bonnessei

@bonnessei (35)

United States • Age 61

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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How would you respond to rude, race-related comments?

writerightmom @writerightmom (148) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am a black woman, and husband is white. We have 2 gorgeous boys together, one is 6 and the other is 4 months. I am getting so tired of people's rude comments when I go out with my boys alone. People ask if they're my foster...

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bonnessei Ahh, mom....(((hugs))) to you and your family. It's just such a shame that we live in a world full of inconsiderate idiots. Well, stay strong sister! :) Not all of us are morons. Some of us can look past the external that may be very different than...

2 Dec 06

Ferret Nail Clipping!

Jadedgreeneyes @Jadedgreeneyes (16) • United States 12 Nov 06

So, we've only had our ferret for a few weeks and I've yet to cut his nails. I have the clippers and I'm hoping one of you has the advice on how best to do it. I've learned that ferrets don't sit still very much so I'm a little...

ferret help

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bonnessei yep...that's what we do too. Usually my husband holds the tube of ferritone, sort of like a bottle, and I just clip away. Just hold the paw very tightly (so you don't twist the nail when you clip it) and be careful not to cut into the quick (the pink part)....

1 Dec 06

I'm addicted to Pepsi...anyone else?

Kscott @Kscott (634) • United States 22 Nov 06

I drink way to much Pepsi, and will probably pay for it someday...but I love it...how about you

colas

pepsi

soft drinks

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bonnessei I'm right there with ya girl! I don't smoke, rarely drink alcohol and hardly drink coffee anymore, but don't get between me and my Pepsi. I can't be responsible for my actions... ;)

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I am asian having dark skin would like to lighten it

loveridge @loveridge (1) • Pakistan 1 Dec 06

Asian origion ,having dark skin, would like to make it lighter or whiter

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bonnessei I guess you could always ask Michael Jackson.... Yikes! That wasn't very nice.... heheheeee ;)

1 Dec 06

I don't have friends in mylot. Would you like to be my friend?

romanopy @romanopy (40) • Brazil 1 Dec 06

I'm looking for new friends...

friend

looking

mylot

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bonnessei Hi there romanopy, I'm new here too, so put me on your new friends list too. We newbies should stick together! lol

1 Dec 06

Ever fall asleep with your contacts in?

angela_allen @angela_allen (406) • United States 8 Mar 09

I hate when this happens. Since I have been pregnant, and therefore more tired, I find myself taking naps almost everyday. The problem is I always have my contacts in...I wake up with red dry eyes. I don't have any glasses...

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bonnessei I hate when this happens. Since I have been pregnant, and therefore more tired, I find myself taking naps almost everyday. The problem is I always have my contacts in...I wake up with red dry eyes. I don't have any glasses right now, so I am always wearing...

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What's your pet's name?

browneyedfatima @browneyedfatima (481) • Philippines 1 Dec 06

Mine is Babe. Ok he's my boyfriend but who says your pet has to be an animal only? I hope he's not reading this though..

boyfriend

names

pet

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bonnessei My cat's name is Sable. My ferret's name is Ferris...yes, like Ferris Bueller. And I have two long-haired miniature daschunds named Maddie and Molly.

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What city & state you live?

wwjdn2007 @wwjdn2007 (231) • United States 1 Dec 06

Fort Worth, Tx Love it here can't wait to buy a house

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bonnessei I live in Charleston, South Carolina and have for many years. It's a beautiful city filled with fabulous people. We have great restaurants and shopping, nice beaches and warm weather....not to mention lots of southern hospitality. Come on down and visit...

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What vehicle do you own?

myownsn @myownsn (198) • United States 1 Dec 06

i own a chevy malibu 96 how about you?

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bonnessei I have a pontiac bonneville SSEi (hence the screen name...lol), a dodge dakota truck and an isuzu impulse.

1 Dec 06

friendship

beccablueeyes @beccablueeyes (17) • United States 1 Dec 06

When and how do you stop being friends with someone? I have been friends with someone for 22 years. We have helped each other through some really though times but lately she has become more of a fair weather friend. When she does...

friendship

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bonnessei Awww...thanks, waiter. You looking for a new friend? LOL ;)

1 Dec 06

Jokes & one liners

kishthedude @kishthedude (1320) • India 30 Nov 06

Jokes to confirm that I'm a Fool (One Liners) I've been doing a lot of abstract painting lately, extremely abstract. No brush, no paint, no canvas, I just think about it. My watch is three hours fast, and I can't fix it. So...

jokes

map of the world

oneliners

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bonnessei berlin, I refer you to my previous 3 posts. Maybe they better fit your definition of "one liners". Can't stop the creative flow when one is on a roll...

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Do you ever have a "Bad Hair Day"?

ChewySpree @ChewySpree (1832) • United States 1 Dec 06

My hair is really out of control and it's driving me crazy. The past couple of times I have gotten a hair cut, it doesn't seem to sit right. Then when it grows out a little it just goes crazy. I am taking pre-natal vitamins...

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bonnessei Ha! Are you kidding me? I would love to meet the woman who answers "no" to this one... lol Women are more subject to this too, because your hair's behavior, good or bad, is directly related to your hormones. Even our hair is hormonal... Hair with PMS?...

1 Dec 06

Colors of a room. Which do you prefer?

Mommamea @Mommamea (1215) • United States 1 Dec 06

I am trying to repaint some of the rooms in my house. I hear about using different colors to set moods in a room. What colors make you feel better or worse in a room? Are you truly affected by the colors of a room? What colors...

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bonnessei I could work with pretty much anything except plain white. It's just so boring. Your mood is definitely affected by color, so I would encourage you to choose wisely. Pick a few samples and throw them on the wall. You should test them in your own home,...

1 Dec 06

Username ( Describe It )

tjmoola @tjmoola (1859) • United States 30 Nov 06

Well, first off my username is tjmoola, The "t" is for Timothy, The "j" is for James ( My first and middle name. ) Moola is another word for money or cash, The term is mostly used on the Internet only. So there you have it...

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bonnessei I've had mine since 1993 - the year I graduated from college. It's "bonnessei", which basically is the car that I wanted so badly: a Pontiac Bonneville SSEi. Not the most creative, but definitely an obsession at the time. Funny thing is...I still drive one....

1 Dec 06

MS-Dos was not created by Bill Gates or by his Microsoft Corporation!!!

Arunvkumarkc @Arunvkumarkc (32) • India 12 Mar 07

You people may think that MS-Dos (Microsoft Disk Operating System) was created by Microsoft Corporation!!! Hey that is not true!! It was created by Seattle Computer in November 1979 and it was known as QDOS, stood for Quick and...

bonnessei You people may think that MS-Dos (Microsoft Disk Operating System) was created by Microsoft Corporation!!! Hey that is not true!! It was created by Seattle Computer in November 1979 and it was known as QDOS, stood for Quick and Dirty Operating System....

12 Mar 07

Username ( Describe It )

tjmoola @tjmoola (1859) • United States 30 Nov 06

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bonnessei ooooohhhh....I love boiled peanuts! You must not be from the south, because goodness knows we love our peanuts boiled down here. lol

1 Dec 06

the strip club

foreverstl @foreverstl (127) • United States 14 Nov 06

Should I let my man go to the strip club or not?

love

men

relationships

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bonnessei Wow...this is a loaded question. Some might argue about the terminology used...should you "LET" him go? Personally, I don't "LET" my husband do anything, and he certainly doesn't use that language with me. But that aside, this is a decision that only you...

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Surfing for Cash

cashminer @cashminer (3) • Malaysia 5 Mar 09

I got into cash surfing about a month ago. I used to do only PTC before that. I find that I earn more & faster surfing for cash. TE owners pay faster than PTC owners too .. I got paid $15.26 within 2 days, that was 5 days ago....

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bonnessei I got into cash surfing about a month ago. I used to do only PTC before that. I find that I earn more & faster surfing for cash. TE owners pay faster than PTC owners too .. I got paid $15.26 within 2 days, that was 5 days ago. Then, I got paid another $15.85 3...

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When you die, what do you want to happen to you?

Weasel_Sponge @Weasel_Sponge (1069) • Canada 14 Nov 06

Do you wish to have a ceremony or funeral? Would you donate your organs? And do you want to be buried or cremated, and why or why not? My family has always cremated our loved ones, and we don't have funerals-we just never have....

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bonnessei Well, after I die, I hope my friends and family will have one hell of a party to celebrate me. (celebrate my LIFE, of course...NOT my death...lol) I do not want to be cremated. Something about that just grosses me out. Just give me a rockin coffin, and...

1 Dec 06

What do you think of creamation?

margieanneart @margieanneart (26423) • United States 1 Dec 06

My mother in law wanted to be creameted. Then to be sprinkled out at the mountains. We honored her wishes. But, I got sick when I saw the ashes. It wasn't what I expected it to be. I felt so ill. My legs felt like rubber, and I...

creamation

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bonnessei Cremation is definitely a personal choice. It's not something I would choose for myself, but I certainly respect anyone else who chooses to do so. Your reaction sounds very normal to me. Obviously this is not a situation you are faced with every day, and...

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