Necmi7

@Necmi7 (19)

Australia • Age 39

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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What was the most frusterating arguement you've ever had?

Necmi7 @Necmi7 (19) • Australia 2 May 07

Being me, I get really frusterated easily. But only when I know I have done something or not done something and someone says I have not/done it, or when people don't understand me. Today would have been the most frusterated I...

relationships

if your partner will deny you..can you still consider he/she loves you?

era2007 @era2007 (80) • Philippines 1 Apr 07

hey guys, just wondering what you think of this situation i met a lot of friends and most of their problems with their partner is they loved them so much but they found out that their partner keeps on denying about them to other...

denial

love

relationship

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Necmi7 No I don't consider that love! It's stupid how people can believe that their partner's love them when they're deneying them. Love comes a long with a lot of things, and one of them is that you're proud of who you LOVE!

2 May 07

should i deny my boyfriend when my friends asks bout him????

sHakei @sHakei (10) • Philippines 2 May 07

i act so weird in terms of my relationship with my 'x' bestfriend.. now my bf... i deny him whenever someone asks around.. you know.. if there is something bout us.. umm.. what shall i do?? he just keep on saying he understand.....

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Necmi7 I agree with Margmats, Do you like him enough to be with him. I use to deney my ex boyfriend and in the end I realized I didn't like him in the way I thought I did. If you like him then don't deney him. Because he is hurting deep inside.

2 May 07

Will you sacrifice your love for your kid?

mariyamaka @mariyamaka (931) • India 2 May 07

What if you fall in love with a person and both of you are willing to get married but he has a condition that he will not accept your child from previous husband?? will you marry him or leave your lover?? Kids life is more...

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Necmi7 Look at it this way, if he loves you he would accept you for you and everything that comes along with you. Which includes your children. A person that makes you choose between themselves and another person/people are very selfish. Kid life is deffinately...

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Perfect career or perfect marriage, what would you chose????

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 21 Mar 07

If you only could have an amazing career, your absolute dream job, or have the perfect marriage with a person that is your soul mate, what would you chose? It's not an easy choice but I would go for perfect marriage. Having a...

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Necmi7 PERFECT MARRIAGE! To me money just can't buy me happiness! Being with your soul mate, brings you love, happiness and it makes you feel full. All those things money just can't buy.

2 May 07

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love can transform the world

ritikagarg @ritikagarg (120) • India 2 May 07

what is your opinion about love some people thinks that love has the power to transform the world, what is your opinion are you agree with it?.....

love

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Necmi7 I believe it has the power to transform your world. To me love is one of the most important things. I don't think life is complete unless there is love in it. It turns you into a different person, and you start to see and experience things you have never...

2 May 07

Have you ever felt like it was true love, but it was quite the opposite?

Necmi7 @Necmi7 (19) • Australia 1 May 07

I was in love with this guy for so many years. He had my heart and it seemed like he would always have it. I was the one that was always there for him. Always bringing him back up when he needed me, but where was he for me? We...

love

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Necmi7 He did become a different person, because I was best friends with his cousin, and she said herself he is just so different from how he was back then. His friends also agreed with him too. I don't think it was because I got more involved with him.

2 May 07

Can you always Resist Temptations in the real life??

easy888 @easy888 (10404) • Australia 1 May 07

'The biggest temptation to me is food,especially junk food,whenever I have bought some chocolates or chips at home, I will finsih them quickly,sometimes I would even want to eat them just after dinner. Cigarettes are also a big...

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Necmi7 My Biggest temptation is kissing my boyfriend! When I'm with him and we play those silly games where you see who can last the longest without kissing the other one, I always seem to lose. Just can't help it.

2 May 07

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Virginity...Does it really matter... At All?

kcrysea @kcrysea (195) • Philippines 1 May 07

I have a friend who called us and cried. She was frustrated at that time and need someone to talk to...When we're together we all asked her what happened and we made a wild guess... and we're right. She lost her virginity and...

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Necmi7 If girls should be virgins when the boys find us, they should be virgins too! Too me if a guy doesn't accept you for your past, including your mistakes or experiences, then they're not worth your time!! I can't emphasize that enough. It's not love if he can't...

2 May 07

Love IS blind? a simple thought..

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 2 May 07

Why do some people choose to love a cheater rather than a good or honest one? Why do we always believe that they are good even though we know deep inside that they're not? Maybe because in love, you dont see the bad reality of...

love

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Necmi7 I think that question has kept man-kind, for centuries, wondering. My friend recently have gotten with this guy, and he has cheated on her twice, and he still has the balls to tell her he loves her. He was still seeing his ex, and lying to her about it. It's...

2 May 07

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What to gift your friend who is 8 months pregnant ?

frodloo @frodloo (424) • Indonesia 28 Apr 07

My friend is 8 month pregnant and will deliver sometime in mid June. everytime i meet her i carry some gift for her say like books, chocolates etc. but i want to give her sometime different now, i read somewhere comfortable flip...

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Necmi7 Get her a gift basket which is filled with various things. Like one of those tins for a baby's first tooth. A photo album/profile book that you can write stuff about the babies' first steps, word, etc. Stuff like that would be nice to receieve.

1 May 07

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What has been the best gift your Beloved ever gave to you?

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 1 May 07

Mine is a little phone dangly thing with his name in Chinese and my Chinese zodiac sign on it. I carry it with me all the time and I treasure it. It may not have much value in money, but the thought behind it is superb as it was a...

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Necmi7 Everything my boyfriend got me is priceless, and I could sit here listing them all down and be finished a century later. lol. But the best gift he ever got for me was when he got a star named after me for Valentines day. It was so unbelievable, and all the...

1 May 07

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Have you ever felt like it was true love, but it was quite the opposite?

Necmi7 @Necmi7 (19) • Australia 1 May 07

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Necmi7 I do agree with you. Past relationships, do let you learn from your mistakes and you do tend to see who the greater men out there. For example, your husband =)

1 May 07

Have you ever felt like it was true love, but it was quite the opposite?

Necmi7 @Necmi7 (19) • Australia 1 May 07

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Have You Ever Felt Like You Were Asking To Much Of Someone?

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 30 Apr 07

I just ended a relationship because when I dealt with this person, I sometimes felt like I was asking to much and they just could not be bothered. In our lives, we want someone who takes pleasure in being there for us and does...

letting go

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Necmi7 I'm so happy for you! Seriously, this guy obviously isn't worth your time, and I'm pretty sure being humans we have all been through this stage! Keep your head up and let love find you. It works. I did and now I have the man of my dreams and he always puts in...

1 May 07

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Have you ever been a victim of physical or emotional abuse?

Swtrose @Swtrose (3385) • Canada 30 Apr 07

I was the victim of an abusive relationship when I was 18. I spent a year of my life with him. I was his punching bag, and if I fought back the abuse got worse. I’ve not seem him in 18 years. but the scars on the inside will...

emotional abuse

phisical abuse

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Necmi7 Swtrose, I feel where you're coming from! Althought I probably never experienced the things you did experice. I was with an abusive boyfriend. The scars do remain, but it's been a couple of years now and I'm now with a gorgeous MAN and he treats me like no...

1 May 07

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