury, at weekends. His older brother Malcolm Whitrick is an associate director at Shrewsbury Town Football Club.

Last night Mrs Whitrick said: "Kevin was a loving father and family man. He was always the life and soul of the party, an extremely considerate and kind person and loved by many, he will be so sadly missed by us all.

"Unfortunately Kevin had a very serious car accident in July 2006 and had never fully recovered back to full health."

Mr Whitrick's stepmother Betty Whitrick, 74, told the Mail: 'Kevin was a bubbly kind of person, full of fun. I just don't know why he would do this.

"He lived alone but he always cheerful when I saw him. I knew he was very into computers and he also used to like playing bowls."

Detective Chief Inspector Jon Groves who is leading the investigation said: "Our enquiries to date have revealed that Mr Whitrick was using a chat room with a number of other people at the time of his death.

"We are liasing with the internet service provider at this time to contact other users who were online at the time of this incident and who may have information that could assist our enquiries.

"We are also working to ensure that witness support facilities are available to those who may have been affected by what they saw."

Sharon Atwal, who works in a cornershop opposite Mr Whitrick's flat, described him as "subdued" the last time she saw him.

She said: "Every night he'd take eight cans of Boddington's bitter from the fridge and re-stock it with the cans from the shelf. He always seemed quite cheerful.

"On Wednesday night, though, he didn't seem himself and it was the first night that he did not re-stock the fridge. It was as if he knew he wouldn't be coming back.

"He always struck me as very happy, he was friendly and had two perfect kids. I cannot believe he has done this."

Her brother Bobby added: "Kevin has lived in the flat for the past year and I have seen him every day without fail.

"Last week, he told me about his chat room. He was excited and said he had set it up himself. He said he had been speaking to people in Australia on his webcam.

"His two children used to visit at weekends. He had a very good relationship with them and always gave them lots of money to buy sweets."

The case appears to echo that of Brandon Vedas, a 21 year-old from Phoenix, Arizona, who committed suicide online using a mix of alcohol and prescription medication.

In that case people in the chat room egged the young man on, while others tried desperately to find his address.

Local MP for the Wrekin, Mark Pritchard, said: "This is a very sad and rare incident. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

"It is important that the use of the internet in this death is fully investigated."

 

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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. highflyingxangel (9336)   ranked 260 out of 32,937 in life   5 years ago

That is horrible. I don't think people really take things seriously. Anyone that says they're going to commit suicide should be taken seriously. They shouldn't be egged on. I think someone should really remprimand the users in the chatroom for that.

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. 7nicole1 (1566)   5 years ago

Although I find this sick and hard to believe I dont think anyone on the chat line is responsible for that just because they said do it. I believe that man was at the end of his rope and just went out in a way that he'll always be remebered. It is sick how everyone rode him to do it but how can words make someone do something so horrible. Its definitley a sad story.


myLot reputation of 71/100. SachseMom (399)   ranked 9,904 out of 32,937 in life  5 years ago

Words are very powerful!

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3. myLot reputation of 82/100. decimus785 (1246)   ranked 3,512 out of 32,937 in life   5 years ago

My condolences to the family of this person.
I can'r believe this,i'm speachless.
i dindt know that these things can happened,is it possible?
What a shock!!

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. angelina74 (406)   5 years ago

This is grimly sad and horrifying.

I am sorry for those people who heartlessly pushed him same way on that rope. They are greatly to be blamed knowing that the person was already distraught. Talks of suicide should be taken seriously.

May Mr. Whitrick rest in peace.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. kebpete (6858)   5 years ago

That is so sad i am sure the man probably would have killed self but maybe not at that moment, suicide is some thing you dont take lightly and when some one says they are going to do it,you dont goad some body on to do it you try to stop them,and when see that they are serious you call some one before it happens,that really upsets me,how people dont have any thing better to do.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. mssnow (4289)   ranked 126 out of 32,937 in life   5 years ago

That is just sad. Just shows how some people have no feelings for others. Hopefully it will make the ones who "egged" him on to think the next time something like that happened. maybe even a few of them will become advocates for suicide prevention. As sad as it is. Something good always comes out of the bad. I feel more for his children than I do for him. They have to live with it.

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. liperoterachel (10130)   5 years ago

I can not believe we have people in this world who would encourage someone to kill themselves. What horrible people. I am sick that this could happen. Why didn't someone call the police instantly when he started talking about it. I think the people that encouraged it should get mental help!

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8. myLot reputation of 71/100. SachseMom (399)   ranked 9,904 out of 32,937 in life   5 years ago

That is sad and sick!! I can't believe the world we live in that we would provoke someone to kill themself and not offer an ear to listen!! It really does make me sad!

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