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Orogun Oghenekome @eLdav1s (539) • Nigeria 8 May

Sorry in advance if this write-up is long I once had a female friend, we where extremely close that we became besties, along the line i started having feelings for her which i told her about it, at first she had doubts saying...

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I was woken up because...

Shavkat @Shavkat (141906) • Philippines 5 May

...of the call from a friend. It was an early morning that I could not sleep back in. This friend of mine is a certified whiner, and his concerns are always repetitive to my ears every day. I cannot do anything but be a good...

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What life lesson took you years to learn?

cuttyrish @cuttyrish (3264) • United States 19 Mar

Life has a way of teaching us lessons, but sometimes those lessons don’t come easy. There are things we only truly understand after going through challenges, mistakes, or even regrets. For me, one lesson that took time to learn...

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What advice would you give your younger self?

cuttyrish @cuttyrish (3264) • United States 19 Mar

Sometimes I find myself thinking about the past and wondering what I would say if I had the chance to talk to my younger self. There are so many lessons we only learn through experience—about life, money, relationships, and...

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What’s the best piece of advice you have ever been given ?

Traceyjayne @Traceyjayne (11252) • United Kingdom 3 Feb

A thought provoking question today ….. Is it deep or light hearted ….. Could be either depending on your point of view……. Remember …… Never eat yellow snow ….. Look after the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves...

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7 years.. Still searching.

Krystal Johnson @Hazeleyesx (29) • United States 6 Jan

It's been 7 years. And I have not found myself where I want to be. I'm okay just not better from my point of view. I came on here looking for solutions or inspiration and left it so suddenly. I'm now back and want to fill in the...

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What makes you YOU?

Jeni @DuckyGirl (10) 6 Aug

I've never really had a good answer to this. What is the difference between something that makes you who you are and something you enjoy or participate in? Someone who dances, they're a dancer. But is that an activity they...

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What would you do? Tough decision

Melanie Marie @Melanie_Marie (2448) • St. Clair, Michigan 21 Jul

Need advice. Hi friends, I can go in one direction, or another. 1.) There’s a place I found in Shelby Twp, MI that I really love. It’s a little ritzy and I need to remember to dress up better when I go back in 2 weeks to talk to...

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What Advice Would You Give Your 18-Year-Old Self?

Carolyn @CCarolyn (70) • United States 2 Jul

If you could go back and talk to your 18-year-old self, what would you say? I think I’d say: “Stop worrying so much about what people think. Take more chances — it’s okay to fail.” It’s wild how much you learn with time. So now...

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You Can Lead a Horse to the Water...But...

Jim Bauer @porwest (112717) • United States 27 Jun

You see, the thing is, I have spent a lot of time on here talking to people about ways to save money. Right down to the penny. I do it because I know money can be saved, people can get ahead despite their circumstances, and I WANT...

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Best Writing Advice Comment

Jo Ann @akalinus (44366) • United States 15 Feb 25

One of the best tips anyone ever gave me about writing came as a unexpected comment. I read my entry at a writing group I belonged to. It was about a man I met in a park. We became friends and he told me about his life and how...

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Parenting Notes

J.N.R Dutton @jnrdutton (3447) • United States 3 Jan 25

Dear all, Someone recently said that if you're not "gentle parenting" you're being emotionally or physically abusive, that's absolutely nonsense. Firm parenting has its place, and is not inherently abusive. Claiming it's...

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Green Bay Packers players take teens at a shopping spree in Wisconsin

George B Vieto @Deepizzaguy (122065) • Lake Charles, Louisiana 13 Dec 24

I am not the greatest fan of the Green Bay Packers football franchise personally since bowling is my favorite sport. However I do admire the kind gesture of Packers quarterback Jordan Love who through his foundation 'Hands of...

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Always Keep These In Your Contacts

J.N.R Dutton @jnrdutton (3447) • United States 5 Dec 24

Dear everyone, It's always a good idea to keep the number of a computer Dr., rideshare driver,mechanic,a locksmith,a housekeeper, and general maintenance worker in your contacts. You never know when they might come in handy....

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How to deal with mood swings?

Aparna Sen @Dreamerby (10111) • Calcutta, India 13 Nov 24

Yesterday, I had a sudden outburst at my boyfriend, and now guilt is eating me up. All of a sudden it feels like he doesn’t notice anything about me, like my feelings are lost in the shuffle. At that time, I expect him to know...

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How to overcome sudden sadness?

Aparna Sen @Dreamerby (10111) • Calcutta, India 10 Nov 24

Most of my days vacillate between joy and melancholy. However today I am helplessly caught up in feelings of desolation and despair. I couldn't sleep well yesterday and I don't really know the reason. Nothing happened in...

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Melancholy

Aparna Sen @Dreamerby (10111) • Calcutta, India 1 Nov 24

Sometimes I am just sad. I don't feel like doing anything. I feel like nobody understands me, not even my close people. I feel less enthusiastic and don't want to eat anything( well, I am not that much of a foodie). I need a...

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Moving?

Jaycee @fivecandles (438) • United States 28 Oct 24

Anyone have advice on how to get everything done to get your house ready to sell? I still have time, about a year and a half, but its going so quick. I need advice on how to pick what projects simply won't get done in time and how...

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We Are Not Meant To Be Doormats

J.N.R Dutton @jnrdutton (3447) • United States 25 Sep 24

If someone is in a dangerous relationship, they should get out fast. Anyone encouraging someone to stay in a violent relationship needs their heads examined, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart. I don't believe people...

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Long distance relationship

Aparna Sen @Dreamerby (10111) • Calcutta, India 16 Sep 24

Long-distance relationships have their own set of challenges. I am in a long-distance relationship(we meet once in maybe 5-6 months). I tend to overthink a lot and tend to overanalyze simple situations. It looks trivial later on...

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