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badhoevedorp @badhoevedorp (11) • Netherlands 22 May 09

Ok, my wife convinced me to move to her village a few years back. Now I live within walking distance of my mother-in-law and 2 sisters-in-law. The continuing meddling, commenting (how we live our lives, how we raise our child, how...

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HeidiRose Ok, my wife convinced me to move to her village a few years back. Now I live within walking distance of my mother-in-law and 2 sisters-in-law. The continuing meddling, commenting (how we live our lives, how we raise our child, how we do this, how we do that)...

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bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 20 May 09

I thought that I would bring this discussion to the table just out of curiosity. When it comes to shower curtains I would like them to be pretty and frilly. However we need to watch the money in our family and...

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HeidiRose I thought that I would bring this discussion to the table just out of curiosity. When it comes to shower curtains I would like them to be pretty and frilly. However we need to watch the money in our family and mostly just buy the shower...

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pooh923 @pooh923 (94) • Philippines 20 May 09

I have almost rated anyone I could especially those who replied or commented on the discussions I've started but no one seems to rate me back as well.. This just saddens me... :( I hope people will start to be more helpful to one...

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HeidiRose I have almost rated anyone I could especially those who replied or commented on the discussions I've started but no one seems to rate me back as well.. This just saddens me... :( I hope people will start to be more helpful to one another and rate each other......

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webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 14 Mar 07

Okay here's a HUGE pet peeve of mine. I went to my wife’s restaurant early Tuesday night to have some delicious tabular salad. As I sat behind the counter eating a young couple (20s) came & ordered some food to go. They started...

public displays of affection

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HeidiRose My opinion is they were going to far. What if there had been children in the restaurant? Some parents would be answering some difficult questions. It's great to show everyone that you love your partner, but that wasn't exactly love, it was lust. Lust should be...

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myjewel @myjewel (268) • Philippines 15 Jan 07

why do people tend to abuse prozac? is it really that addictive? i heard some who can't even last a day without having to swallow one. i haven't had one in my life but this drug really interests me. is this like the drug most...

prozac

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HeidiRose I'm new on this site and noticed this post. I have taken Prozac off and on for 10 years. There have been times when I just decided not to take it anymore. I have gone as much as a year without taking it. There was never a craving for it. Believe me I know what...

12 Mar 07

xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4417) 3 Mar 07

hello people, ahh well where do i start? hmm, lol! well my partner has been so demanding lately, i must say he is an illegal immigrant in this country, as ive never told anyone this before, i lied to people saying he was nice last...

work permit

relationships

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HeidiRose If I had the money I would get on a plane to the UK to help you get away from this man. Unfortunately, I don't have that kind of money. Please let know how things turn out if you can? Don't forget that you have already built up an online support group of...

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xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4417) 3 Mar 07

hello people, ahh well where do i start? hmm, lol! well my partner has been so demanding lately, i must say he is an illegal immigrant in this country, as ive never told anyone this before, i lied to people saying he was nice last...

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HeidiRose Oh honey, what I've read here makes me cry. You are way to young to start your life with a man this mean to you. It is a good plan to get away from him. After you move away, build a good support group of friends. Keep them around you every day. You are a very...

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Schnorrawaggle @Schnorrawaggle (688) • Austria 11 Mar 07

Too many times we complain about all that ails us and so do the folks around us. At least here in this town they do. Everyone complains about everything. So I've decided to be positive and spend more time thinking about the good...

grateful

gratitude

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what are you grateful for

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HeidiRose You're right! All to often we complain, complain and complain some more. I need to be looking at the good things in my life as well. I am grateful for my husband of 11 years. No one has ever treated me as well as he has. He spoils me. Then there's my daughter...

11 Mar 07

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 10 Mar 07

Alright folks, I hereby swear that the dream I am going to relate is a very real one. It happened some nights ago but I can still remember clearly what happened. I was in an enclosed room and behind me was a heavy metal door -...

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HeidiRose No I just realized that there are other people in the room with me, so I couldn't close the door behind me. I have dreams like that all the time. I have no idea why or where they come from. When I wake up I always think I would do it differently than what I...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 10 Mar 07

Alright folks, I hereby swear that the dream I am going to relate is a very real one. It happened some nights ago but I can still remember clearly what happened. I was in an enclosed room and behind me was a heavy metal door -...

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HeidiRose You dag gum right I'm going to get out of that room. But I would try to close the door if anyway possible before the wasps could get to me. Me, I probably would have turned around and tried to help that poor man. I'm stupid that way. I'm pretty sure there's...

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kavi112 @kavi112 (232) • India 10 Mar 07

its true that you should share everything with your partner...but if there is some truth about you which when told may even end your relationship..would you tell it..or hide for the sake of a wonderful fine relationshi and die...

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HeidiRose I think it depends on the secret. How ashamed of the secret are you? Do you think it will cause him/her to lose respect for you? Is it something you have grown past? I think everyone has some kind of secret they are not particularly proud of. But is it really...

10 Mar 07

pelo26 @pelo26 (1552) • Philippines 10 Mar 07

I don't get it when couples going five to seven years all of a sudden call it quits and breaks-up. I have witnessed my bestfriend getting dumped by her 8 year girlfriend for somebody else. Another friend of mine suddenly exchanges...

break ups

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HeidiRose I think kebpete is right about one thing. Most of the time it starts out as lust. After the lust has used itself up (for the lack of better words), couples find they just don't like each other as much as they thought. Sometimes couples just find that they are...

10 Mar 07

HeidiRose @HeidiRose (18) • United States 10 Mar 07

I was molested by my step-father from the age of 3 to 15. I have started writing about it and completed about 20 pages. My husband has been encouraging me for the last 10 years to write it. I'm not happy with the way things are...

book

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Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 8 Mar 07

(I'm venting...Please forgive me) You know, I look back at my life so far and I could just SLAP the crap out of myself!!! I'm so freaking annoyed with myself that I can't even see straight. I seem to get myself in the worst...

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HeidiRose Girl, there is nothing wrong or "selfish" about wanting some time for yourself. I doubt very seriously that you "ALWAYS" choose the wrong way to go. You are definitely being to hard on yourself. It is impossible to please "Everyone". So stop trying. You...

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Macthedj @Macthedj (630) 9 Mar 07

I have an older brother who I have not spoken to in 10 years. We were quite close but had a family dispute and parted on very bad terms. Due to this rift my brother has not spoken to me or the rest of my family for all this time....

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HeidiRose I agree with a lot of the answers and advice that some of the others have given you already. First, I would contact his wife. Hopefully, she will talk to you. If not, don't stop there. Send a card and flowers/balloons wishing him a speedy recovery and write...

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