aryzairam

@aryzairam (57)

Philippines • Age 32

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Insomnia

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Hi myLotters! I need help. I've been experiencing insomnia since I was in high school. I just can't sleep until 2 or 3 am. And it really affects my performance during day time. What do you think I should do? I'd really appreciate...

insomnia

sleep

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aryzairam And that really didn't help me.

10 Sep 12

Supporting mistress and son

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

My dad had a mistress and unfortunately, they had a son. But my dad's still living with us. The woman's asking for money. Do you think he should support them? or just the son?

family

mistress

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aryzairam Yeah. I agree with you. It's not his fault anyway. I knew about it just 2 years ago. And the boy is already 13 years old. They kept it from me. But it has been an issue about my dad supporting the two.

10 Sep 12

Do you think after 30 years newspaper still going to be in?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Right now most young generation prefer to surf the net than read newspaper. And I'm just wondering what will happen to newspaper after 30 years? Do you think this newspaper still exist? Or their will be no more newspaper but...

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aryzairam I think it will still exist because not all of us can afford paying on internet cafes or even using computers.

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What is wrong with me?

TheScupp @TheScupp (102) • Finland 10 Sep 12

Hi. I'm 16 years old student from Finland and I have some serious problems with my life now. So I recently started studying in vocational school and I had to move to student residence because there wasn't any other way to get here...

depression

help

life

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aryzairam You just recently started so you still haven't met people there. Try to know them, make friends. You'll see, you will just find yourself hanging out with them after class and you won't notice the time.

10 Sep 12

Group Study really works!

mikej143 @mikej143 (309) • Philippines 7 Sep 12

hahazt I do really miss my student years and yet right now my brother having group study in our house but its too weird for them to do group studies and yet they were talking and sharing ideas out of topic sometimes Lol just I do...

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aryzairam Group studies aren't really effective for me. I want to study alone and figure out the answers on my own. Plus, if you're studying as a group, everyone's talking. I can't concentrate on what I'm reading. And the day will just end with me learning nothing.

10 Sep 12

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High school life or college life?

RSantos026 @RSantos026 (288) • Philippines 6 Sep 12

Hi dear mylotters! Since I'm done with my exam today, I would like to discuss this. When I'm high school all of my subjects schedules are fixed each day, alot of activies we did like Intramurals, aquaintance party, holloween and...

college

high school

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aryzairam I'd always prefer high school life than college life. In high school, you can even survive an exam without studying. In college, you can't. And you are on your own when you enter the university. No mom who will prepare your breakfast in the morning and make...

10 Sep 12

so i told my boyfriend that i was raped by my ex

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 10 Sep 12

Last time I told you guys How my ex kinda raped me, I told my current boyfriend yesterday, he is angry that why I allowed him to give me parting kiss. Anyways we have filed a case against him. My boyfriend is taking care of my...

rape

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aryzairam He is hurt too. It'll take time to heal. Just try to understand him. Things will get better. :)

10 Sep 12

why don't long distance relationship last?

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 10 Sep 12

I have always seen people breaking up when they have to live far from eachother. Why is that?? What do you guys think??

life

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aryzairam It's maybe because they can't stand the thing that they're away from the people they love. I know everyone of us wants someone who's always there beside us. But if you really love that person and you trust him/her, you can do anything. And don't let the...

10 Sep 12

What do you think about fixed marriage?

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

If ever you're in a culture where you have to follow these traditions, would you agree to get married to someone you really don't love?

arrangements

love

marriage

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Married Students

Yheart @Yheart (496) • Indonesia 8 Sep 12

In your country, may a senior high who got married continues his or her study? Or is it not allowed for students to get married unless they finish their study or they quit the school?

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aryzairam Yes, they can continue their studies. We even have to indicate our civil status in our admission papers. So it's allowed.

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stage of development and learnings

xandreamae @xandreamae (1) 10 Sep 12

A life of student is not as simple as how we want it to be. hardships also occurred specially during examination time. But some students that were already graduated said that it is better to be a student they could have received...

student

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aryzairam I am a student. And it's really difficult to be in college. But as a student, you just have to worry about the exams, projects, homeworks, etc. But when you go out of college, you will always deal with the big problems in life. You have to think of your family...

10 Sep 12

Dementia

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

To be honest. I want to die young. Or I want to die when my mind is still clear. I see old people just can't think straight anymore. I'm afraid that when I grow old and become forgetful or naughty or grouchy. I know no one can...

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aryzairam But we can't do anything about it. We will always be on that stage no matter what. It's inevitable. Let's just accept the fact that it'll happen anytime in our future. For now, enjoy that you still have your presence of mind. :)

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Supporting mistress and son

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

My dad had a mistress and unfortunately, they had a son. But my dad's still living with us. The woman's asking for money. Do you think he should support them? or just the son?

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Children and Computers

cattibre @cattibre (160) • United States 10 Sep 12

Children today are brought up in a life filled with computers. They play them at home, use them at school, some even have them in the classrooms to preform all school work on. When it comes to children and computers do you think...

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aryzairam For me, it's a good and a bad thing at the same time. Good because, like you said, children can really learn from it. Bad because they're already exposed to it at a very early age. First and foremost, their eyes are affected. Come to think of it, how long are...

10 Sep 12

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Insomnia

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

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When you feel desperate,who do you want to ask for help?

xiaopinggai @xiaopinggai (483) • China 10 Sep 12

It's a disharmony situation,while the office-bearers were chatting and drinking tea,a woman cried hysterically in front of the office building. I didn't know what happened,but i learnt that she must be desperate.Generally,the...

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aryzairam Whenever I need help, I always run to my mom. Because she's the one, I'm absolutely sure, who will always be there for me.

10 Sep 12

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being shy

angelkarah050182 @angelkarah050182 (4980) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

When I was younger, I was so shy. During our recitation or class participation, I didn't raise my hand that much because I was afraid that I might give wrong answers and my classmates would just laugh at me. LOL. When I was in...

shyness

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aryzairam Yes, I do. I always do. But in the case of participating in class, I didn't raise my hand not because I'm shy but because I'm afraid of the professor. Haha. Happens most of the time.

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People's interests

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Seriously, what kind of topics or questions do people would want to answer here? It's just that every topic has only 3 response. If it's a good topic, then you get 15 or more.

debate

interests

topic

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aryzairam I'm just new here in myLot and I still haven't posted a lot of discussions. I just noticed it while commenting on a few posts. Some didn't even get a response even if the discussion is debatable or kinda interesting.

10 Sep 12

People's interests

aryzairam @aryzairam (57) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Seriously, what kind of topics or questions do people would want to answer here? It's just that every topic has only 3 response. If it's a good topic, then you get 15 or more.

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when responding to a post do you?

violann @violann (436) • United States 10 Sep 12

When responding to a post do you say what you actually think about the matter at hand or do you say what you think the person wants to hear. I read a post tonight that I responded harshly to because it really got under my skin...

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aryzairam I honestly respond what I really think after I read the post.

10 Sep 12