bellarisa1

@bellarisa1 (45)

United States • Age 54

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How do you find this movie?

cheverlie @cheverlie (237) • Philippines 1 Jul 09

How do you rate this movie(10 is the highest)? Do you find it romantic or something unique?

the notebook

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bellarisa1 This has got to be one of the most touching movies. Its definitely one for the true romantic. Everyone should hope to be in love that deeply and find a love that will sacrifice for you in the end as in this movie. Totally a 10 in my book.

1 Jul 09

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How life has changed... Remember when..

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 1 Jul 09

[b]Remember when...we dressed up neat to go to school? When there were no drugs? No drive-bys? When a neighbor felt free to whoop you if you did wrong, and if your parents found out about it, they'd whoop you again? When there...

changed

childhood

safety

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bellarisa1 When I was growing up my brother and I had a pair of 10-speed bicycles. We used to ride all around town and play video games at the corner stores. I was 8 and he was 11. Now when I see kids running around town that age I think to myself, "where is their...

1 Jul 09

How many friends do you have on facebook?

Happysunshinelily @Happysunshinelily (15) 29 Jun 09

I have less than 100 friends on facebook and they are all of my real friends; I dont add anybody that Idon't know or just random people on the internet; what about you?

facebook

friends

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bellarisa1 I have only about 20 friends. These are the people I am closest with and actually care about what they do on a daily basis. I have actually refused friend requests because they were from people like my friends realtor. Why? I'm not buying a house! I don't...

29 Jun 09

Has Anyone Used The Duct Tape Method To.....

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 29 Jun 09

Remove plantar warts? When I was about eleven years old, I somehow developed two large plantar warts on my big toe...my GP doctor managed to take care of them, none too painless I might add as he gave me local...

duct tape for plantar warts

painful

plantar warts

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bellarisa1 Okay folks, it seriously works!! I never had a wart and got this spot on my thumb and wasn't sure what it was so I went to the doctor. Much to my dismay it was a wart. He suggest the duct tape and Tea Tree Oil. I tried it. My husband laughed at me and thought...

29 Jun 09

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friends with benefits

jenniferyvette @jenniferyvette (137) • Philippines 29 Jun 09

hmm what does this really mean to you people??? can anyone just help me differentiate the meaning of more than friends and friends wityh benefits??? I just can't get it???

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bellarisa1 I've always seen it as a relationship without commitment. It usually gives either party an opportunity the keep the "friend" close and still see other people. No commitment - no one gets hurt (or at least that's what they think).

29 Jun 09

do you find your tired if you sleep for 12 hours + or less than 8 ?

Brennahlove @Brennahlove (11) • Canada 29 Jun 09

i do, all the time and i was just wondering if thats the same for others..

sleep

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bellarisa1 I'm an 8 hour girl. I find that if I sleep longer than 8 hours I actually feel more tired. Less than 8 I can function but I tend to get a little grouchy. More that than I feel lazy!

29 Jun 09

CAn healthy foods be "too" healthy?

macdingolinger @macdingolinger (10385) • United States 29 Jun 09

I just answered a discussion on the benefits of green tea and how good it actually is for you. I believe this to be true. However, my daughter's doctor told her that she should not consume green tea while she's pregnant because it...

grreen and herbal teas

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bellarisa1 I think so. Our bodies were designed to cleanse themselves and certain toxins/bacteria are actually useful to maintain proper health. However, I think with the average American diet that we do need to detoxify but everything in moderation. I think we can get...

29 Jun 09

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do you mind getting older

doormouse @doormouse (4599) 28 Jun 09

My friend said she saw a grey hair on me the other day,i don't mind,it probably sounds weird but i've been waiting for some grey hairs to appear,i'm 32 and some of my friends got their first grey hair in their early 20's.I don't...

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bellarisa1 Given the choice I'd rather go grey than bald!! I think people shouldn't try to hide their age. We should be proud of who we are and who we have become. Age and maturity should go hand in hand. Grow old gracefully....right?

28 Jun 09

girl

moneymaker2009 @moneymaker2009 (116) • India 28 Jun 09

What do u think of the girl who never wear bra ? when she goes out to office or shopping...how

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bellarisa1 I think its tacky and I'm sure gravity will catch up with her a lot quicker than most.

28 Jun 09

Infomercial Pitchman Billy Mays Has Died at Age 50

Idlewild @Idlewild (6090) • United States 28 Jun 09

Billy Mays, the bearded commercial pitchman known for promoting OxiClean and other products, died this morning at age 50 in his home in Tampa, Florida Sunday morning. No foul play is suspected....

billy mays

billy mays dead

billy mays dies

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bellarisa1 He was just on Conan O'brien the other night and it was so funny. I feel so bad for his family but I seriously won't miss his commercials. I can't tell you how many times I've fallen asleep with the TV on then had nightmares of people yelling at me only to...

28 Jun 09

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Where Is your Favourite Place To Go When You Just Want To Read For A Few Hours?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28953) • Canada 27 Jun 09

When I want to take my book and escape for a while, I like to go up the street to the Second Cup Cafe. There are Second Cups all over Canada. The one in Guelph is just up the street (a straight shot!) from my apartment, about a...

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bellarisa1 I used to love to curl up on a cozy chair and read until my eyes blurred. Now I have a 4 year old and a 3 month old and I don't seem to get to read anything besides childrens books. Anytime my children see me get comfortable that's their cue to start up. So...

28 Jun 09

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loves makes...........

moneymaker2009 @moneymaker2009 (116) • India 28 Jun 09

Can you still love each other when you are ninety? only for true lovers.....

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bellarisa1 I think love takes on many different forms throughout the course of a relationship. Example, my grandparents were married almost 60 years when my grandmother passed away. Before she died my grandfather said he was "done with women". To the outsider their...

28 Jun 09

Diet

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 27 Jun 09

My husband is on a diet and i find it very funny that he can eat a salad then he eats a curry and then he had half a cake.Just to mention that was just one meal for him that took an hour to eat,that is two days meals to me and...

diet

food

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bellarisa1 I wish I had that problem. My husband is a health/diet fanatic. It makes it hard when the time comes that you want to eat a piece of cake and he gives you the evil eye. But seriously, its easier to diet and keep active when you're doing it together. Instead of...

28 Jun 09

How to HELP my breastfed baby accept the bottle again??

lulumartin @lulumartin (963) • Germany 28 Jun 09

Hi my friends, I am here to seek for some advices or suggestions, you can also share with me your experience. My breastfed baby was ok with the bottle before,but he refused to be fed by bottle from third...

bottle feed

breastfeed

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bellarisa1 You may need to make adjustments to the bottles nipple. Sometimes its the shape they don't like then other times it has to do with how fast (or slow) the milk comes out. Try using a medium flow nipple. Also if your baby is used to breast feeding and you are...

28 Jun 09

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problem guys

moneymaker2009 @moneymaker2009 (116) • India 26 Jun 09

My female dog is in heat my male dog keeps chasing and barking all night,are there any remedies to keep him quiet. i hear there is a pill for the female dog to

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bellarisa1 The only solution we had with our dogs until they were "fixed" was to seperate them. We had a friend that would keep the male their house until the female was finished. Otherwise it was torture to hear the male yearning for the female. Unless you plan to breed...

26 Jun 09

How long would it take you to give up?

pinklemonade @pinklemonade (486) 26 Jun 09

If you kept trying to make contact with a friend but they simply ignored you or took nearly a week to get back to everything you said, how long do you think it would take you to lose interest? Or would you just keep going and hope...

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bellarisa1 I think you have to know who your friends are and what the nature of your friendship is. I have friends that if they don't respond to me in a timely manner I know something is wrong and I have others that weeks will go by and I'm not concerned because this is...

26 Jun 09

Do you will use computer in your pregnant term?

wzsj0501 @wzsj0501 (157) • China 22 Jun 09

It is no wonder that use computer is bad for a pregnant woman,especially to the little baby.But nowadays,many mother have to use computer to keep their work.It is so bad a situation.if you will pregnant in the future,do you choose...

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bellarisa1 I have two beautiful and perfect daughters and I used the computer and cell phone the entire time during both pregnancies. The only warnings my doctor gave me in regards to using the computer was to make sure that when I was sitting at my desk that I use...

26 Jun 09

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When women sway there hips.....

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 22 Jun 09

oh i just find women so lovely when the sway there hips it shows femininity ohhhhh when they walk that walk well I was just wondering do they intentionally do it or its just natural for them to sway it the most lovely creature...

elegant

sway

women

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bellarisa1 I got to tell ya, I have large hips and a big butt. I consider this a curse but my husband considers it heaven on earth (his words...not mine). He has told me on numerous occassions that I sway when I walk. Being perfectly honest I have no idea that I'm doing...

26 Jun 09

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Polgyny

imgrandma12 @imgrandma12 (677) • United States 26 Jun 09

I have heard of men having more than one wife How many of you can live this way? I know some can and do I am not holding nothing against them but what is it called when a women has more than one husband have any of you heard of...

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bellarisa1 I've never heard of a woman having more than one husband. First I don't think any man would tolerate living second to another man in a house and what woman would want more than one husband. I have one and thats quite enough for me!!

26 Jun 09

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