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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I need ideas for weddings and advice. When is the best time of year for a wedding? What do i need to do before the wedding date and how long before? I am an only child and have never helped plan a wedding. I know that i need to...

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larish The very first thing that I do is that I researh on the net and look for all possible reading materials to help me prepare - magazines, books. I also like to look at wedding pictures of the people I know to have an idea on what I want. Here's the plan I did,...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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larish Patience is a virtue that you need on this scenario. If you really want him to propose but you don't want to directly tell it to him then I guess you really have to wait for the time that he will be ready. Marriage is something that should be well thought of,...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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andy77e Hopefully everything will work out. Hopefully he will pop the question. I truly hope for the best. But the truth is, 9 out of 10 unmarried move-in couples eventually end their relationship. I've heard stories exactly like yours in every way. "oh well get...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I need ideas for weddings and advice. When is the best time of year for a wedding? What do i need to do before the wedding date and how long before? I am an only child and have never helped plan a wedding. I know that i need to...

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smileonstar Hello, I married here (USA) as well, but not that big wedding cuz our relatives are in different country. However, I got married again with the same man in my country was really big. Most of the part are our parents choice and all we have to do just dress...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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benny128 to be honest I dont think you can rush anyone into doing something, if he wants to ask you to marry him then he will when he is ready. Or why dont you as it is the 21st century ask him to marry you. Equality and all, there is nothing stopping you asking...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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cobra1368 Patience, young grasshopper! If it is meant to be, it will come. You can't make it happen any faster. Chances are, if you try, it will feel like you are pressuring him, even though it is not your intention. My advice to you is to just enjoy...

19 Jul 09

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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spiderchenw i think ,he knows about it,do not worry,you love him ,never say this,do you as what you do .

19 Jul 09

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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dorisday1971 My husband never formally offered his marriage proposal to me. We just talked about being together forever and he just asked me about getting a mariage license. He even asked help from my sister how to go about getting a marriage license. From there, we went...

19 Jul 09

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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prashanthalva I Will Give you those Magical Words Just Tell him Your Parents are forcing you to marry another Boy From Your Town . And Then watch his answer .. I hope the Purpose Is Served .. Do Lot More On MyLot ..

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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theptcnetworks Maybe you could just wait him to prepare for it. Maybe he is not yet ready to ask that question by now. Its true that you shouldn't push him to ask him right away.. maybe he is trying to give you a surprise. but waiting for that unknown will really keep you...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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robert19ph hello Thumper11, In my own opinion, I think what you need to do is to wait for him tpo ask you. That way, you will not pressure him. Maybe he is not asking you that yet for he needs to be financially ready. What matters now is that you are both together,...

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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smileonstar Hello, some guys just love to talk about it but never do any action at all... I know it is very stressful when it comes to this point. My husband didn't really propose to me... he just get the wedding done and told me that next week is over wedding day!!! I...

19 Jul 09

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Thumper11 @Thumper11 (662) • United States 18 Jul 09

I am 26, will soon be 27, my boyfriend is 25 and will soon be 26. I have lived with him now for over a year all together. We have recently started talking about building a house, wedding plans and children, but as of yet, he still...

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andy77e The bottom line is you can't make him or force him. If he wants to, he will. If not, you are stuck. Look at it from his perspective. Why would he want to marry you now? He's already got you. You are living with him. Sleeping with him. What more can you give...

19 Jul 09

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janebeth @janebeth (2032) • Philippines 13 Jul 09

i have this friend who shared her problem to me about his present boyfriend, she found out that he had a baby in his past girlfriend and the baby is now 3 years old and my friend just heard that news from another person and not in...

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anotherxidentity Why would you advise anyone that the guy needs to be more concern with the girlfriend that his baby? Shame on you!!! Seriously I hope you never have kids because your kids will always need to be put first before another girl etc. Wow... like this...

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janebeth @janebeth (2032) • Philippines 13 Jul 09

i have this friend who shared her problem to me about his present boyfriend, she found out that he had a baby in his past girlfriend and the baby is now 3 years old and my friend just heard that news from another person and not in...

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allenbucks @allenbucks (289) • Philippines 22 Jun 09

Well I go to the library almost everyday. I like to go there because I really love to read. Most of the books that I have read there are mathematics because I am an engineering students. But if I don't have anything important to...

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daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 4 Jun 09

My friend Janie is married to Peter. The issue is he doesn't want to have kids, infact he wants to adopt a kid. He is a social activist who study and work for environmental issues with an NGO. He says that earth already has lots...

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manayonboy all i can say is think many times not only once because adopting a child is a big responsibility . he should consult a consultant specialized in adopting children and attend seminar to be ready to become a children in his home.

4 Jun 09

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daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 4 Jun 09

My friend Janie is married to Peter. The issue is he doesn't want to have kids, infact he wants to adopt a kid. He is a social activist who study and work for environmental issues with an NGO. He says that earth already has lots...

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jessi0887 Maybe she could talk him into doing what my fiance and I are considering. WE want our own kids of course but we also want to share love with those who dont have a family. So we plan to have at least three of our own and then maybe later adopt a couple of kids....

4 Jun 09

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daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 4 Jun 09

My friend Janie is married to Peter. The issue is he doesn't want to have kids, infact he wants to adopt a kid. He is a social activist who study and work for environmental issues with an NGO. He says that earth already has lots...

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sunshine4 I think that it is wonderful when someone decides to adopt a child. If she wants a baby of her own, then they are in a bad situation. I would have not married him without bringing these issues up in the first hand. To be honest, if I were Jane, I would...

4 Jun 09

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daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 4 Jun 09

My friend Janie is married to Peter. The issue is he doesn't want to have kids, infact he wants to adopt a kid. He is a social activist who study and work for environmental issues with an NGO. He says that earth already has lots...

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suzzy3 It seems to me he has not quite grasped the fact that most women if they can would like to have their own child if possible.You say he is an activist so does he want to adopt this{ person} child,as a point or to love it,is it just another project to prove a...

4 Jun 09

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