SgtCandid

@SgtCandid (3)

United States • Age 78

Joined myLot 19 years ago

To know me is to love me ... or not!

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My Husband Has A Drinking Problem HELP ME!

bethack52 @bethack52 (407) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am at the point where I don’t know what to do, we have tried compromising, harm reduction which means he only drinks if it causes no harm, like he is not to drink and drive, and he is not to drink to where it causes him to get...

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SgtCandid Surely you jest...or are you really that clueless?

1 Dec 06

My Husband Has A Drinking Problem HELP ME!

bethack52 @bethack52 (407) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am at the point where I don’t know what to do, we have tried compromising, harm reduction which means he only drinks if it causes no harm, like he is not to drink and drive, and he is not to drink to where it causes him to get...

219 responses •

29 people

SgtCandid As a recovering alcoholic (18 years sober), I can tell you that nothing of what you've been doing will work for you and/or your husband. We drunks are incapable of sticking to "deals" we make with loved ones even tho our intentions are always good. Your...

1 Dec 06

My Husband Has A Drinking Problem HELP ME!

bethack52 @bethack52 (407) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am at the point where I don’t know what to do, we have tried compromising, harm reduction which means he only drinks if it causes no harm, like he is not to drink and drive, and he is not to drink to where it causes him to get...

219 responses •

29 people

SgtCandid As a recovering alcoholic (18 years sober) I can tell you that nothing you have mentioned will work. Making "deals" with drunks, and expecting to stick to them is only wasting time & postponing that which really needs to be done. I strongly encourage you to...

1 Dec 06