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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 8 Mar 07

My close friend loses her temper easily whenever her kids are naughty or do not follow her instructions. Her blood pressure will increase whenever she is angry. That is bad for her health. I am trying to help her but most of my...

bad temper

control temper

high blood pressure

naughtly kids

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usama03 Well its quite easy!! engage brain before mouth. More over when you feel like your temper is about to burst, just engage yourself into something that will make you busy. That way you can deviate what you feel...!

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 8 Mar 07

My close friend loses her temper easily whenever her kids are naughty or do not follow her instructions. Her blood pressure will increase whenever she is angry. That is bad for her health. I am trying to help her but most of my...

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mdbpineda just relax and chill

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 8 Mar 07

My close friend loses her temper easily whenever her kids are naughty or do not follow her instructions. Her blood pressure will increase whenever she is angry. That is bad for her health. I am trying to help her but most of my...

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mdarma I do understand your friends anxiety. In my case I have two grown up childrens, aged 29 & 31. Whenever, or most of the time when I am travelling, I think of the past, on how my childern behaved when they were young and how I reacted to their...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 7 Mar 07

Most of us agree that money is important and spend time making a lot of money. It is interesting to find out how others use their...

spend money

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mdarma Roof over the head and food on the table are the most important thing that most will look for. other needs can vary from idividual to individual

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 3 Mar 07

We see a lot of happy and not so happy marriages among our friends or relatives. One of the important reason could be both partners have different reasons for getting married. I feel that both partners must have a very clear idea...

why get married

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florenciascorner I think for most people, it's a matter of when you love someone you want to be with them all the time. Most of us live in a culture that says, in order for that to happen you must get married. I know in some countries it's more of a duty...to bring money into...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

discipline for children

how to be good parents

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ratburn i would never hit my children because it doesn't only hurt them physically, more so it hurts the child emotionally and this will stick with him for the rest of his life. i am not a parent so i really don't know the effective way. i am just thinking that...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 3 Mar 07

We see a lot of happy and not so happy marriages among our friends or relatives. One of the important reason could be both partners have different reasons for getting married. I feel that both partners must have a very clear idea...

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june24 The reason I want to get married is because it is the command of God. I want God to be a part of our relationship. Through marriage, you invite God to be the center of your relationship.

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 6 Mar 07

Money is important to me, it makes the world go round. We can do a lot of wonders with money like helping others, charity, donation and even improve or change other lives. On the other hand, money can also lead to many evil...

make money

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yiemega Indeed significant money in our life everyday, but as compared money and life then here life is more important

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 6 Mar 07

Money is important to me, it makes the world go round. We can do a lot of wonders with money like helping others, charity, donation and even improve or change other lives. On the other hand, money can also lead to many evil...

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mdarma Yes! never be a slave to money. When one becomes a slave, one will lose all the quality of good human. Greed takes over. Money is important as long as you are the master. Just as the saying goes "Fire is a good servant but a bad master"

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 6 Mar 07

Money is important to me, it makes the world go round. We can do a lot of wonders with money like helping others, charity, donation and even improve or change other lives. On the other hand, money can also lead to many evil...

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manifestabundance Thanks for your kind comments! Since we are spiritual beings of divine intelligence, divine love and divine power, what we think and do manifests! So, Abundance is our birthright!

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 6 Mar 07

Money is important to me, it makes the world go round. We can do a lot of wonders with money like helping others, charity, donation and even improve or change other lives. On the other hand, money can also lead to many evil...

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manifestabundance Yes, money is important! Money is just a means to an end. Like a knife, it can be used for good or evil. Money must always be your servant, you must not be a slave to money. Money is also a form of energy. As a wise man once said: "Money is like...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 4 Mar 07

I feel so good when I help others :-) It is very difficult to express in words but I feel so much more alive. There was a recent incident where I help a blind man with a white stick to look out for his bus at a bus-stop. That...

give first

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Macthedj I prefer to help others, because as you say, You never know when you will need the help of the others

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

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mdarma Hi Kelvin, Just remembered, watching "SUPER NANNY MIGHT HELP"

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

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mdarma To cane !!!, however, it can be used to give them fear. When we use the cane, we must be careful. These days childern are exposed to several factors and it might have a back-lash. Should, look into your own enviroment..

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

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loved1 I very rarely spank my children. I try to save that as a punishment for when they are doing something that could be dangerous. (Like running into the street) It is much more effective to reward good behavior and revoke privelages when they are disobedient. An...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

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Macthedj I would never lift my hand to my son, but you are right they do need disciplined and sometimes it is hard to do this. I find that explaining the bigger picture to my son and explaining consequences of his actions long term can have a more dramtic impact on his...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

Nowadays, kids and teenagers are getting more rebellious. Sometimes, as a parent I also do not know how to discipline my children properly. If I explain to them and they do not listen, what other approach do you use? If I do not...

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kaiyascloset I believe there are better ways to discipline children other than spanking! It actually takes more patience to discipline the right way without spanking! They understand more than we know sometimes. I have small children and time-outs seem to work fairly well,...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 4 Mar 07

Do we really decide what we want to do with our life? or we let our daily activities run through us? If we have dreams or plan out what we want to do to achieve our goals, then we are designing our life. Many people have this...

design my life

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isha11 this is one question that has rattled me no end..and after a lot of thought i have come to the conclusion that life is part free will, part destiny..see,people say that you should plan your work, then work your plan in order to succed in life..but i have seen...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 4 Mar 07

I feel so good when I help others :-) It is very difficult to express in words but I feel so much more alive. There was a recent incident where I help a blind man with a white stick to look out for his bus at a bus-stop. That...

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mdarma Yes Kelvin, helping people do give us great satisfaction, in different ways. When I was an Insurance adviser, it gave me great happiness, whenever, I get my friends to see the better part of insurance and eventually they embarke program for the interest of...

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KelvinChan @KelvinChan (76) • Singapore 27 Feb 07

It is always a challenge to keep improving myself and be better in whatever I do. I wonder how successful people learn and improve themselves. Do they engage personal tutors or they do their own research? Please share your...

do we still improve ourselves

i am too busy with bread butter issues

no time to learn

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manifestabundance Hi Kelvin! Well, I think successful people learn from a combination of areas, including: - personal experiences, aka the School of Hard Knocks - their environment, such as friends and family - coaches, teachers and mentors - seminars, courses,...

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