A child with physical defect...

I have three children. My oldest child is considered a special needs child. She has sacral agensis. Which is a condition where her tailbone didn't develope so she has no nerve endings to tell her when she needs to go to the bathroom. The only special treatment that I give to my daughter is that I buy her PullUps. otherwise I see no reason to treat her different.

Before having kids I always said, I would treat them the same. But now, I have two kids, and one is considered special needs. he is partially deaf and has autism. I do tend to give him special attention over my daughter. Because my daughter is so easy going and catches on to things to quick, and somethings take my son a little longer. So I will usually tag with him more. I do not love him more, and I always find time to be with my daughter alone so that her and I can have one on one time,but I do find that when it comes to punishement, that sometimes I am a little looser on my son then I am on my daughter.