How do you tell someone that someone they know has died?

I've done this more times than I care to remember, and each time was slightly different. But you have to be honest, and quite direct. Something like 'I'm so sorry to have to tell you this, but X passwed away last night.' They'll be in shock, they'll maybe cry or scream the place down or maybe do nothing. Some people just sit and look at you, others just say 'Thank you' and get on with their day. Everyone handles these things differently. What you can THEN say is that if they want you to stay with them, just say, and that if there's anything you can do for them, they're to let you know. I often write my contact numbers down on a card for them, just in case they're shocked. Just be there for them if they need support, and let them know that you're there.

I think I would bring it up in converstation. Like sorry to hear about so and so. That would atleast break the ice.

I have experienced this kind of thing.but I think under this condition,there is no choice but telling her the truth as early as possible.then you should give her a patient comfort.