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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas Thank you everyone for all the comments. I have been doing better. The bad days come and go. It is nice to know that others are in my same situation or have been there. thanks again and I wish you all the best.

20 Mar 07

clarkanthony @clarkanthony (45) • United States 25 Feb 07

I really missed out on my chance to go to school at a young age. Now I have to go to school in my thirties and its so difficult with a family. Is there any easy way? I go for a semester and then I sit one out. It really is hard to...

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ashcas I understand exactly where you are coming from. Well maybe not exactly. I do not have kids but I have been going to school for 7 years now. Sometimes I go full time most of the time I go part time and sometimes I like you just sit a semester out. I did a lot...

26 Feb 07

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

If you are married to someone who has a different religion with yours, how do you manage that? Now, the trickier question is what religion your children follows? Isn't it a distraction and will cause confusion to your kids?

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ashcas I have been with my husband for 9 years, he is southern Baptist and I am an Atheist. I don't think that we have mastered dealing with it yet. I guess what has gotten us this far is basically being honest about our feelings and agreeing to disagree. We don't...

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas Thank you for the information. I will add that site to the other fertility sites in my favorites.

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas Just to set the record straight we would love to adopt. I can not help that some us are forced to start parenthood in the red. (so to speak) there is no way that right now my husband and I could afford the adoption costs. We could afford to have a baby and...

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas I am 24 now. I am sorry that you had to go through this also but at the same time it sure does help to know that there was somewhere in my shoes 10 years ago and they are ok...I will be ok too. Thank you for your support.

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas I have actually thought that I might have a Thyroid problem. I have compared some of my other health problems with those related to Thryroid problems and a lot of them match. As soon as I can find and afford some good insurance I want to get that checked...

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas Thank you for the comment. Hopefully one day I will be able to look into treatments.Right now we just do not have the money. We could afford to have a baby and take care of a baby, but add in the cost of treatments and test and we can't. Not now anyway. I too...

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas My family is currently having a baby boom. 8 new arrivals in the last 2 years. Mostly to those younger than me and not trying to have children! We will probably do foster care or adopt somewhere down the road. good luck with the foster care.

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas I am sorry that you are having to deal with this also. I think that infertility in any situation is hard. I also wish that all those who love children were able to have them or have the resources to provide children without families homes.

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ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas I don't know your friend or anything about her journey with infertility but in my case I do not want to be angry and I try my best to deal with it when I can and hide it when I can't but it is something that is shoved in your face everyday. Even if you try to...

25 Feb 07

ajinomoto23 @ajinomoto23 (1057) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Do you think that is a sign of disrespect? I feel offended if my nephew call me by my first name without adding the word aunt. I keep on correcting him but he never change.

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ashcas When I was a kid I called my aunts and uncles Aunt so and so and Uncle so and so, but when I got older I started just calling them by their first name. We are all adults so I don't think it is disrespectful. When I talk about them to someone who does not know...

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jerpogz13 @jerpogz13 (283) • Antarctica 25 Feb 07

i have 20 cousins.thats all!!

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ashcas If you are counting just 1st cousins then I think 20 is a lot. I only have 2 1st cousins. one I have not seen in at least 15 years the other was just born a year ago. My dad was 1 of 4 kids but his 2 sisters could not have children and his brother only had...

25 Feb 07

ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas I am sorry for your loss. My situation is similiar(just not as many years,yet). We tried for 2 1/2 years finally got pregnant and then lost it at 9 weeks...2 years later, nothing. I am also the oldest and my little sister has a 8 month old with her boyfriend....

23 Feb 07

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pinknic @pinknic (307) 22 Feb 07

YOU!!! As a relatively new member of MyLot I'd like to get to know other members! So tell us one interesting or random fact about yourself! A weird fact about me is that I can't stand cotton wool. The feel of it just creeps...

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ashcas Only one...I could write and book about all of my wierd traits. I won't use milk the day before it is suppose to expire. Drives my husband crazy cause most of the time he will still drink it the day after. Gross. Of course he won't eat the last pickle slice in...

22 Feb 07

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mitdasein @mitdasein (46) • United States 8 Feb 07

How strict are you about meat-based ingredients? Do you make waiters go back and double-check whether there's chicken stock in the risotto? Do you have a "don't ask, don't tell policy" when it comes to the refried beans at Mexican...

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ashcas I am not that strict when it comes to restaurants. I just try to order something that doesn't have any reason to use meat. But I have never asked if they use chicken stock in the potatoes or anything like that. Like someone else said I don't want to starve....

22 Feb 07

maheshdvr @maheshdvr (107) • India 1 Dec 08

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ashcas just send me the game u want to play i will send u the link.please send me some interesting games and i will send u the link and simply u can download the games.its very easyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

1 Dec 08

ashcas @ashcas (55) • United States 22 Feb 07

I have become such an angry person since realizing that I will probably never have kids without alot of medical help or through adoption. I can not be happy for anyone. Someone says they are pregnant....I get mad. Someone invites...

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ashcas Yes it is very hard when you see others who have children and do not take care of them. I know many women who have 3+ kids and can not and do not take care of any of them. It is very sad.

22 Feb 07

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