Why can't people mind their own business  

What a silly woman! I agree that she should have minded her own business. I surely don't think you did anything wrong.

Good for you, go go go girl

Some people have a lot of nerve!

Kelly

I hope you told her to sod off.

I have seen people feeding their kids in the mall junk - heck - when I go to the mall, if I eat anything, its probably junk too - I hate shopping so a mall trip is an ordeal that I try to make up for by indulging myself a bit.

Now, because of my allergies, it sure isn't fries with stuff on them, but I'll get one of those pretzels or some ice cream or one of those, less than healthy, smoothies. Back when they had an Orange Julius at the mall I'd get one of those - just because they were yummy - sans egg of course. I almost always hit the candy store too, I have to have SOME reason to make up for inflicting myself with the mall.

Normally when someone decides to give me their unwanted opinion I say "Thank you , now could you please explain to me what made you think that I wanted your advice so that I might not do it again?"
For the most part I find that its the older crowd who does this but I can't help butassume that I am not the only one that they have done this to. I am hoping that my comment will make them stop and realize that now everyone wants to hear their comments.

Some people are unbelievable ! She may not even had any children and alot of childless people think they know how to raise a child perfectly.ha ha ha

I hate those people. I once had a person tell me how I should be ashamed of myself for feeding my son a happy meal and that I am poisoning him and that someone should take my kids from me for it. All I could say was get the F away from me you F ing freak.

Who do these people think they are because they see us for one moment in our lives with our kids treating them to something good to them while maybe not so much for them.

I wonder what she would have said the night before when my son sat at the table for an hour and a half because he refused to eat his veggies.

There was nothing wrong with what you did. sometimes we make do with what we have and others need to stay out of it. It is hard to find healthy meals for toddlers and infants when you are out. I probably would have smarted off to her. I dont have aproblem with others stepping in when the child is being seriously hurt or put in to danger but there is a huge difference in being nosey and concerned. She is simply nosey!

Some people are just so unhappy with themselves and their lives that they feel the need, even the right, to tell other people how to behave, in hopes that they might feel better about themself or their life. I don't think what you were feeding the kids was wrong. Now you say baby...I am guessing you mean over the age of one year old. What you had food wise sounds decent enough to me especially if it's not the kind of food the baby is always fed. My wife told me about this woman at a Mc Donald's she and our kids were at yesterday who had a girl about age 5. She had been in the play area and took her socks off. There are signs that the kids have to wear socks. The mom was upset the girl took her socks off and gave her what for right in front of my wife. The girl told her mom that this friend of hers told her to take her socks off. Boy did the mom have at her then, saying "What did your mom tell you?" She told her she was about done with giving her time outs and it would be a spanking on the butt next time. Now do you know how many people would even be afraid to speak that way in public? Do you know how many people would have stuck their noses in that woman's business? My wife actually sat there trying not to laugh because she thought the way the woman handled the situation was wonderful, and a bit funny. She wanted to tell the woman "good for you" but that would kind of be nosy too. Try not to let what others think, especially when they have no clue what goes on aside from what they see,make a difference to you, unless you think their advice is good.If that ever happens to you again, don't even make eye contact with the person or say one word to them. It's too bad you had to deal with someone like that on such a special day with your grandkids.

Don't you just love how other people feel they have the right to comment on your family and how you are taking care of them? How would she know oif this was a snack or dinner, and why is it her business anyway?

I am glad to see that she did not rattle you. And I am glad you made sure she noticed the dessert. :D