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Mysteria @Mysteria (209) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

Many Parents can't control there anger impulses when they wear out, they often resort to spanking their children.I personally don't think its right to smack their bottom even if the child makes repetitive mistakes. Most of the...

abuse

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alharra I have done very well. I lived with my parents from the time my oldest was 6 months until she was 13. I had the same boyfriend for 6 years and then I had to have him arrested. So combining all of that I have done very well. But now that the guy is gone things...

11 Jul 11

Mysteria @Mysteria (209) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

Many Parents can't control there anger impulses when they wear out, they often resort to spanking their children.I personally don't think its right to smack their bottom even if the child makes repetitive mistakes. Most of the...

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4 people

alharra I have shown all 3 kids plenty of respect trust me on that one. There were circumstances that forced me to live with my parents until the last couple of years. All I can say about that is that I suspect my Mom has something to do with the lack of respect since...

10 Jul 11

dragon54u @dragon54u (31633) • United States 8 Jul 11

I'm having a rather rough month financially and am trying to cut down on expenses. So when I ran out of coffee I looked at the large baggie of coffee that my stepmom gave me about a month ago--it's coffee that she and dad have...

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alharra Been doing it that way for a couple of years. Thankfully the other people in my house who drink coffee seem to like it as well.

10 Jul 11

dragon54u @dragon54u (31633) • United States 19 Mar 11

Some of you may know that my mother died recently. She passed up a lot of opportunities that she would have enjoyed because she wanted to leave something for her children. Her own mother was like that and she swore she'd never be...

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alharra Yep Dad getting arrested was a good thing. Unfortunately when the ex was removed from the home Dad seemed to think that he could take over. He stayed with me for several days after ex was arrested and complained that I wasn't cleaning the house enough. He also...

2 Jul 11

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chicksdigscars @chicksdigscars (5483) 30 Jun 11

A friend of mine has completely went off the rails! She broke up with her long term partner, a year ago, and since then,shes went mental. Drinking all the time, partying all the time, getting into fights, making enemies, and yet...

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alharra All you can do is explain to her why what she is doing is wrong ad hope she decides to change her life. Help her all you can without hurting yourself.

1 Jul 11

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85292) • Valdosta, Georgia 30 Jun 11

Let me explain. My husband cannot find a good steady job in the place we are in right now. He has tried everything and it just isn't working! Where his brother lives a few states away there is tons of work there. My husband...

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alharra Then you will only be apart for a month. In the grand scheme of things a month is nothing. In the meantime you have a job so that is more money. I wish you all the best.

30 Jun 11

w1986114 @w1986114 (158) • China 7 Aug 09

guys, i like watch televisions,verica mars, gossip girl,hannah montana,and friends are my favorite, but i don't know any website to watch televisions on line for free,can u tell me some, thanks in advance

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alharra You could also try Hulu.com

7 Aug 09

princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 7 Aug 09

Who has raised a child (or maybe more than one) without the father figure for support? Did he ever send money? Was it your choice to raise the child alone, or would he just not own up to the responsibilty of his child(ren)? I...

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alharra It must be a good feeling. My oldest has recently had some contact with her dad and facebook and he blames everything on me. Thankfully my child is smart enough to see through that. And to think I have been very careful all these years, until recently, to not...

7 Aug 09

dreamweaverjan @dreamweaverjan (3471) • United States 8 Jun 09

YEAH BABY!!!! GOOD NEWS!! Yes that's right, the She~devil that invaded our farm is leaving and headed back to CALIFORNIA!!!! want to know more about who and what I'm blabbering about? here's a link to another discussion I...

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alharra Oops I just bothered to read the post you had mentioned- I actually thought you were talking about your Mom. Sorry!!!!

9 Jun 09

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TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 19 May 09

Read the story here: http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/05/18/siu.schools.abuse/index.html?eref=rss_topstories (Please tell me if the link doesn't work and I will put another in one of the early responses) The Government...

abuse of special needs kids

kids first

special needs kids

trust in teachers

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alharra As I said once I had Duncan transferred to another school the teachers really worked with him. His first couple of years were hard and he acted out alot. Duncan was classified as EBD, emotional behavior disorder, at first instead of LD. His teachers stressed...

21 May 09

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bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 18 May 09

Whether in a marriage or special relationship do you feel that you need to walk on egg shells in order to avoid an argument? That is to say that would you rather hold your feelings and issues inside just to avoid...

avoiding fighting

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alharra We are working on things and as I said things have gotten better. There is no date set for a wedding and there won't be a plan for a long time. I'm better off financially not getting married at this point. My fiance and I have been together for 4 years now and...

18 May 09

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bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 18 May 09

Whether in a marriage or special relationship do you feel that you need to walk on egg shells in order to avoid an argument? That is to say that would you rather hold your feelings and issues inside just to avoid...

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alharra Things are better between us but I am still hesistant to fight with him. Most of our problems are related to my kids and how he wants them to act. To be honest with you I think that if I had a job that would allow me to take care of myself and the kids without...

18 May 09

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CanadaGal @CanadaGal (4304) • Canada 6 May 09

I have 8 year old twins, and twin A has some fine motor and gross motor issues. He's been to see some paediatricians and various doctors and agencies here in town. He's brilliant, and it's so sad to see how frustrated he gets when...

paediatrician

parental contact

questionnaire

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alharra At this point in your son's life that is probably the best decision. Mainly because I can see Dad trying ti get involved after you contact him and then leaving again when he gets bored or whatever.

7 May 09

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navonly @navonly (901) • India 5 May 09

Hello friends, I am really die hard fan of watching movies. When it comes to watching movies, I do some time go for preferable movies, may be as per the actors of the movie, genre, story, or may be anything else. All must be...

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alharra Christian was in Interview with a Vampire

6 May 09

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MaryEllenG @MaryEllenG (35) • United States 5 May 09

How many of you get annoyed at out-of-control children in places of business? Yesterday I went to four different places: supermarket, department store, laundry, and library. In all these places there were children screaming,...

children

control

parents

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alharra It's more for myself than anything. I tell them to behave and they don't and I get so mad I just want to beat thjeir little butts- which I know I shouldn't do.

5 May 09

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