Dont have any friends in the neighbours
By ayis12
@ayis12 (544)
Philippines
13 responses
@celticeagle (159589)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jul 11
I really down hangout with people who live here. We have one friend that lives a few doors down and even she has been less than good. I would rather not have one if they are going to be backstabbers and get us in trouble with housing. We can't afford that and I would rather remail friendless.
@celticeagle (159589)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jul 11
That is true. I am very careful about who I communicate with. It is scarey around here because we are on Housing and we have to go by certain rules. If someone doesn't like you they can make up things or all sorts of idiot things.
@ayis12 (544)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
one of my reasons why i dont feel like being friends with the neighbour, simply because theres a possible you will meet people who is not friendly at all. Like what you said a backstabber or maybe sometimes someone who loves to make a issue which is not true. And of course, if you get pissed to that. You will be annoyed everytime you go out in your house because you lived near to that person.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Jul 11
I only have the friends I have now and don't really go out looking for others. When it comes to neighborhood friends, no none of those. All of my friends live anywhere from ten minutes to 30 minutes away from me, and that's fine by me. My friends are my extended family.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Youre not alone Ayis. I dont have friends among my neighbours as well. It could be the generation gap.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
i am a loner and i only have a few friends. I'm not close to anybody in my neighborhood though most of my neighbors are my relatives. I prefer to be alone rather than have my house become a place where there may lots of people going in and out of it. I seldom have visitors at home. I don't even know how my neighbors and relatives feel about me because I just smile at them when we happen to meet. I don't have anything against them it's just my nature that I don't talk to people too much.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
If you are new in your place that's really common not have friends.
But once you've stayed there for a longer time,slowly you will find good friends and met new friends.
When we moved to our new house,I also do not have friends,but later make good friends and now I have few close ones.
It will start with a simple hello and a smile...and you will never knew you will make good friends.
but of course,you have to be careful too :)
@wizteen (502)
• India
20 Jul 11
Lifes pretty boring without friends...You can keep yourself busy with Television or computer,But you wont really know what you are missing until you make some friends. So id suggest you go out and say hi to a few people. im sure they will like you,and you will like them too :) All the best.
@tkonlinevn (6422)
• Vietnam
20 Jul 11
I think this is not good for you. Friends make we feel the meanings of life. And they'll help you when you meet difficult. So, open your heart with other people.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Oh yes i am so much like you. When i was a kid i went to school in a different place which is far away from my hometown. I just go home every weekend so i didn't have any friends in our hometown until i graduated in college.
Now my husband and i moved to a new house last year and a new neighborhood as well and i don't have any friends at all. I don't like going to a neighbors' house and talk. And my only free time is during the day time and from afternoon until evening i have work. And during day time they also all work so i couldn't make friends with them at all.
@Mzee2tu (30)
• Kenya
20 Jul 11
While not so much like you, I have friends although normally I am not so much attached to them. Maybe I refer to them as workmates not friends. But the principle behind all this is linking with those with similar interests at a 'given time' not at 'every time', interests do change.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
20 Jul 11
since i move in to my new neighbourhood i also don't have any friends. All my friends now are from my old neighbourhood. I don't have any friends in new neighbourhood not because i don't socialize but all grown ups people here are much older than me and their kids are too young for me so i mostly invite my friends from my old neighbourhood to hang out at my place.
@CherryDiamonds (69)
• United States
20 Jul 11
I don't fit in with a lot of people and when i went to college at a university i had no friends and i didn't want to go out much. i ended up making just a few friends but the only time we ever hung out was to go to lunch or dinner and occasional weekend plans otherwise i just simply sat in my room for a whole year of college. I ended up transferring because i really enjoy having friends but i just can't seem to fit in anywhere.
