Mzee2tu

@Mzee2tu (30)

Kenya • Age 47

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Responses (15)

Mzee2tu's Responses

Dealing with In-laws

pbbbsra @pbbbsra (1214) • Philippines 20 Jul 11

I am very happy being married and I have the most wonderful in-laws in the world. The start wasn't easy, but they ended up loving me like their own daughter too. I am very contented with my life as a wife. We live in the same...

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Mzee2tu I have never been to such a situation, but if I were you I would my preference would be on moving out. As a couple there are many things you prefer to do but may not do them for fear of antagonizing the in-laws. In fact, before you act when living together you...

21 Jul 11

Dont have any friends in the neighbours

ayis12 @ayis12 (544) • Philippines 20 Jul 11

I know its sound like im weird, but its true! I dont have any friends in our place. I dont feel like going out like the others do. Are you like this too?

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Mzee2tu While not so much like you, I have friends although normally I am not so much attached to them. Maybe I refer to them as workmates not friends. But the principle behind all this is linking with those with similar interests at a 'given time' not at 'every...

20 Jul 11

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What will you do when you have to go to a party letting your lover alone.

EthanWan @EthanWan (42) • China 20 Jul 11

You are invited to a party.There will be many old friends,and of course the party will be very interesting.But your lover is not asked to attend.What will you do then?Will you ask him/her to go together?How will you do if he/she...

what will you do when you have to go to a party le

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Mzee2tu I would assume by inviting you maybe they were inviting him/her also, but if she/he is unwilling to attend and has concrete reasons why there was no clear invitation you should not attend. Should there be no clear reasons for the unwillingness just attend and...

20 Jul 11

Do you think music lost its meaning?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 17 Jul 11

Do you listen to musics that are very popular? Like Rihanna being this gal that was beated up and not even a year later release a music that says how she like the way it hurts and things like that...Or lyrics that talk about s.....

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Mzee2tu I concur with you, there are so many musicians whose songs leaves you baffled, when a sinner only dwells on s., it leaves you blank whereas you sought enjoyment and nourishment in the song. But like some have responded, it boils down to tastes. While I loathe...

18 Jul 11

Should spouses or significant others have access to your passwords?

roxxtime @roxxtime (299) • United States 31 May 11

I would like to know what opinions there are on this matter because I am slightly on the fence about it. I used to believe in full disclosure, but not accessing the accounts without permission and leaving some privacy. To me it...

passwords

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Mzee2tu I would say you disclose your pw, it will show that you have nothing to hide as you say. Also, it will help in building trust. He is seeking it because he suspects something and hence, you hold your privacy you reinforce the perception that you are hiding...

15 Jul 11

Do You Have Good Neighbors?

Marcia @emilyn1997 (171) • United States 8 Jul 11

Do you have good neighbors? I am lucky. I have live in a excellent neighbor hood. I leave in a very peaceful neighborhood and my neighbors are great. It is mostly elderly people. They are always willing to give a helping...

neighbors

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Mzee2tu Count yourself blessed to have such as your neighbors. You would do well to respect and treat them as parents. It have been you receiving their assistance from them, when they will be in need I trust you will be the first to assist them, we call it maintaining...

15 Jul 11

Which is the correct age to get married??

boomima @boomima (227) • India 16 Jun 11

I need to know when should a man or women get married in his/her life . Some people get married at 25(men) 21(women) , but many people do early marriages as soon as they attain puberty . At what time did you get married ? Plz...

early marriage

marriage age for men and women

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Mzee2tu It is hard to set the age one should marry or get married. In some communities 18 for girls and boys is the limit, but the necessary time is when the two (man & lady) feel they want to get married. It will be okay to get married when one has reached some...

24 Jun 11

My friend's sad love story happend recently.God save him from her...!!!

sweetychandu7 @sweetychandu7 (1120) • India 19 Jun 11

I have a friend who is my classmate and room mate in my bachelors 10 years ago and we still friends now.He loved a girl(who is crazy about money) where belongs to another caste.The parents of my friend come to know his love...

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Mzee2tu It is sad to happen that way. But like the girl is saying it would have been better to let the break the news to her parents. She knows them better and understands when best to inform them of this development. Also, it boosts her morale and standing before...

23 Jun 11

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Wouldn't It Be Wonderful If We Could Earn A "Living Wage" On The Internet?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 21 Jun 11

From what I can gather from the good people of MyLot is that we all try to do the best we can financially, don't we? Wherever we are in the world, the financial problems are the same..lost a job, can't get another job..or, in a...

working at home

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Mzee2tu Companies do outsource their work. But with outsourcing comes competition, the amount you would take as your minimum sometimes is higher than what others prefer to take. I am a member at scriptlance and sometimes I watch the amount freelancers offer for...

23 Jun 11

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How you earn with yahoo contrubutor?

hspatel90 @hspatel90 (11) • India 21 Jun 11

hi! I found yahoo contributor website. How much do you earn with yahoo association? I don't know how to earn with it? I am good writer with experience of 6 months as writer on among top 50 tech sites from India. Please inform me...

contributor yahoo

yahoo earn

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Mzee2tu Well you may have to be contented that though they offer good pay only those in US can join / benefit from yahoo contributor. Maybe it is time yahoo and others overcame this discrimination.

21 Jun 11

Help Me Deal With This User

Amber @AmbiePam (110623) • United States 19 Jun 11

I'll try to summarize this as short as possible. I'd like everyone's opinion regardless if you're a pushover or a rude person. Maybe you can help me find a middle ground. I have a neighbor (she lives in the same building as me,...

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Mzee2tu You just have to tell her that much as you treasure her as a neighbor you have some privacy you want to maintain. There is a limit to the extent you can bare with her, the earlier you set boundaries, whether using hard words or soft words, the better for your...

20 Jun 11

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Loving My Ex

gvenrose @gvenrose (30) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

I am a single mother and currently in an online relationship for more than 4 years. I thought I've moved on from my last relationship which is to the father of my child. But I was wrong because I am still thinking of him at nights...

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Mzee2tu Your freedom will start when you forgive him and forgive yourself for having been in that relationship in the first place. Take time to write the possibilities of you reconciling and if none at all, when those dreams come think them through and make sure you...

20 Jun 11

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Looking to make some extra $$ for vacation

dad2jws @dad2jws (10) • United States 17 Jun 11

I'm new to the world of making money online. I'm looking to make some extra vacation money. We leave in a little over a month. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

money

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Mzee2tu You may earn $$ here at mylot. Also, there are a few sites where you can earn more. But before you sign up carry out a research on the site, there are many sites that are ready to take your $$ and block you IP. So, if a site promises heaven research on it...

20 Jun 11

Favorite Place When You are Sad

Jellrey @axlrate7 (1405) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

I always go to bed to sleep when I become sad... when you sleep, you forget everything in such small span of time at the same time it relax our body. And sometimes I go to mall to entertain myself with all the latest and popular...

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Mzee2tu I may not say I have never been sad, but even when I was I preferred to chat about anything unrelated to what made me sad in the first place. A game of chess would also do the trick as does singing and composing songs that are never written.

20 Jun 11

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