barbie0816

@barbie0816 (20)

Age 40

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Studying while Working

mathgadiano @mathgadiano (166) • Philippines 25 Jul 11

I did this crazy thing in my life during one summer, I have to find a job to be able not to live the city for one reason, I have to be with one of my friend and that's the only way I can be with that friend. I find the job in a...

jobs

students

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barbie0816 hi mathgadiano,you know what I do understand how you felt when you started working and at the same time studying. I've been doing that for so long,since I started college.I worked at night and go to school in the morning. I was a vocalist of a band then as the...

26 Jul 11

How to make a decision wisely?

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 26 Jul 11

Decision making is very important to us because if we take wrong decision then our life will be ruined. In our daily life, we need to make many decisions, so we are unable to escape from making decision. Some decision can makes us...

decision

decision making

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barbie0816 myfb2009 hello...yes your right that making decision is always part of our daily life that we should think about for several times before we decide.But you ask of what things to be considered,first what consequences you might encounter?,is there anybody will...

26 Jul 11

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fake friends: how do you feel when a friend talks behind your back??

viele21 @viele21 (33) • Philippines 24 Jul 11

friends are the people whom you can trust your life with, whom you share your secrets with, and who sees the good inside you.. friends are there to tell you what is wrong about you to correct you, because they care for you.....

backstabbers

fake friends

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barbie0816 hi ms.viele21,it was so sad that you don't even know that the one you treated as a friend were saying or writing something behind your back.you mentioned that you haven't confronted him yet to think that you found out something.I would suggest that much better...

24 Jul 11

Mama's boy

maezee @maezee (41916) • United States 12 Jul 11

Have you ever dated a mama's boy, a daddy's girl? I had a fleeting prospect with this guy, who's mom I have known forever - through work and as a family friend. I hung out with this guy a few times, on a non-dating basis (just as...

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barbie0816 I'd already experienced having a mama's boy bf...and you know what I can't take it..We've been partners for about 9 mos... trying to handle all the situation most specially with his mom,but it didn't last because often times he told me that his mom would not...

13 Jul 11

about pimples !! help !!!!!

rbose621 @rbose621 (54) 28 Jun 11

Guys , i am a 16- year old regular school going boy ! As i am a teen i am growing many pimples on my face , it looks ridiculous , ! About 6 months back i went to a dermatologist who gave me some antibiotics and a cream .. but it...

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barbie0816 Hey...u know what at your age its really normal that you do have pimples.Same as I am before.But I did not used creams or anything for it.Reminder #1 you should have a better sleep,#2 just wash your face regularly but don't use anything that will harm your...

28 Jun 11

Swim lesson yes or no?

tink91879 @tink91879 (742) • United States 26 Jun 11

I have two children 8 and 5. We lived in WA state their whole life and lets just say you dont swim much there. We recently moved to San Diego. We have a comunity pool and my kids want to go. They have swam in pools, we have taught...

children

family

life

questions and answers

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barbie0816 Yes parents can teach their children the way they want to,but it is much better that they will be guided by the instructor because they were trained and being paid for that.Parents can just guide them after their session for a review.

27 Jun 11

Should i stay or not?

sunnystarfish @sunnystarfish (210) • Philippines 26 Jun 11

Currently I am working for three years now in this company. Though at first the salary was promising and the job is what i really wanted to do. So I stayed with them. But recently, salary increase, bonuses, allowances were not...

job

salary

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barbie0816 Your right that the employee should receive whatever they deserve for doing their job,but if you feel and you think that your company just make a lot of promises and nothing happens,its better to file resignation then look for better one.If you feel that your...

27 Jun 11

do you require your children to sleep during afternoon?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 24 Jun 11

Good day Fellow Mylotters, During weekdays, my brother and his wife requires their children to go asleep during afternoon. Since the kids are waking-up too early during weekdays, so they require and pushes their children to...

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barbie0816 For me its fine to push kids to sleep in the afternoon.I was trained that way during my childhood.The reasons was too freshen' our mind before the time we make our assignments.then by 7pm in the evening we need to take a sleep because we need to wake up early...

24 Jun 11

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Do You Still Remember Your First Mobile Phone!

Jellrey @axlrate7 (1405) • Philippines 24 Jun 11

I still remember our first mobile phone back on 2002, it's called bosch, but I forget now the unit... We buy it in about P 2,000.00, not a brand new, just second hand... After we buy it, were excited to use it and explore it...

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barbie0816 yah I still remember the first time I got a cellphone..It was a gift form my mom..The brand name was Philip Savvy,the shape is like a soap.I hurriedly tell my friends that i do have one.It was an issue during our high school days because not all the students...

24 Jun 11

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do you donate money to people

natliegleb @natliegleb (5173) • India 23 Jun 11

when some charity people ask you to donate some money,will you do it instantly and how much would you donate and what is the cause for which you donate?

donate

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people

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barbie0816 I do have my own charity works.Its just that I gave it to those who badly need it.There are times that I don't believe the others who will ask for a coin or goods.For me to be satisfied and sure that it will be given to those in need I conduct my own.I just...

23 Jun 11

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Coffee may protect against Alzheimer disease

ravisivan @ravisivan (14082) • India 22 Jun 11

My mother when she was alive use to drink coffee four or five times a day, of course less quantity each time. Somewhere I was told that more coffee means more caffeine, more caffeine means more Blood pressure, more blood...

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barbie0816 That's a very good news...my mom and I used to drink coffee 4-5 times a day...Especially if we are not feeling well... I would suggest and share this news with my other friends...

22 Jun 11

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Do you know anyone with a health illness due to smoking?

dont_pick_your_nose @dont_pick_your_nose (2279) • Australia 22 Jun 11

I wonder how many of us our personally effected by the health risks associated to smoking. how has this effected your life? [b]Does this effect your opinion on smoking? Do you or anyone in your family suffer from an illness...

health

illness

smoking

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barbie0816 My father is a smoker,e never quit ever since he started trying it.He has lung problem but this does not bother him, even he was rushed to the hospital several times because of it. Like my father,I myself is also a smoker.I've started smoking since I was a...

22 Jun 11

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Do you buy new books or second hand

kripa_db @kripa_db (578) • India 19 Jun 11

I do not really mind buying second hand books. If it is in good condition i prefer second hand as it also saves me money. Only if it is one of those books that i really must read as soon as it has come out i go for a new one. Else...

books

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barbie0816 honestly speaking I do prefer to buy second hand book rather than buying for a new one.Aside from that often times I just borrow my classmates book in have it xerox.Being so practical is not bad.I'm fourth year college now but ever since I never bought a new...

19 Jun 11

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what life means for you?

melgrace @melgrace (46) • Philippines 18 Jun 11

I may still be young and naïve but I believe that life is worth everything. For me, it's not just about having a relationship, companionship, good friends or maybe a job that you like, if you are lucky. Some people will settle for...

life

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barbie0816 Life has a lot of meaning..For me I can call it "LIFE" if I did something that will make it better.If I struggle for it,if I faces the obstacle and solved it in a positive way.Its just how you handle it and fight for you to have it. The key for a better life...

19 Jun 11

My class just started!!

grace24 @grace24 (1049) • Philippines 16 Jun 11

Okay, Last monday my class just started. I'm a little bit nervous that time because I didn't know who my classmates are. I'm ok in the new section where I belong until someone knock on the door because he's late. He is familiar to...

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barbie0816 I would like to suggest that just don't mind those people who makes your day miserable. Try to focus on some other things that you will gain a lot.. You will just waste your time if you'll give much attention to them. Just focus on your studies,join the club...

16 Jun 11

what was the biggest struggle in your life?

soccerbai123 @soccerbai123 (274) • Philippines 14 Jun 11

When I was 16, I started college with a degree of bachelor of secondary education. Everything was doing good but somehow, everthing fell apart when my parents could not pay for my tuition. I applied as a working student with a...

life

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barbie0816 Since I was in high school I was called " walking RTW" ready to wear clothes,because i'm selling all those with my teachers,classmate,their parents,and in our neighborhood.This just started when my mom and dad separated.My mom is just a housewife.And i'm the...

14 Jun 11

How much is enough school allowance for high school students?

rgreentea @rgreentea (96) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

Hello! Every year students ask for a raise in their school allowance, and I sometimes think that parents are giving more than enough money, because kids have so much savings, and can buy nice things from this. This allowance also...

allowance

school

students

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barbie0816 I myself hasn't received allowances when I was in high school aside for the amount that we need to pay for exams or contribution in school or in a particular clubs.Its because my mom used to prepare food to bring and our school is just nearby.But I think for...

13 Jun 11

Do prefer sleeping with music?

christine888 @christine888 (303) • Philippines 12 Jun 11

When I was in high school I always hated to sleep with background noise. I prefer to sleep with a silent ambiance until I started college where I have to adopt a new environment. I was staying in a boarding house just a bed spacer...

music

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barbie0816 I'm so sad to hear that but the only thing that i can suggest is for you to put something in your ear to lessen the sound that you hear every night.I'm just worried about your health because it may affect your studies if you don't have enough sleep.Or try to...

12 Jun 11

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