my mother in law doesnt like me for his son

They'll learn about you being married sooner or later. I think it's good that your husband chose you, but it's him that's being cowardly if he's not telling his family. I had in-laws that didnt like me and wanted someone else for their son. Over time I was accepted. When they see that their son is happy with you, it won't matter what they think. You are married to him, and have to live with him, not his family. I wouldn't worry too much about it. You're married now.

Getting married without letting them know just makes your situation worst. For sure your husband's family will hate you more for this. I am not discouraging you though. My advise is that, just be yourself. Show them how you love your husband so much. Don't get carried away with the things they say. Remember you married the guy and not them. What is important is that your guy loves you and vice versa.

How could you get married and not tell his family. Wow I think once they find that out they will be upset You should have been honest with them and let them know. It is their son. But you need to just say to them that you guys are in love and to stay out of it Maybe take her out to lunch sometime and talk to her