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Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Mar 10

I have a lot to be thankful for but feel more alone than I ever have in my life. And that really doesn't make sense because I have 5 kids...so I'm never alone, but I feel like I have no one. Any ideas on how to change my...

depression

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Stephanie5 Everything is happening with me. I have so much going on that it would be a BOOK if I told you everything. I just feel confused, under appreciated, annoyed, taken advantage of, used, abused and unloved. I feel like I'm invisible until someone needs something....

8 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Mar 10

I have a lot to be thankful for but feel more alone than I ever have in my life. And that really doesn't make sense because I have 5 kids...so I'm never alone, but I feel like I have no one. Any ideas on how to change my...

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Stephanie5 I can't concentrate on reading because they drive me up the wall the majority of the time. I can barely get on here because of their distractions. I try to play games online to keep my mind off some things and it does work sometimes, but then it's right back...

8 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Mar 10

I have a lot to be thankful for but feel more alone than I ever have in my life. And that really doesn't make sense because I have 5 kids...so I'm never alone, but I feel like I have no one. Any ideas on how to change my...

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Stephanie5 Thanks Rob, I think that is the biggest part of it. All I do and have ever done is take care of kids and I'm burnt out and tired of doing it alone. One day at a time =)

8 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Mar 10

How do you know when he's the "one"? I feel like every time I'm absolutely sure, he does or says something to me that puts me right back to square one. And when is enough, enough? When is it that you realize that you just can't...

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Stephanie5 I think so too Lelin. I do a lot better when my honey is home, but it just seems like he never is. And then EVERY TIME he comes home, he also picks up his 5 kids on the way and it's just so much workkkkk. I'm so overwhelmed that I just want to seriously run...

7 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Mar 10

How do you know when he's the "one"? I feel like every time I'm absolutely sure, he does or says something to me that puts me right back to square one. And when is enough, enough? When is it that you realize that you just can't...

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Stephanie5 I am trying so hard to hang in there. It's just really tough sometimes and I'm alone. No one wants to hear about my kids driving me up the wall all day. I feel misunderstood and underappreciated. But, at the same time, they all make me feel like I ask so much...

7 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

relocating to another state

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Stephanie5 Thanks Jen =) I never used to think things through so much, and now that I do, I'm wondering why I thought I was horrible for not doing so in the first place...this sucks! lol I just want to do the best thing for all the kids involved and it just seems...

6 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

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Stephanie5 I think you might be right! =)

5 Mar 10

gi2h_san @gi2h_san (162) • Indonesia 4 Mar 10

hai guys,, i just now verified my paypal account. as you know in paypal verification, we will be asked to submit how much money has paypal sent to our bank account.. and i have done that.. and now im afraid if paypal will take...

paypal

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Stephanie5 I'm in the USA. The only thing bad about paypal are the fees if you sell stuff on Ebay. I think they are kind of high, but everyone has to get their cut of your profits, right? I would def. suggest getting money in cash above and beyond anything else... But to...

5 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

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Stephanie5 I am stressed. I don't care about which doctors hack me up as long as I would have them there to hold me. He just is always in Michigan. We do live together if he was ever home. There is nothing in this area. We would never be able to make it. Thanks for...

5 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

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Stephanie5 Thank you lelin! I wish I could just go right now. I forgot to mention that I also have cancer and just had my 7-8th surgery 3 weeks ago...and the fact that his job in Michigan is a temporary one due to he is a travelling welder. So, I could go to Michigan...

4 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

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Stephanie5 It is so tough. I wish he could find steady work closer to home, but McDonald's isn't even hiring around here. He's a travelling welder, so that's another problem... We might not be in Michigan for very long. Everything is so up in the air right now in just...

4 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 4 Mar 10

I currently live in Indiana. I have 5 children and basically live by myself. I have a boyfriend that also has 5 children. We have been together for 3 years now. He works in Michigan and can only come home 1-2 times a...

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Stephanie5 I want to move, but I want to do what's best for ALL the kids involved. We, obviously, aren't the typical family. We have both been married and divorced twice. I'm terrified of marrying him. I've been in two bad relationships and so has he. We don't have any...

4 Mar 10

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 24 Nov 09

Between my old man and I, we have 10 kids. They are 3 to 15. They ALL have what they need and most of what they want. And some of them are having a real hard time right now with behavior problems. They are all spoiled and...

starting a family tradition

ungrateful

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Stephanie5 Well, we don't really have that around here, we live in a really rural community. I did just call our local mission center and I'm waiting on a call back! I'm excited, I hope we can teach them something! Thanks for the idea!

30 Nov 09

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 24 Nov 09

Between my old man and I, we have 10 kids. They are 3 to 15. They ALL have what they need and most of what they want. And some of them are having a real hard time right now with behavior problems. They are all spoiled and...

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Stephanie5 I'm still laughing at your comments. I feel like I want to kill myself sometimes. They wear me out. I just got off the phone with our local mission center and I'm waiting for the director to call me back to let me know what all is ok to do there at the...

30 Nov 09

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 24 Nov 09

I haven't bought so much as a candy cane. I need to but I'm so torn as to what to get and where to get it. I want to teach my kids a lesson this Christmas. And I wouldn't mind starting a new family tradition. Have you bought...

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Stephanie5 It's the biggest shopping day of the year. It's the day after Thanksgiving. And you can get things for great prices if you are willing to fight the crowds of rude, still half asleep shoppers! ha ha I don't know if you live in the US, but that's where I...

30 Nov 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 24 Nov 09

My husband is a truck driver and he doesn't have a navigator or a GPS so I told him that we would work on getting one after the first of the year. Times are hard for us right now and I still have Christmas to buy for the kids. We...

husband

needs

understanding

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Stephanie5 I just thought of something...if you do buy it for him, save the reciept and claim it on your taxes. You can do that for just about any money he spends on clothes, shoes, food, etc. You prolly already knew that though! ;-)

24 Nov 09

~Jodi~ @jeanena (2198) • Bucklin, Kansas 25 Oct 09

As some of my mylot friends knows my daughter had her baby girl this past Jan , with a guy she was living with, they lived together for 1 year and 4 months. Well we have a bit of a situation because of that relationship . I will...

arrested

babies

daughter

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Stephanie5 I understand. Hopefully she will stay away from him and find her a decent man! And hopefully he's so young, he'll forget!

25 Oct 09

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 8 Oct 09

I'm about to lock myself up in a funny farm! My kids are out of control, mostly due to their father putting them up to it - telling them that if they don't listen and behave that I will give in and let them go live with him. Well,...

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Stephanie5 ;-)

11 Oct 09

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 8 Oct 09

I'm about to lock myself up in a funny farm! My kids are out of control, mostly due to their father putting them up to it - telling them that if they don't listen and behave that I will give in and let them go live with him. Well,...

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Stephanie5 Omg! I'm still laughing. Thank you, I really needed that! As far as letting the kids go there, no no no!! He would let one of them get killed or something. Heck, he don't even keep them for his regular visitation. He keeps them for a couple hours, brings...

9 Oct 09

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