Trinidiva

@Trinidiva (9)

Trinidad And Tobago • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you speak from the heart,or tell people what they want to hear????

April @cloud_kicker_32 (4635) • United States 10 Aug 09

Hey there everyone,a friend of mine just asked me for advice and i contiplated what i should say and how..on one side i didnt want to break her heart..and on the other she needed to know the truth..soooo as gently as i could i...

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Trinidiva It depends but i always try to speak from the heart. Telling someone the truth is always the best option all it is said that TRUTH HURTS.

11 Aug 09

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Accepting Another's Child

LilyoftheThorns @LilyoftheThorns (12918) • United States 11 Aug 09

I was watching CSI and one of the episodes made me think of a good question to bring up here. Say you are married to someone and you have your own kids, your own life has started and grown. Then say, a child shows up at your...

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Trinidiva Like you LilyoftheThorns i would welcome that child with open arms. I would not try to replace that child's mother but when you marry someone you become part of another family and that family includes all the children my spouse may have...so i would accept...

11 Aug 09

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Is whistling a rude thing to do? Why people gets irritated?

phillip_shiny @phillip_shiny (2330) • India 11 Aug 09

Hi Dearones, Just wonder if whistling is rude or not? Some likes whistling and I think its an outcome of happiness... why it is consider as a socially incorrect behaviour? Do you gets irritated when someone...

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Trinidiva I think that whistling might be not be irritating if it is done within the confines of ones home but if i am walking down the road and a guy whistles at me...that might be irritating or insulting.

11 Aug 09

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Do you have closer relationships with online than offline friends

faridii @faridii (79) • Pakistan 11 Aug 09

Ever since the rise of the .com, i have met a lot of fantastic people online, personal and business. But back in the early days meeting people online was perceived as creepy by the offline world. The internet is far more social...

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Trinidiva Throughout the years that i have been online i have made lots of friends and some of them i have even met...but i would not say that i would get closer to them than my offline friends..I can share stuff with my offline friends that i can't with my online...

11 Aug 09

Parents vs. Teachers - Who is to blame?

Trinidiva @Trinidiva (9) • Trinidad And Tobago 11 Aug 09

I am a teacher of adolescents/ teenagers and i am appalled at how many of them at this level still cannot read or write. They have passed through the elementary and sometimes the high school system and this problem went...

education

Do you prefer the single life or the married life?

Trinidiva @Trinidiva (9) • Trinidad And Tobago 9 Aug 09

I have never been married so my answer would be i prefer the single life simple because there is a lot of freedom attached to it..i mean you can go wherever you want and with whomever you want without have to anwer to a husband or...

single or married

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Trinidiva I believe that every little girl has a dream of finding their Knight in Shining Armor and living happily ever after and getting married. But for those who have had their hearts broken on more than one occassion there views on living happily ever after...

9 Aug 09

Do you prefer the single life or the married life?

Trinidiva @Trinidiva (9) • Trinidad And Tobago 9 Aug 09

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which do you preffer a hubby or a baby..?

onlyllyzie @onlyllyzie (153) • Philippines 9 Aug 09

if ur goin to choose one...what would u choose.. a baby or a hubby? for me ill choose baby.. coz "baby nevr leave mommy but hubby leaves mommy when they see better mommy.." i know someday ur baby gonna have his/her own family...

baby

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Trinidiva I am a single mother of a baby boy, so that should answer the question...i would choose a baby.

9 Aug 09

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How do you deal with (homeless people) who beg from you?

kukaisiton @kukaisiton (702) • Philippines 8 Aug 09

around here in our city, ou regulary see people begging. some of them are children, some come in groups and give letters to ask for solicitations. some are adults anyway, when they beg from me (im not proud of it) but i rarely...

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Trinidiva I am from Trinidad and most of the homeless people are those who were displaced from their homes either from a fire or something of that nature and some are into drugs. I am very skeptical about who i give money but sometimes i give food. My mother says if you...

9 Aug 09