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Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Apr 10

I have always been a terrible sleeper. I am pretty sure it is because I dream ALL NIGHT and I never fall into a real good sleep. When I was a little girl my mom used a spray bottle full of water in my room to "keep the monsters...

dream

nightmares

remembering dreams

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setsuna26 @setsuna26 (2751) • Philippines 1 Apr 10

There are times that no matter how good you explain your idea or your opinion some people dont get what your mean.Its as if they shut their mind for the possibility of absorbing whatever it is that you have to say and just go on...

crisis

understanding

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Tambunan This happens to me several times a day. One of the greatest adventures in my life is my marriage. I have the best husband I can imagine, but the adventure comes because he is Indonesian and I am American. English is his 6th language and we got married before I...

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Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 21 Mar 10

I am an American, born and raised in Southern California. My husband is Indonesian, born and raised in Northern Sumatra. We met, were married and still live in Indonesia. I know that I found the right man for me, he is perfect and...

culture

marriage

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mydfyang @mydfyang (30) • Bhutan 5 Mar 10

I always dream that one day i will travel around the world alone.Being left alone in a unknown city or surrounded by unknown people,I get a fresh feeling.And trying to sovle the problem unpredicted makes me feel good. have you...

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Tambunan I travelled to Africa alone when I was 18. I stayed for 3 years, living In Kenya, Uganda and South Sudan. Then I went to China and Hong Kong when I was 21. Now I live in Indonesia, am very happily married to a wonderful Indonesian man and plan to stay here...

5 Mar 10

lendmhe @lendmhe (372) • Philippines 3 Mar 10

Hello! This question has been in my mind for a long time, I didn't know the answer until I found it from that man in http://www.justin.tv/topchannels/ he read it in Proverbs 19:14 says " house and wealth are inherited from...

from god

gift

prudent

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Tambunan THe reason that I know my husband is from the Lord is because I prayed for him. I asked God to help me to guard my heart, and not to allow me to have any real feelings for anyone who was not the "right one" for me. The reason being that I did not want to give...

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Chad525 @Chad525 (349) • Canada 5 Mar 10

You know the drill...every day/week the house seems to get messy. Dishes to do, laundry piles up.... So what is your least favorite household chore? Cleaning the dishes, doing and folding the laundry? vacuuming? As you can...

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Tambunan mopping. I hate mopping. I don't like the smell, i dont like cleaning the mop after Ive finished, and the results don't last long enough to be satisfying.

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apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 5 Mar 10

Sometimes I wounder how much longer I will have to waite to find what people call love. will it be years or months I dont know, of course know one really knows when that special someone will come in to there lives. though I hope...

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Tambunan Hi Apples99. I guess first you have to decide what LOVE means to you. If you are just looking for a warm feeling inside, or that romantic electricity that shoots through your body when your lover touches you, then you can probably find it just about anywhere....

5 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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Tambunan The_Lamb_Lies_Down, Thank you for your clarification. fifileigh, It must sound stupid if you've never been pregnant, or have never heard of the risks. But I guarantee, if you'd ever lost a baby you would totally understand. I agree that pets are a part of...

5 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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Tambunan I agree, we have to weigh our decisions. I know there are people who will disagree, but to me, the life of my child is of significantly greater value than that of my cat.

5 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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Tambunan Raineyes, You may change your mind later in your life. I remember feeling like that when I was 19 too. But when you fall in love, truly in love, you may just find that you really want to make a baby with that person, so that you can have the joy of seeing...

5 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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Tambunan Ravenladyj, I'm relieved that we won't have to worry about the cat jumping into the crib. The cat-less house does feel a bit lonely, but much safer in the circumstances. We are thinking about getting another cat after our son is big enough and not so fragile....

5 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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Tambunan Hi Irishidid, I'm glad to hear you were able to keep your cats thru your pregnancies. It isn't so easy here. We can get cat litter in special stores, but it is very very expensive. Our cat just "went" outside, and so was not as clean and safe-feeling as I...

5 Mar 10

Beautyfactor @Beautyfactor (1512) 4 Mar 10

Can you remember when you were a child what you wanted to be when you grew up? I was thinking about this because at the age of 11 I made a time capsule and put in it everything that was important to me at the time. When I opened...

childhood

dreams

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Tambunan When I was growing up I wanted to be an Archeologist... I thought. What I was really interested in was skeletons which I'm pretty sure is not archeology , but anyway. I used to go out hiking with a friend who also had the same interests. When I was 11 a...

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Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 2 Mar 10

We had this cat that my husband saved from drowning in a river when it was still very tiny. We kept her until she was grown and for a cat in Indonesia... very spoiled. Then I found out I was pregnant again. I had just had a...

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rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 28 Feb 10

Loose joints what does it mean in elders like what are the disadvantages of this? Are there any particular exercises which we can practice....Is it harmful to have loose joints....

loose joints

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Tambunan If the joints in your hands and wrists are loose, you can strengthen them by these exercises: 1) gently squeeze together the two bones (tibula and fibula?) in your lower arm and then slowly release. This should not be painful, so if it is you are squeezing...

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pandaeyes @pandaeyes (2065) 1 Mar 10

Today is quite a sunny warm day. I am wearing my trainers and a thin top with a 'hoodie' over it(hooded sweatshirt or cardigan). When I first bought myself a hoodie, I felt so daring because they are mainly youth type clothing...

personality

uniform

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Tambunan I am totally effected by the clothes that I wear. The same goes for whether or not I put on makeup or jewelry and do my hair. If I've just been working around the house all day, have my hair pulled back and am wearing "house-clothes" then I tend to feel lazy...

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Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 1 Mar 10

What do you do when "pests" invade your house? I am constantly faced with several species of ants, roaches, rats, snakes... you name it, we've got it here in the East Indies. So what do you do? Shoo them out? Poison? Set traps?...

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Tambunan Allknowing, We try not to kill the snakes either. The Javanese say that if you put salt in front of your door they wont come in... but they also say that if if you throw salt on a snake it turns into ashes, so I'm not to sure I believe it. :-)

1 Mar 10

hanagi @hanagi (390) • Philippines 28 Feb 10

My hair is becoming dry due to excessive ironing and hair coloring. I always use hair iron or blower to style or dry my hair. I couldn't help but use them because if I don't my hair would look very weird. The problem is it became...

dry hair

hair

hair coloring

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Tambunan I second the coconut milk. Here in Eastern Asia women use coconut milk mixed with grated orange peel. If you live in teh West, it's a lot easier to just buy a little box of coconut milk at the super market. Put it in a bowl and mix it with the grated peel of...

1 Mar 10

Tambunan @Tambunan (28) • Indonesia 1 Mar 10

What do you do when "pests" invade your house? I am constantly faced with several species of ants, roaches, rats, snakes... you name it, we've got it here in the East Indies. So what do you do? Shoo them out? Poison? Set traps?...

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