Have you ever witness a person dying?

@jsae29 (1120)
Philippines
March 27, 2007 10:58am CST
My uncle just passed away an hour ago. We are sure we'll all miss him. He is a nice person. Though many times he is misunderstood. I was a witness to his last minute in this world. I saw him fade away...gasping...in total agony. He died because of kidney failure. His body can no longer bear the hardships of daily dialysis. We are saddened by his death but in away...we are also happy that he already at peace and that his pain and suffering has ended. I have witnessed the passing of my grandmother..but her's was different, it was very quite... very peaceful death. But in the case of my uncle...it was hard....he was in pain until his last breath. It was a terrible sight, seeing a person struggle and fight for his last breath. We have accepted long ago that he was dying, but we were not prepared to see such a painful death. I was like wishing and praying for God to just take him and relieve him from his pain. If death is always like this, oh God, I do not want to see another one again. Have you ever witness a person dying? How did you feel about it?
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@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
ohhh! my condolences. yes i witnessed my grandpas last breath. He has a prostate cancer then.During his last day hes very sweet to all his grandchildren.They want all of us to be in his side doing massage in his fore head and arms maybe just to ease even a little pain his experiencing.We have witnessed how he fight that pain.I remember we're all crying then cause its very hard to see him crying because of the pain but we cant do anything more to help him even the doctors.we felt so helpless.....
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@janand (156)
• United States
1 Jul 07
My heartfelt condolences to you. I know it is very miserable and traumatic to see a loved ones last moments. I will pray to God to give u strength.... I had a very similar experience, my mother was also suffering from kidney failure for almost 9 years. We just couldnt bear the pain and agony she underwent everytime she went for a haemodialysis. Also i was by her bedside when she left us all. I just couldnt accept it and i just cannot explain the suffering i went through .....