do you confront people who have been unfair to you?

Usually I don't bother. People only do that to me once and then for me, they cease to exist.

Life it too short to put up with that kind of behavior.

I dont' like doing this really. I would rather not make them feel as bad as I do, instead I just try to avoid spending lots of time with them.

Yes, like you always do tell people what I feel about them. It's not because I want them to feel guilty but to let them know that what they are doing is wrong. I do this so that hopefully we would have a better relationship.

Yes, I do but it depends on the situation. If it needs confrontation then I tell it to her face but if it doesn't needs confrontation then I just let it go to avoid conflicts. Whenever I don't say it to that particular person that I'm pissed off, I will do something that will let her feel the same. If she is going to complain I would usually answer her back " that's what I felt when you did that to me, see? Now, you know."

I definately confront anyone who is trying to take advantage of me. Most times I do it in public so as to embarrase them as well. I figure if someone is trying to take advantage they dont deserve the respect you might give to someone else. Everyone should know what kind of person they are.

I'm the type of person who is not comfortable confronting other people even if they did me wrong. I know it's not right but I have so many problems and I feel that talking to them is just a waste of time. I just avoid them, by doing that I can make them feel that there is something wrong.

I always confront people in a nice way. It usually wins me the respect of the people I confront. If the person is important to you you must speak out and assert yourself.

When I'm really pissed, I do. Like when my son gets unfair treatment at school, or at work when someone badmouths me behind my back and I get to hear of it. But sometimes, it isn't worth the effort. Why bother to chew other people out when you are only mildly affected with something you can brush off. Don't sweat the small stuff.

oh yes i do..though it always ends up into a fight and misunderstanding. reason why i confront them, so i would know what seems to be the problm with me. or might as well the question is, is it me or its just them who bothers their self a lot about me. they are just some stupid people i encountered anyway and i just cant let it passed..i knew i have a big mouth and i also knew i was givn a big mouth to tell them whats up?! or whats killing them? right?

actually it depends on how deep she/he has hurt me. if he has hurt me sooooo deeply, then i would never pretend to comfort him, but if i can still manage to forget what he had done to me, then i see no problem in comforting this person. and besides, i usually do not hold grudges to others. i easily forget the heartaches and the pains,,,