Thumper11

@Thumper11 (662)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 17 years ago

"If you can't say nothin' nice, don't say nothin' at all."

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what wiLL you do if yOur Boyfriend had a baby in his past relationship??

janebeth @janebeth (2032) • Philippines 13 Jul 09

i have this friend who shared her problem to me about his present boyfriend, she found out that he had a baby in his past girlfriend and the baby is now 3 years old and my friend just heard that news from another person and not in...

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Thumper11 First of all, There is no reason that the boy can not be both a father to his child and a boyfriend to your friend. I have dated people who had children in past relationships and I had no problem what so ever with them being part of that child's life, It's...

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How often do you go to the library?

allenbucks @allenbucks (289) • Philippines 22 Jun 09

Well I go to the library almost everyday. I like to go there because I really love to read. Most of the books that I have read there are mathematics because I am an engineering students. But if I don't have anything important to...

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Thumper11 While attending college and living on campus, I was in the library at least once per week, either doing research, writing papers, or just hanging out with my friends and doing group projects for class. When I was little, like under 5 years old, I was in...

22 Jun 09

Do you agree if your husband wants to adopt a kid?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 4 Jun 09

My friend Janie is married to Peter. The issue is he doesn't want to have kids, infact he wants to adopt a kid. He is a social activist who study and work for environmental issues with an NGO. He says that earth already has lots...

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Thumper11 As an adoptee, I feel very strongly on this issue. There are many children out there that need a great loving home. My boyfriend and I have had this discussion. We both want a large family... four kids to be exact.... We want 1 biological child and I would not...

4 Jun 09

Diaper Rash

Manna02 @Manna02 (86) • United States 17 May 09

Can someone please give me their opinion on the best diaper rash ointment? My four month old daughter has developed some serious diaper rash suddenly. I don't know if it was the change in diapers, wipes, or diet, but it looks so...

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Thumper11 You can probably look this up on the internet somewhere, but my boyfriend's aunt uses a+d ointment and mixes it with some baby powder and corn meal. the powder and corn meal dry it up and the ointment soothes. I don't remember the measurements of each, but...

17 May 09

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How do you correct/punish your kids?

Glow1971 @Glow1971 (354) • Spain 13 May 09

My kids are driving me crazy! No matter how many times I ask politely for them to do something, they take forever to finish it. Why is that? It makes me so upset and I try to not let it get to me but sometimes it's difficult....

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Thumper11 I do not have children, but my education background is in social work. Unlike most social workers, I believe that there are times when you have to swat your children, not hard and never in the face, but once on the butt when they are doing something wrong...

13 May 09

Do you believe divorce is ever preferrable over sticking it out?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 6 May 09

I was reading about this on another discussion. Some people are against divorce, no matter what, mainly for "religious" reasons. I, on the other hand, divorced an abusive man after sticking it out for far too long. It was one of...

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Thumper11 I feel that in general, if there is a chance that you might be able to over come the obstacles.... and get back on the right track, especially if there are children involved, that sticking it out is a better option, but I have worked at a women's shelter and...

6 May 09

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i love my parents, yet i end up arguing

RButler29 @RButler29 (26) • Saudi Arabia 22 Apr 09

hey friends, This I assume is a very common thing, esp with the youth of today. I'm amongst those people, who is studying in college, have a normal family, a middle class family and I wont delude myself, but Im not amongst the...

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Thumper11 I am an only child and I was adaopted.... there is no doubt in my mind that I love my parents and that they love me, but we argue. Mostly me and my mom. I was really bad about it at 14. I am now almost 26. I still have disagreements with my mom, but I am not...

22 Apr 09

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Survey:which one would you choose ?love or money

xinli21 @xinli21 (31) • China 16 Apr 09

If there is one people you don't love,but he will give the rich life.will you choose him and married ?And we don't need sham answer,Just say as your true idea.I just wanna to survey,I will be very appreciate of you,if you say the...

love

money

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Thumper11 I would pick love. I've been in this situation and although I have struggled... It is hard to be poor, I am much happier to feel true love than to just have the money. Money can't buy you true love or true happiness. I would like to have more money laying...

16 Apr 09

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Miracles in your life

bubblyapple @bubblyapple (2653) • Philippines 12 Apr 09

What things in your life do you consider as miracles?

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Thumper11 I have a few things in my life that I actually consider miracles. I was adopted. My parents choose me... I could have ended up with God only knows who or what as parents, but I was very blessed to have such a wonderful family. We struggled and everything was...

12 Apr 09

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Dose your cat meow for no reason?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 25 Mar 09

My cat is very strange, but I am sure those of you who have read my other discussion on cats already know how strange my cat is. anyway when I'm relaxing and everything is calm and quiet around the house my cat will suddenly start...

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Thumper11 Is your cat male or female? I ask this because my cat also did that. Turns out the males do this when they are calling for a mate. The just decide that they need to meow at the top of their lungs and they do this to get the attention of any female cat near by....

25 Mar 09

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Who Wins HBK or the Undertaker At Wrestlemania 25?

elmiko @elmiko (6630) • United States 21 Mar 09

This will probably be the best match to watch that night as HBK rarely disappoints in his matches. Undertaker always rises to the challenges at Wrestlemania. I'm going to have to say once again the Undertaker will win it further...

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Thumper11 It will be 17-0 if he wins. I like both of them, but I'd like to see undertaker continue his winning streak at wrestlemania. My boyfriend and I have tickets to go to a smackdown ecw taping in knoxville tn on april 14th. That's the day after the draft... the...

21 Mar 09

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Which one would you give up among Internet, cell phone, television?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 21 Mar 09

If you had to, which one of these would you let go and why? I know, we are so intrinsically dependent on these and our lives would be miserable without any of these. But there had been a time when we had lived without these! Life...

cell phone

internet

television

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Thumper11 I have given up all three at one point in time or another. When I was out on my own, I often was faced with the important decision... food, or phone, heat or internet... water or television. Ultimately the heat, food and water won out and I spent at least one...

21 Mar 09

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myLot “Stimulus Package” coming soon!

myLot! @myLot (127) • Kansas City, Missouri 11 Mar 09

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Thumper11 That's great! With the economy the way that it is and the unemployment rate soaring ever higher each week, who can't use a little extra money these days? Thank you Mylot! This is such a great way to help us help ourselves. I have been unemployed since...

15 Mar 09

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worst hotel experience ever!!

plb9201 @plb9201 (140) • United States 10 Mar 09

I went to Alabama about 3 months ago and decided to "save some money" and find a cheaper hotel. Well let me tell you... SPEND YOUR MONEY!!! When we went to our room there was a man laying on our bed watching TV. Said he was from...

foot prints on the ceiling

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Thumper11 My mom owns a motel in our small little hometown in ky. She cleans each and every room herself, we do have a girl that helps us, but my mom checks every room to make sure that they are up to her standard of clean. We have no roaches, no nasty carpet, no...

10 Mar 09

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Do People "On the Other Side" Talk about How they Died?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 28 Feb 09

If we do continue living after this life is over, I wonder if people talk about how they died. We talk about events in our lives now, so I can't imagine we wouldn't talk about them in then. Death is one of the things everyone of...

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Thumper11 This is an interesting topic. I can't give you an answer on this though, unfortunately the only way to answer this is to die and find out for our selves. I am a ghost hunter and am just getting started. I am hoping to catch some evps. And some ghost hunters...

28 Feb 09

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PS3 or Wii or Xbox 360?

RoryGillies @RoryGillies (41) 25 Feb 09

Which is better? Never mind the sales, as the Xbox would trash all oppostion, but for gameplay and internet connection, which is the best?

gaming

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Thumper11 According to my boyfriend and his best friend that are both avid gamers...... The Xbox 360 is the best by far. They both say that there are not enough great games out yet for the PS3 and the Wii seems to have more children's games. The Xbox 360 Has many great...

25 Feb 09

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Do you remember Are You Afraid of the Dark?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 18 Feb 09

I just downloaded the complete series of this show. There are some shows in the series that I've never seen. It's interesting watching these, plus the episodes that I really like. One of my favorite is the one about the boy who...

are you afraid of the dark

remember

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Thumper11 Oh my god! I used to love that show. I haven't seen it in what feels like a million years, but I used to watch it every time that it was on. I don't remember the episodes or anything, but I loved the show. I need to download it myself. That is great that you...

18 Feb 09

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Our Cat loves WIRES

Anora_Eldorath @Anora_Eldorath (6028) • United States 17 Feb 09

Our lovely, adorable, satanic, witchy cat Lightening loves wires. Apparently she doesn't love her daddy's wires anymore now that we're married, she loves mine. I've gone through countless phone chargers, power plugs, a partial...

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Thumper11 My cat loves wires and his older brother used to chew wires too. I use a spray bottle of water.... anytime he is doing bad behavior, jumping on counters, chewing wires, clawing furiture, I spray him in the face with the water a few times and tell him NO! It...

17 Feb 09

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