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zer0charly @zer0charly (5613) • Philippines 19 Sep 07

I am always at the left side or in the middle of my bed. I never sleep near the wall,because I feel its coldness. I usually put pillows on my right side,because I dont want to have a space on it. My body usually on a...

chilaxin

rest

sleeping postions

sleeping rituals

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Ashenstar I tend to sleep by putting my legs in the shape of a 4. 4 that goes left to right is my...

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myfanwy65 @myfanwy65 (1030) • United States 14 Sep 07

My cat recently had 3 kittens and they all died within a week. I have no idea why, they seemed ok. It was so sad. We moved her to a new house while she was pregnant and she had them the night after we moved her. I am afraid she...

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Ashenstar Yeah cat's are strange creatures. I think that is probably one reason why I just love them so much.

17 Sep 07

myfanwy65 @myfanwy65 (1030) • United States 14 Sep 07

My cat recently had 3 kittens and they all died within a week. I have no idea why, they seemed ok. It was so sad. We moved her to a new house while she was pregnant and she had them the night after we moved her. I am afraid she...

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Ashenstar Aw, that is really sad. I remember my first cat and when she had her first litter of kittens. She was a tabby, but the father of her kittens was white with black spots. When she went into labor one of the 5 kittens was born with its stomach and part of its...

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texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 16 May 07

This is horrible and I can't believe it is true but a Galveston father microwaved his 2-month baby girl, she is in critical but stable condition with burns all over her body, what would make someone do this is a to helpless child...

news

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Ashenstar Reading a little more in depth, this almost sounds like a natural selection. This guy shouldn't breed, obviously. He's helping the gene pool basically by eliminating his own offspring. If he never has kids that his personal genetic line will end, which is a...

17 May 07

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 17 May 07

It is not difficult for me if it is to the right person, in other words I don't say it unless I mean it and I will explain that: I don't just say 'I love you' because that is the right thing to say, whenever I say it I mean it...

feelings

i love you

people

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Ashenstar Thank you. I was sent to counseling by my mother twice, but it was ineffective. The idea of therapy doesn't appeal to me, but therapy doesn't usually appeal to anyone! lol. I just figure it's something I will have to sort out on my own. My current boyfriend is...

17 May 07

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 17 May 07

It is not difficult for me if it is to the right person, in other words I don't say it unless I mean it and I will explain that: I don't just say 'I love you' because that is the right thing to say, whenever I say it I mean it...

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Ashenstar I have an extremely hard time saying "I love you" or being affectionate. I grew up with a very abusive mother who would say she loved me but would act contrary. So emotionally I have come to be distrustful of the phrase and have found it to be empty and hard...

17 May 07

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Ashenstar @Ashenstar (47) • United States 22 Apr 07

I have cystic ovaries and very horrible periods. My doctor proclaimed the cysts to be normal, but gave me birth control to help manage my menstruation. It seems to have helped my periods be better but these pills are making me so...

birth control

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Ashenstar Thank you for the advice! I actually went and had an ultra sound done on my whole pelvic region and there was one cyst that had exploded. My doctor said that "the ovaries" do that all the time, make cyst that then rupture. He said it like it's completely...

25 Apr 07

ajesh_pullad @ajesh_pullad (2251) • India 22 Apr 07

i like hot foods.also i like to eat spicy foods.i have a problem that whaen i eat any frozen food it makes stomach ache.so i dont want to eat cold foods.but icecreams.i dont know tht has no problem.in summer season i only drink...

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Ashenstar I do love spicy foods. Sometimes though, I have to eat cooler foods. Someone said I have to much fire in my dosha?. I think is what they said. Meaning basically that I'm a naturally hot person and adding spicy food only makes that worse! Which seems to be very...

22 Apr 07

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Ashenstar @Ashenstar (47) • United States 22 Apr 07

I have cystic ovaries and very horrible periods. My doctor proclaimed the cysts to be normal, but gave me birth control to help manage my menstruation. It seems to have helped my periods be better but these pills are making me so...

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navtech @navtech (1773) • India 22 Apr 07

Of course, I agree Pillow and bed covers should be changed but not in every alternate 3 days. My wife always changes them every alternate 3 days. I feel she is just wasting soap, electricity, water and extra 2 hours labour, every...

bed linen

changing pillow bed covers

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Ashenstar If the "wasting soap, electricity, water, and extra 2 hours labour" isn't that big of a deal ie. you can afford it, I would just let it go. Some people say it is important, some people say it isn't. I don't think it's an argument either of you can "win"...

22 Apr 07

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vesuvius @vesuvius (1677) • Philippines 22 Apr 07

There are people who are really afraid of needles. In fact in one of the shows which I frequently watch, a person is so afraid of needles that he'd freak out like a kid! What about you? Are you afraid of needles? Personally, I...

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Ashenstar Another funny thing. I'm the exact opposite. I have done acupuncture many times and really value the benefits as an alternative medicine. Then again, I have had my acupuncture done by a professional. Was acupuncture school as scary as it sounds? You said it...

22 Apr 07

priya_patadia @priya_patadia (33) • India 22 Apr 07

i felt great when i got my 1st kiss and it was out of the world and whole day i was in that thought only feeling like be in his arms forever and the time should stop and should not go ahead how so u feel tell me

love

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Ashenstar I wish I could remember my first kiss. I don't think I even know who it was...geez. Obviously it wasn't that amazing. lol. Glad yours was amazing though.

22 Apr 07

jbrent21 @jbrent21 (36) • Philippines 22 Apr 07

Ever notice why there is so much anger and stress we have endure everyday? Why not think of that one or few moments today that some one or something made you smile or make you feel good.

anger

smile

today

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Ashenstar What made me smile? Um, my boyfriend and my anniversary is coming up in a few weeks. That's a great feeling in itself, however I more excited because I got this totally awesome present for him. He is a huge music nerd and I bought both of us two tickets to a...

22 Apr 07

vesuvius @vesuvius (1677) • Philippines 22 Apr 07

There are people who are really afraid of needles. In fact in one of the shows which I frequently watch, a person is so afraid of needles that he'd freak out like a kid! What about you? Are you afraid of needles? Personally, I...

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Ashenstar Wow! Thank you for the terminology and some words to add to my "I R SMART" vocabulary list. lol. I would have to say that I have belonephobia. No other sharp objects scare me, injections don't scare me either, pain doesn't scare me, just those nasty needles!...

22 Apr 07

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