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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 20 Apr 07

what does that make him??? Quite the father figure, isn't he. 'You are a rude, thoughtless, little pig.' He doesn't even know whether she's 11 or 12! What a jerk.

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beaniegdi He may have an anger problem but surely he must know that already so why hasn't he had treatment. He must be able to afford the best treatment around. I know we all lose it sometimes with our children but for a grown man to speak like this to a little girl is...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 20 Apr 07

what does that make him??? Quite the father figure, isn't he. 'You are a rude, thoughtless, little pig.' He doesn't even know whether she's 11 or 12! What a jerk.

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elisa812 Yeah, I think he was a complete jerk. I don't really think there's any excuse for the way he acted. I know he was mad, but he's an adult and he threw a big temper tantrum like a little kid!

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 16 Apr 07

Why, at 5:00, do they still have some of the shooting victims in place when they were slain??? It's not like the shooter is going to go to trial where evidence will be needed, as he is also dead. Don't you think they owe the...

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virginia campus shooting

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gingisnapz You know, I'm wondering the same thing about why the rest of the campus wasn't warned. I can understand if they didn't want a huge ruckus. I don't really want to judge, but had the campus been warned in some way when the first shooting happened, perhaps...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 12 Apr 07

I have a perrennial garden that's starting to 'spring' to life. I've never used Miracle Gro or anything like that. Does fertilizing really make a difference? What kind would you reccommend, if so.

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rhinoboy It's usually worth adding a little something to the soil to replace what the plants take from it. As willowlady says above, you should be careful what you use, as some fertilisers ingredients promote more leaf & stem growth. I think this depends on the...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 12 Apr 07

I have a perrennial garden that's starting to 'spring' to life. I've never used Miracle Gro or anything like that. Does fertilizing really make a difference? What kind would you reccommend, if so.

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Willowlady A good compost could be all your plants need. The danger with fertilizing is that if you use too much you will get along of leaves and no blooms. So be careful and find some compost which will help more over time. Good luck gardening.

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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maildumpster No you are not wrong to expect support from your friend. ESPECIALLY since you did the same for her. I know how hard losing someone dear to you is. I have said a prayer for your father. Wish there was more I could do for you. Gosh I can't believe your...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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butterflydawn Sorry to hear about your father. Even if you don't have a real close relationship, they are still a part of you, and still your parent. It's hard to lose anyone you love, much less a parent. As for your friend, perhaps she is unsure of how to help you on a...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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wachit14 First of all, I'm so sorry for the news about your father. I also was told that my dad had a very short time to live and he passed away less than a week later after I was told so I had no time to prepare myself for the loss. Thankfully, I had my family around...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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brandonmagsino "i cant stop cryinh". hey, i would too if i were you. i am an only child. although i do have a very, very huge family on both mother and father's side. i wouldnt know what to do if one of them passes away. i am one of those who still lives with his parents...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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minty3 I feel and understand you plight very clearly. Its not wrong to expect same from her but unfortunately she doesn't feel for you the way you feel for her and its human. Instead of hurting yourself by her attitudes and actions towards, your best bet should be to...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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venkyvenky Problem is the small gap between expectation and reality. So either expect less or accept and go with the reality. My opinion would be just do whatever u can. dont hurt urself for doing anything to that friend who ahs not helped u. But do whatever u r able...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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Marie2473 I have to say in her defence that she probably is scared and that she doesn´t know how she should behave and what to say.. However she should be there dfor you, no excuse for that. Even just sitting there holding your hand...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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shila07 Its quite sad part to know that your father has very little time. Its sad news for all of us. FRiend, your friend might got busy with her works so she didnot get time to call you on time. WHy not call her and ask her what she is doing. I would say that...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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joodzki6 if you do something to a friend or to someone, don't expect something in return or that she'll/he'll do the same thing you did for her/him. try to talk to her, maybe she has her reason of doing such. just try to open up with her, and if she do nothing..it's...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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uiwwitch I'm so sorry to hear about your father. It's always hard to learn that you are losing a loved one. regarding your friend, it's good that you openly supported her when she needed you. That's what friends are for, to be there in times of adversity. I don't blame...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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DavidReedy No you are not "wrong" in the universal ethics/morals sense, but you are wrong, in that wanting it and not recieving it is killing you inside... Life is tough to bear, and to you go my prayers, but ultimately, in the end, you must admit, this lady is no friend...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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bad1981 Nope you arent wrong at all. She doesnt sound like mucn of a true friend to me when she is not giving you back what you have given to her.

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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haedescanes I'm really sorry for your dad. I\m suer it is tough but God has a reason for everything. with regards to your friend, don't blame her if she is not the type who comforts you evry now and then. maybe she has her own reasons. Learn to accept everything and...

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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jmp824 Don't expect something in return in all the good things that you've done to others. God knows all your work and Hes watching over you. Take comfort in God's love and you will be satisfied.

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bonbon50 @bonbon50 (659) • United States 10 Apr 07

I learned on Easter that my father doesn't have very long to live. My mother has already passed and I don't have much family. I was very upset when I found out he was in the hospital and called my best friend crying, asking her to...

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gracew I can figure out now that you are not just upset over your dad's condition but also emotional about your friend who couldn't at this crucial time come to your aid due to certain reasons not disclosed. But I would like to offer a word of encouragement as i was...

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