beijingwhitecat

@beijingwhitecat (5)

China • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Fear: what is it you fear most?

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 2 Apr 08

I read of a young school boy who killed himself because he bungled his exams all because he was afraid his father will beat him if he finds out about his poor grades. The father was dejected on learning of his son’s death. Fear is...

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beijingwhitecat i fear losing job. i just had a 2 years old boy, can't afford no incomes. at this stage, losing job is my biggest worry

3 Apr 08

my sufferring-my pre-mature son

beijingwhitecat @beijingwhitecat (5) • China 20 Mar 08

I am beijingwhitecat, a new member of MyLot. I am 35, had my baby son 2 years ago. he was born when he was 33 weeks. he was 2100g and 47cm, stayed in ICU for 10 days. he is doing very well now but motor development. he is very...

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beijingwhitecat thank you very sharing your experience with me. it's encouraging. I always feel guilty for having a premature boy. To my boy, it's unfair to him for being much slower than others. I am scared if he can't walk. that's why i can't cool myself down. I pray...

3 Apr 08

Adviser????????

luhar2001 @luhar2001 (48) • India 10 Mar 08

Hi Friends! Would like to know whether it has happened to you or not.Sometimes you give advice to others in a given situation but when the same situation arise with you,you act differently.Is it easier to give advice to others...

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beijingwhitecat Yes, it is. when you give your advice to others, you stand as a third person, but when you are in the same situation, you are yourself, can't see the whole picture; and the most likely people like to sort their own problems in the familiar way.

21 Mar 08

my sufferring-my pre-mature son

beijingwhitecat @beijingwhitecat (5) • China 20 Mar 08

I am beijingwhitecat, a new member of MyLot. I am 35, had my baby son 2 years ago. he was born when he was 33 weeks. he was 2100g and 47cm, stayed in ICU for 10 days. he is doing very well now but motor development. he is very...

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1 person