blackhawk089

@blackhawk089 (4)

United States • Age 39

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Moving forward with someone that cheated on you

nakshep32 @nakshep32 (7) • United States 19 Jun 12

Its very difficult to trust a person who has lied to u and cheated on top of that but when you're married its for better or worse right? ITs very difficult to regain trust when someone has betrayed you is their someone else...

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blackhawk089 My friend I have experience this personally very recently. In fact everything happened over a course of 4 months. For me it would depend on the circumstances whether or not I could forgive, and in my particular case after everything was on the table I forgave...

19 Jun 12

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What are the most important lessons you’ve learned in life?

kukueye @kukueye (1759) • Malaysia 19 Jun 12

No work no money.Do not trust people wholehearthy, people will change in due time.Keep your mouth shut is better.Health is important.Time gone is time lost.No planing means plan for disaster.Better safe than sorry.Simple life is...

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blackhawk089 Trust is a two way street. Trust your gut, even if it ends up being wrong its better to go with it. (because the times I didn't, I was hurt more than ever.....) Love is not enough in marriage, you need commitment, which is why we get married in the first place...

19 Jun 12

Church (Religious) People vs People who just have faith

AidaLily @AidaLily (1450) • United States 14 Jun 12

Feel free to skip down to "Anyway" if you are easily offended and don't like things questioned about the bible. Now, I have been doing a lot of thinking and just reading about different issues and looking...

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blackhawk089 1.) I think that this could be entirely true for those you have encountered. However, this is completely subjective and relative to ones environment, and has no impact on the ideas of a belief system. 2.) I think you should think about tithing in a different...

19 Jun 12

A World of Difference: Marrying One of your Faith and one Out of it

joevanosa @joevanosa (303) • Philippines 19 Jun 12

My girlfriend and I love each other very much. But our religious beliefs stand in the way. She belongs to one faith, I to another. And we each expect not to turn our back on each one's religion. We are also aware of the problems...

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blackhawk089 I understand your struggle my friend! I would strongly recommend that you examine your own faith very diligently, and your girlfriends faith. How serious are each of you about your faith? Why do you believe what you believe? From where does your religion...

19 Jun 12