banjiexia

@banjiexia (63)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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How do you feel when you have a discussion removed?

terri0824 @terri0824 (5205) • United States 4 Sep 07

I just noticed that a discussion I started a few days ago has been removed. I have been here about 5 months and it was the first one that I have had removed because of guideline violation. So sorry to the five people who responded...

discussion removed

how do you feel

how many

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banjiexia Well, the title of a discussion is important. Most people will decide to response to it through its title. So, you have realise it now,I think your discussion wonn't be removed from now on.

5 Sep 07

What you wanted to become in your early childhood ?

wonderful1 @wonderful1 (2075) • China 4 Sep 07

Well, my dream ambition as a child had been changing every now and then. I wanted to become a translator in my early days. Then I decided I would become a tourist guider to travel in the world. finally I became a secetary. for...

dream

early childhood

translator

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banjiexia Well, I wished to be a knowledgeable girl when I was a child. At that time, I thought a knowledgeable girl is cool,she know everything and can solve many problems.

4 Sep 07

do you believe that time is gold?.. yes or no...

butterfly39 @butterfly39 (3904) • Philippines 3 Sep 07

Personally yes...there were times that we just ignore some opportunities and we have it in mind that oh!...it's too early or maybe not too soon to plan things in life until such time that our time is shorten... what do you...

life

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banjiexia Well I agree with you. Time is precious.But it's hard to be a time saving man. We always forget the famous saying" Time is gold".

4 Sep 07

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Are you homesick?

tianshangdemen @tianshangdemen (69) • Singapore 3 Sep 07

I grew up in China, but I went to university in Singapore for my Msc degree, I needed to study in Singapore for at least 2 years. It has been a half year that i didn't go home. I am missing my family very much. Everytime i...

love

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banjiexia Well, I am. When I was studying in university I miss home. And now I work outside I also miss home usually. The Mid-Autumn Day is comming. I hope all my families have a happy festival.

4 Sep 07

Memory Lane: As A Kid Did You Look Forward To School?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 3 Sep 07

Maybe since it's now September and kids are going back to school, it made me reflective of my days as a young kid and was wondering. When you were a kid, say in the elementary stage level, did you look forward to school? I guess...

life

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banjiexia When I was a child,I donn't like go to school.First I donn't like study, and then I donn't like some teachers who are very strict to students. Now I go out from chool and go to work outside, I still miss my vacations.

4 Sep 07

My Husband won the Lottery!

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 3 Sep 07

This eveing My husband won the Lottery, this is so funny, before I knew he won, he kept going back and forth throwing his hands up,I looked at him, I thought he was going crazy for a minute, I go are you alright, what is wrong, he...

funny story

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banjiexia You too are luck! Congratulations!

4 Sep 07

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give me one good reason why u r here at mylot

ranikrishnan @ranikrishnan (1683) • India 3 Sep 07

i am here now again to start some realy thought provoking discussions as i see people starting very vague and mean discussions. for me every opportunity should be used for self improvement and most of all in a most aspiring and...

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banjiexia Firstly, I think it's a good way to make some money,and practice my Enlish.But now I donn't think so. I also can make friends here. It gives me a good stage to show myself.

4 Sep 07

Have you ever done something really silly............

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 3 Sep 07

or embarrassing ........... and regretted it the next morning? OK - might sound like a silly discussion, but I felt like being a little light-hearted - there is too much doom and gloom these days! So - come on- have you ever done...

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banjiexia Well, when I was 13 years old. One day my brother told me that it taste good to put sugar in the duck soup, and I trusted him. I put sugar in the soup and drink it, and you know the result,the whole families all knew that. Today they still told the stories...

3 Sep 07

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how do you keep yourself AWAKE at night?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 2 Sep 07

no mistake with the word here my friends. its how do you keep awake and not put yourself into sleep! and because of what?? not coz of work nor study but a tv program! ^__^;; sunday night. I was supposed to be on bed early...

hero

jet li

keeping awake at night

sleeping late

stretching

watching tv

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banjiexia Coffee or tea. But it is not good for your health to drink too much. I think the best way is to have a nap each 1 or 2 hours.

3 Sep 07

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How hard is it for you to say "I am sorry"

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 3 Sep 07

Do you find it hard to say you are sorry? I know for me it depends on the situation. I was taught young that apologies are a very good thing and though they may seem to make us small they really lift us up and the person whom...

apologies

peace

reconciliation

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banjiexia You are right.People should learn to say"I am sorry".It seems that you are a loser, but in face you are the winner

3 Sep 07

Any suggestions of why I can buy for my Best Friend?

BlueAngelRS @BlueAngelRS (2899) • Canada 29 Aug 07

I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions of a special gift that I could buy my best friend to show her how much she means to me and how her being there for me has helped me so very very much.. As all of you know I...

blueangelrs

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banjiexia You are luck,you have such a good freind. Maybe you could make something for her by yourself. Or, you can do something that she want to do before, to make her dreams come true.

30 Aug 07

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Why do some rich people leave their wealth to their pets?

faith210 @faith210 (11224) • Philippines 29 Aug 07

I have heard stories about wealthy people leaving so much of their wealth to their beloved pets and a small portion to their relatives. I have just read one in the internet today. However, I do wonder why some people would choose...

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banjiexia There are many reasons for that. Some people maybe lonely, and their ralatives cann't be along with them except their pets. Maybe pets are important for some people, I have heard that a pig had saved its master.Maybe......

30 Aug 07

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Coffee!

Riptide @Riptide (2755) • United States 29 Aug 07

I love coffee, yes I do! I think coffee is very versatile, You can drink it sweet or not, put cream in it or black. Make cappuccino out of it or espresso. It's the kind of drink that can be made to suit anybodies taste I like...

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banjiexia I love coffee too,and I like to add sugar in it. But if I stopped drinking it, I will feel downhearted, I think I am addicted to it.

30 Aug 07

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At what age should a child know how to tie shoes?

Lifez2short @Lifez2short (4962) • United States 29 Aug 07

I have 4 small kids at home 3 of which are going to start school tomorrow. My 8 and 7 year olds know how to tie there shoes. But my 5 year old does not know how to it. I have been trying to teach her but she gets so upset with...

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banjiexia Maybe 6 years old,if he can do it well.

30 Aug 07

Would you eat chocolate covered grasshoppers?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 29 Aug 07

I love chocolate!! But would I be tempted to eat a grasshopper dipped in chocolate. I will try anything once. I would probably have to eat without looking at it though.Because I'm not sure I would like to see the insides of a...

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banjiexia Well,I haven't eat chocolate covered grasshoppers before, but maybe I'll try, just curious about the taste.

30 Aug 07

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