What fairy tales will you pass on to your children?
By ZenDove
@ZenDove (698)
United States
April 4, 2007 4:36am CST
As we are approaching Easter sunday, I marvel at the tales parents pass on to their children. My stepdaughter is 9 and she is still encouraged to believe in the Easter bunny. I asked my husband how does his family square this pagan holy-day with their Catholic belief of Jesus' resurrection? I asked him if he would mind if I taught his children what I taught my own children about the spring equinox. At least that way the bunnies and eggs and chicks would make sense (fertility.) I didn't really expect it to be okay with him, just wanted to give him something to think about. I mean, why do parents pass on mythology that they themselves do not believe or understand, to their children? My mother read to us nightly. She read Aesop's Fables, the brothers Grimm and Hans C. Anderson in the same spirit as she read the parables of the bible. Those stories provided guidelines and standards for life while sparking our imaginations. Yet,I never once expected a wolf or a fish to speak to me. Or a burning bush, for that matter.
When my children were young, we celebrated Christmas and all the other holidays...with the understanding that, although there were wonderful stories attached to these celebrations, that's all they were - stories. I don't believe that we have to distort our children's perception of reality in order for them to dream and love the wonders of life. Quite the opposite. In this day and age of information, what fairy tales will you pass on to your children and what do you hope to inspire in them?
2 responses
@kayrod2 (1304)
• Australia
4 Apr 07
I dont see any harm in easter bunny, santa, toothfairy, and other fairy tales. I grew up believing in them, and have done the same with my children. they range in age from 8 to 20. of course the older ones dont believe any more but the younger ones do. the older ones respect that and enjoy easter and christmas. I love watching the joy on there faces when they receive gifts, and they get into the spirit of things leading up to events. I also teach my children the reasons behind the celerbrations, as i believe in that as well.
These days children seem to grow up so quickly. I want my children to stay children as long as possible.
I respect that other people have different beliefs and that is how they bring up there children.
I hope my kids grow up to be happy and enjoy there life. I love and respect them dearly, and hope they have a rich, fullfilling life
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
4 Apr 07
well the easter bunny was a story to my son like it was to me, but santa claus was real to him as st nicholas was a real man from turkey and there is also another european version of the same, so he believed in the guy in a red suit until he was old enough to understand it was only a symbolic version of the man that once existed.
I also believed in the tooth fairy too, and so did my son, I see nothing wrong with it, to each his own.



