Drumman

@Drumman (305)

United States • Age 45

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Responses (173)

Drumman's Responses

love one?

melvinandheather1 @melvinandheather1 (540) • United States 20 Nov 10

How can it be that you can love someone so much but at the same time not be sure if your really ready for the rest of your life with them? How is it that you can see someone else, flirt with them, and then want to be with them. I...

love

marriage

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Drumman You don't understand because you think loving someone is an emotion. Love is an emotion but loving a person is not, it's a decision. If you decide to love someone then you don't flirt with someone else.

20 Nov 10

Long Distance Relationship, Would you settle for it or not?

tokwa99 @tokwa99 (92) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

I believe that the are long distance relationship that works and there are isntances that it did not. In my own opnion...its not gonna work for me. I believe that physical presence is important in any given...

long distance

lvoe

relationships

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Drumman In can work in the short term, but eventually you have to close the gap. If you can't make a long distance relationship work it's out of selfishness. It means you love yourself more than you love the other person. You want your happiness now more than you want...

16 Nov 10

Peep hole

Amber @AmbiePam (101712) • United States 10 Nov 10

Do you guys have a peephole in your door? I used to. I lived in a downstairs apartment for three years before moving to a top floor apartment in the same complex. And I definitely used it! On the bottom floor I was also at the...

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Drumman What state to you live in? In Texas the landlord has to give you a peephole. It's state law.

11 Nov 10

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As one's husband ,am i competent enough ?

mrpoker0112 @mrpoker0112 (243) • China 8 Nov 10

i am one's husband aged 26,i got married with my lover one year ago.in March this year i came to shanghai from a desire to make money .afterwards my wife also came here ,cause she said she missed me so much.we both got each job...

competent

husband

regret

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Drumman Hey friend, don't get your hopes down. You're young and I assume your wife is pretty young too. Marriages are tough in the beginning. Young couples usually don't make a lot of money. You're not alone in your situation. You've learned a good lesson. It's hard...

9 Nov 10

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Two questions that need to be addressed

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 6 Nov 10

There has been a bunch of discussion over abortion recently probably due to the prevalence of pro-life candidate that would ban abortion under any circumstance. Yet there is two question that very few if any pro-lifer are willing...

abortion

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Drumman Trying to ban abortion is like fighting the war against drugs or just war in general. There will always be drugs in this country and there will always be war. That's just the way it is. People don't abort or not abort according to what the law says. They do it...

9 Nov 10

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My daughter loves to play in the rain but she always gets sick. What shall I do?

JackRoy @JackRoy (242) • United States 26 Oct 10

Whenever it rains my daughter wants to in the rain. But if she plays in the rain she falls ill. We can't let her do so. Sometimes she insists so much that we have let her go in the rain. The very night she catches fever and cough...

play in the rain

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Drumman This does not sound like a hard problem. Tell her no. If you tell her yes then don't worry about taking care of her when she gets sick, it was your fault anyway.

5 Nov 10

Atheist Request Today

teamrose @teamrose (1492) • United States 21 Oct 10

An atheist lady (health club and lunch buddy) talked to me today. She is an elderly woman with a 43 year-old daughter. The daughter is the youngest of her 4 children. The daughter was just diagnosed with rectal cancer. Needless to...

atheist

christian

prayer

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Drumman I agree with macdingolinger. This lady does not sound like an atheist. She may be leaning toward atheism, but she hasn't made her mind up yet. I try not to say I'll pray for people, because usually I don't do it. Instead I ask if I can pray for them RIGHT NOW....

22 Oct 10

Your Religion is Nothing!

blessing2u @blessing2u (496) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Two years ago as I was sitting down in my beloved chair just outside my house, somebody, a good looking man came and talked to me about the Bible. When I told him that I have a religion, he smiled and told me with a soft voice,...

religion

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Drumman I would not say your religion is nothing. If your religion teaches you what you learned from that man then it is something! I guess yours did not though. Religion can be good if it teaches about the love of God and the saving grace of Jesus Christ. That is...

8 Oct 10

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We are all so Pretentious

dreemsofdark @dreemsofdark (714) • United States 4 Oct 10

Any of us that are believers in God believe in God in our own unique way. We believe that he/she/it is a certain way and we are ruled by what we believe in our minds that is right and wrong and what pleases and displeases...

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Drumman I understand why you think it's pretentious, but I disagree. Let's look at your example about God creating the world by thought. If you really believe that then you have to stick with it. If you don't think you can tell someone else that God created the...

8 Oct 10

Who are the real most prominent owner or ancestral domain claimants of Israel?

GjAMastEr @gjabaigar (2200) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

Is it the Jews who mandated by the United Nations after World War II? These are mixed of races that Converted to Jews that came from some part of Europe and Asia Minor. These are like Ashkenazi Jews, Khazar Jewish, famous people...

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Drumman I don't have a lot of knowledge about this subject. I learned a lot from everyone else. Thanks for asking and for everyone's answers. I just wanted to say I think you have an epic avatar. Awesome!

7 Oct 10

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They Made My Son Write an Apology note

ladym33 @ladym33 (10978) • United States 6 Oct 10

Sunday night my son went over to a friend's house where the family purchased a pay per view profressional wrestling event. They also had over a few other boys as well. The boys are all 13 years old. I went to pick up my son and...

apolgoy note

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Drumman Those parents are crazy. It sounds like they cannot control children and have no business having a houseful of them under their supervision. Did your kid write the letter? He should have written them an apology letter that said "I'm sorry you feel like...

7 Oct 10

If People would say something about your country what would you do?

sjhaeki @sjhaeki (795) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

I just thought of this recently, if someone would say or ask something, anything about your country or your countrymen would you be objective or bias? would you answer based on your emotions or explain it as how it is? Or would...

country

people

self

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Drumman After you read this you'll probably be able to guess what country I'm from. My country is very powerful and influences almost every other country in the world so people are going to talk about it, good or bad. There's no getting around that. I am very proud...

7 Oct 10

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Don't you think that religion favors us a little too much with its rewards?

SinRealm @SinRealm (558) • Philippines 6 Oct 10

If you notice about most religion, they all lead to a promise of goodness and stuff, like going to heaven, getting a harem virgin wives, reincarnation and all those... If you're good. But, the problem here is that, the way of life...

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Drumman I only know of one religion which does not offer any of the things you mentioned. It's Christianity. Christianity does promise Heaven, but not as you said "if you're good". In fact it's just the opposite. The Bible states that nobody is good enough for...

7 Oct 10

President US : Barack Obama want to visit Indonesia

brankasfile @brankasfile (102) • Indonesia 28 Sep 10

After several times delay to visit Indonesia, The President now planing to visit Indonesia. He is President that always make difference I think. What you share plz tell me

make a difference

relationship

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Drumman Don't let him come. He won't help anything.

29 Sep 10

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Do you have to go to church every Sunday to be a Christian?

kaeleya @kaeleya (80) • United States 26 Sep 10

I have had many debates on this subject to be a Christian or not to be one. I have heard that if you do go to church every Sunday you are and if you don't then you are stilling trying to be a Christian. I would love to know what...

christian

church

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Drumman Hebrews 10:25 "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching." In Luke 4 you see that Jesus went to the synagogue on the Sabbath. If Jesus is not...

26 Sep 10

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would you shoot or wait?

Ambitiouslyleiah @Ambitiouslyleiah (591) • United States 25 Sep 10

I remember a conversation after my hubby got a gun about if I would actually shoot anyone if they were to come into our house. He taught me to use the gun in case I ever needed too and told me not to wait or hesitate. I said that...

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Drumman I would probably give the person a warning, but if he or she didn't leave and looked like they were going to hurt me or my family I would shoot them. Where I live the law is is on my side. My home is my sanctuary and I can legally stop anyone from trying to...

25 Sep 10

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happy sunday!

maylen2010 @maylen2010 (95) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

i AM GLAD TO VISIT GOD IN HER HOME TODAY,FEELING REFRESH AND HAPPY TO BE HIM.

maylen2010

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Drumman Visit God in Her home? How do you figure God is a woman? The Bible I read often refers to Him as "Father".

24 Sep 10