Why do men panic when the kids are sick?

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Sometimes men can be a real mystery! Our son was sick and throwing up yesterday (some moronic parents brought their apparently sick child to Mcdonalds) and his dad was running around the house about not knowing what to do for him and worried about how sick he was... la di da. I'm like, its OKAY, kids get sick. They do this once in awhile. Some more than others. Our son has only been sick like this twice in his 4 years of life, so that is pretty good. I just don't get it. I mean its a problem mostly because he tends to overdramatize everything. The one time our son was choking, he brought him to me! Rather than staying calm and doing what needed to be done. I worry. Alot. I am going into my last month of pregnancy and frankly I'm scared for my kids. I almost died the last time I had a cesarean and am an extremely high risk. What is he going to do if I die this time? Is he going to let them choke? Rush them to the hospital every time they are sick? I think he needs to learn to be a parent. He tends to let it fall on my shoulders, but if something happened to me, whether it be in childbirth, car accident or whatever, he needs to know all the things he needs to do. lol! Maybe I should write him a letter so that he has it just in case and he can know what to do in these situations. A manuel of sorts. lol.